sweetie029 Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 I'm going to South Beach next week with my bf.....I've never been there before & I can only imagine how many beautiful people are going to be floating around (not that Im not one of them ) but I don't know if going to South Beach is a good idea for a couple to go any imput ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 Go...and if he behaves himself give him something special and if you behave yourself tell him to give you something special ...do not let fear hold you back from living. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvetgoldmire Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 If you think that beautiful people are going to be too much of a problem for going someplace as a couple then you should either A) Never go anyplace Rerun through your priorities in the relationshipThere are so many beautiful people in the world, and if you fear the trust issue, then the problem ain't South Beach.I say go, have fun, enjoy each other's company, enjoy the beach. Shit, summer is almost over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoke Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 Originally posted by velvetgoldmire There are so many beautiful people in the world, and if you fear the trust issue, then the problem ain't South Beach.Yeah, good call. Even if you're a truly beautiful person, without trust, you'll still end up wondering if your s.o. might find someone who's more their "type."Honesty and trust are the most important elements of any relationship (sexual or not), IMO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 of course its a good idea.. i figure, if the relationship is doomed, it is doomed whether you go away or not so you might as well have some fun. if going to south beach ruins your relationship, it wasnt meant to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trancefigure Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 Originally posted by hoke Honesty and trust are the most important elements of any relationship (sexual or not), IMO. i couldnt agree more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 If he's so untrustworthy and/or you're so insecure, then you shouldn't be worrying about South Beach, you should be worrying about whether or not you two should be in a relationship at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
embodiedhate Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 Originally posted by sweetie029 I'm going to South Beach next week with my bf.....I've never been there before & I can only imagine how many beautiful people are going to be floating around (not that Im not one of them ) but I don't know if going to South Beach is a good idea for a couple to go any imput ?? OK, here's the deal: If you're THAT insecure that you think your guy is just gonna up and cheat on you while YOU'RE BOTH ON VACATION, IN ANOTHER STATE, A THOUSAND MILES FROM HOME, then I seriously suggest that you seek out psychological help, 'cause you have trust issues of a magnitude I haven't seen before. No guy is that fucking stupid. STARING on the other hand, is something you're gonna have to get used to quickly. There's just too much eye candy down there not to.Simple right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted August 14 Author Report Share Posted August 14 I agree with all of you...but I didn't make my point clear enough I guess...aside from the fact there's good looking people down there that is just letting paranoia sink in...I'm thinking stupid things out of boredom (I have nothing else to do so I might as well drive myself crazy)....I don't think my boyfriend is going to cheat on me...what I meant to say was the atmosphere down there is different > >..pretty people....night life etc...now I don't think this is going to be any type of romantic vacation with so much going on and so much to do...I guess what I am or what I was trying to say is this vacation a bad idea in the sense o;f what we are going to be surrounded by ??....chaos & partying Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvetgoldmire Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 Well you don't have to go to any specific place to be romantic. You can walk through the severn rings of hell, and if you're with the right person, the two of you can make a romantic vacation out of it. And a beach is a much easier place to conjour romance then that, so go for it!Fun is fun. I say go and enjoy the chaos (unless you don;t like chaos), and make your own romance. I think you guys will be fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 better yet, get one of those beautiful people from SoBe and have a threesome:3some: ...or get a couple and have a fearsome foursome (theres no smiley for a foursome) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted August 14 Report Share Posted August 14 You need to just relax and have a good time, if something will happen then it will happen. I could understand your anxiety about all those beautiful half nekked women running around all over the place, your man can look but as long as he doesn't touch then everything is ok... If he is gonna cheat on you mine as well know now before getting really serious and marrying him or something... Just have a blast, its gonna happen.. There are worse places you can go like MARDI GRAS. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted August 15 Report Share Posted August 15 Originally posted by sweetie029 I'm going to South Beach next week with my bf.....I've never been there before & I can only imagine how many beautiful people are going to be floating around (not that Im not one of them ) but I don't know if going to South Beach is a good idea for a couple to go any imput ?? I vacation with my b/f to georgeous places all the time. If you guys are inlove and like to be around each other and have fun together then I think it shoudn't matter who's around............ I think being together alone just the two of you relaxing on vacation with do the opposite of what you think. I think it will bring you guys together............. GOOD LUCK and have fun,,,,,,, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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