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ok so i met someone im really attracted to

i met him last week and he wants to go out on a date this week

now here's the question

how far should i take things without seeming like a tease or being a slut but showing that i am interested

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Originally posted by nympho69

ok so i met someone im really attracted to

i met him last week and he wants to go out on a date this week

now here's the question

how far should i take things without seeming like a tease or being a slut but showing that i am interested

I wouldn't consider a reach-around going too far right off the bat...........that's just my opinion, I could be wrong

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I would say that it's best not to have a plan when it comes to this type of stuff ...

just see what happens ...

If things are going well, and you're laughing together and connecting and having a really nice time

-then there is no reason to feel like a slut

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Originally posted by mentasm

I would say that it's best not to have a plan when it comes to this type of stuff ...

just see what happens ...

If things are going well, and you're laughing together and connecting and having a really nice time

-then there is no reason to feel like a slut

thats the approach i normally take and it just doesnt work

i am also curious if most men make judgements because i know i do

for example if a guy immediately tries to kiss me at a club he's a tongue whore and its a turn off

i just wonder if men make these judgements after dates

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Originally posted by nympho69

ok so i met someone im really attracted to

i met him last week and he wants to go out on a date this week

now here's the question

how far should i take things without seeming like a tease or being a slut but showing that i am interested

Just get into a nice kissing session... :D

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Originally posted by spragga25

I'm sure as poop that it's wasn't my natural black ass!!

but i did get to kiss once u tongue whore, haha

what the hell happened to ur dice that nite

oh and my ex got a little jealous when he saw that lol

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Originally posted by nympho69

but i did get to kiss once u tongue whore, haha

what the hell happened to ur dice that nite

oh and my ex got a little jealous when he saw that lol

LOL - I still have "wood" from that kiss! :eek:

I got a new pair of dice (FUCK YOU gabo) and a new game I picked up in England called "Strip Shooter"

Wanna play sometime? As for the ex....he knew what the dice would lead to....he should've been a good sport about it!

:tongue:

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Originally posted by spragga25

See how it goes over the course of the night and if you both clique and seem to have a consenus on it...then shag away...but be cautious!

Dr. Ragga :cool:

agree with dr. ragga :D

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Originally posted by nympho69

thats the approach i normally take and it just doesnt work

i am also curious if most men make judgements because i know i do

for example if a guy immediately tries to kiss me at a club he's a tongue whore and its a turn off

i just wonder if men make these judgements after dates

I don't like the generalization that "men" are a certain type - "Do men make these judgements" -maybe an individual male at a certain time or place is anal about certain things and makes "judgements" ..... maybe some men are more laid-back

I have low self esteem ... so I'm usaully very self-critical ... I try to be open minded and not form a solid opinion right away

I feel that when two people get together, and one person has something in particular in mind -or is busy forming judgements- or worrying about how to act and what to say ... then this prevents people from relaxing and relating on a more genuine -and less superficial- level.

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Originally posted by spragga25

LOL - I still have "wood" from that kiss! :eek:

I got a new pair of dice (FUCK YOU gabo) and a new game I picked up in England called "Strip Shooter"

Wanna play sometime? As for the ex....he knew what the dice would lead to....he should've been a good sport about it!

:tongue:

I lost my dice up some girls ass. I think I was playing the wrong way.

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