georgym Posted September 2 Report Share Posted September 2 Yeah, so things with smurfette and I have hit another wall, and we're gonna take a break.It just turns out that she's not ready for a commitment, and no matter how hard we try to make it work, we each want something else out of it. Lately, things seemed to be getting much better. She was calling me more, wanting to go out, and we had a great smurfy time together. But she always seemed to have trouble taking things up a notch, and would often complain of things that weren't going right for her in her life.So i guess, for now, it's not meant to be. Im going to let her be, and hope for the best. But i can't wait for her, so im going to move on...See you all around smurfcountry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted September 2 Report Share Posted September 2 sorry to hear it george... but there are plenty of smurfs in the sea... or something like that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted September 2 Report Share Posted September 2 Originally posted by gmccookny So i guess, for now, it's not meant to be. Im going to let her be, and hope for the best. But i can't wait for her, so im going to move on...i like your attitude, no whining n stuff you know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted September 3 Author Report Share Posted September 3 It's just hard, but I've been telling myself "it's not me", because she's the one that really hasn't been the rational one here. She would beep me for silly things, like how to wear her hair, or what clothes to wear. She told me she liked my advice, and so many other things, but in the end, she told me she wants to be the one to rely on herself, and not rely on someone else so much. So i guess that somewhat explains this, but i still don't understand what went wrong. I guess that's part of breakup's. There's always one side that feels cheated out, or at least at a loss of words . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted September 3 Report Share Posted September 3 Originally posted by gmccookny It's just hard, but I've been telling myself "it's not me", because she's the one that really hasn't been the rational one here. She would beep me for silly things, like how to wear her hair, or what clothes to wear. She told me she liked my advice, and so many other things, but in the end, she told me she wants to be the one to rely on herself, and not rely on someone else so much. So i guess that somewhat explains this, but i still don't understand what went wrong. I guess that's part of breakup's. There's always one side that feels cheated out, or at least at a loss of words . rent the video "high fidelity" by john cusak. seriously, i watched it yesterday and it deals exactly with that what you are going through, and it offers a solution (i don´t mean the obvious one in the film, there is a hidden REAL solution in the film) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 3 Report Share Posted September 3 what is it, because ive seen that movie a couple of times and didnt quite see the secret meaning... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoke Posted September 3 Report Share Posted September 3 Papa Smurf, my good man...Glad to see you're moving on -- it's high time you broke out of this vicious cycle.Best of luck on your quest for a new Smurfette... :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted September 3 Report Share Posted September 3 Alot of us need to break free from our vicious cycle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chula22 Posted September 3 Report Share Posted September 3 HEY GEORGIE BOY!!!LONG TIME NO SPEAK TO! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted September 3 Report Share Posted September 3 george.....u remember what i told u last time...b smart about it this time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted September 3 Report Share Posted September 3 Sorry to hear that smurfy... but I guess it's time for you to move on now....you've been there, and back and forth more than once now and it might just not 'meant to be'.Keep your chin up and I'm sure you'll find yourself some cute smurfette, that appreciates the committment you are able to give to a girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted September 4 Author Report Share Posted September 4 Gosh, thankx for all the support Now its Tuesday night, and she's beeping me like crazy, and i don;t know what to do.I tried calling her once, but her phone's batteries are low.GeeeeeeeeeeZ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 Originally posted by ghhhhhost george.....u remember what i told u last time...b smart about it this time exactly what he said... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 Originally posted by gothzane Alot of us need to break free from our vicious cycle. Amen brotha! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 <~~~Viscious Cycle... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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