deeelite1 Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 That you think his girlfriend was once a man?????THIS IS SERIOUS...OK, So I have this guy friend who has this girlfriend for the past year or so. She is VERY VERY shady I mean she gives meaning to the word Shade. She only lets him see her one day a week, so they don't exactly spend the most amount of time together.NOW, all of his other friends think she's a man. well a man with post surgery.. Its just a matter of telling him what we all think.. SO I need suggestions, HOW DO YOU THINK THIS SHOULD BE DONE???Keep in min dthis kid LOVVVES this chick, only she isnt' a chick Help!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
esco Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 Is this girl's name Jackie? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 i think first i would make sure. then id just cone straight out and say something.kinda like austin powers " shes a man baaaabyyyy" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 I must say this is a first.............I recommend doing what Crocodile Dundee did to that tranny in the movie..............remember that, that was a funny scene"That bloody sheela had a pecker, bastard" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notallthere Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 Originally posted by deeelite1 That you think his girlfriend was once a man?????THIS IS SERIOUS...OK, So I have this guy friend who has this girlfriend for the past year or so. She is VERY VERY shady I mean she gives meaning to the word Shade. She only lets him see her one day a week, so they don't exactly spend the most amount of time together.NOW, all of his other friends think she's a man. well a man with post surgery.. Its just a matter of telling him what we all think.. SO I need suggestions, HOW DO YOU THINK THIS SHOULD BE DONE???Keep in min dthis kid LOVVVES this chick, only she isnt' a chick Help!!! If he doesent know then he doesent want to. I would just leave it alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
headnigur Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by notallthere If he doesent know then he doesent want to. I would just leave it alone. i think your 100 percent right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 does that mean he's gay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by headnigur i think your 100 percent right but shes a maaaan baby :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deeelite1 Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 We were thinking the same thing.. like all of the sudden... 'UT OH WHAT IF HE DOES KNOW????'either way I feel bad not saying what I do know.Its almost like If I stay quiet its f*cked up and If i Speak its f*cked up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by deeelite1 We were thinking the same thing.. like all of the sudden... 'UT OH WHAT IF HE DOES KNOW????'either way I feel bad not saying what I do know.Its almost like If I stay quiet its f*cked up and If i Speak its f*cked up. are you sure its a man??? by the way her name isnt paris is it ???did u go to Great adventure. i think i stood u up as my date lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
esco Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 is her name Jackie? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deeelite1 Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 Esco - No her name isn't Jackie..I"ll respond to your PM in a few.DoublePlay - I got so upset you stood me up I sat in the car and cried all day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by deeelite1 Esco - No her name isn't Jackie..I"ll respond to your PM in a few.DoublePlay - I got so upset you stood me up I sat in the car and cried all day. im so sorry how can i ever make it up to you. i was sooo exhausted from the weekend i splept half the day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by notallthere If he doesent know then he doesent want to. I would just leave it alone. If he was really concerned he would find out.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djcreep Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 this is quite the odd situation. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by djcreep this is quite the odd situation. . . ....tee hee.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardo Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 She has a right to leave a normal life as a women and he loves her. Let them be happy. Finding love is hard and being born in the wrong body is hard enough.Do you think it will make a differance if she was a man to him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dknybabe2929 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 I dont know if I would say anything...even if he is one of your friends, thats one subject even as a friend you shouldnt touch in my opinion. As much as it is your place to be a friend, its also you place as a friend to not get involved. I think it will affect your friendship beyond repair:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
piro8 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 I agree with stardo and dkny,I don't think you should say anything out of respect for your friend's feelings towards this girl. If his girlfriend wants to tell him about "captain winky" it's her business. By the news coming from you, he might appreciate you looking out for him or he may get fired up for you telling him. I don't think it is worth finding out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dknybabe2929 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Piro is riiiggghhhttt...Thats more of a "relationship" issue than a "friend" one. If your friend's girlfriend/boyfriend wants to tell him, then thats something they have to dicuss, deal with, and decide on their own. If you get involved now it's going to cost you a lot more than you bargained for. Even though your intentions are whole hearted, the way you described he cares about the relationship, he might take what you are saying as an insult or as baggage he isnt ready to carry yet. If she is really a he, then I'm sure the time will come when the conversation will be brought up. If you say something, its like opening up a can of worms that might not be ready to be opened yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
piro8 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by dknybabe2929 Piro is riiiggghhhttt...Thats more of a "relationship" issue than a "friend" one. If your friend's girlfriend/boyfriend wants to tell him, then thats something they have to dicuss, deal with, and decide on their own. If you get involved now it's going to cost you a lot more than you bargained for. Even though your intentions are whole hearted, the way you described he cares about the relationship, he might take what you are saying as an insult or as baggage he isnt ready to carry yet. If she is really a he, then I'm sure the time will come when the conversation will be brought up. If you say something, its like opening up a can of worms that might not be ready to be opened yet. :clap: I couldn't agree more. It would be tough though, to be the friend that knows the truth about your friends significant other. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 What do you do if he finds out and is pissed that no one told him, or thought it Love is damn blind I guess................ Let them be.. I say............ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roddigga Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by deeelite1 That you think his girlfriend was once a man?????THIS IS SERIOUS...OK, So I have this guy friend who has this girlfriend for the past year or so. She is VERY VERY shady I mean she gives meaning to the word Shade. She only lets him see her one day a week, so they don't exactly spend the most amount of time together.NOW, all of his other friends think she's a man. well a man with post surgery.. Its just a matter of telling him what we all think.. SO I need suggestions, HOW DO YOU THINK THIS SHOULD BE DONE???Keep in min dthis kid LOVVVES this chick, only she isnt' a chick Help!!! deee$$$$, my love goddess, you don't!!!! plane and simple, stay away is what you do!!!! and by starting a thread about it doesn't help either cause angelicious does know how to read, if she/he sees you started a thread about her she will be pretty pissed, what you do is if you really care about this guy, is you start wearing sluttly clothes when she/he is around, lock all the doors to the bathroom.............if he was a guy or is a guy, check his pants, if you see a little tee-pee apear then you know there is a problem..........if she/he had surgery then your on your own but your best bet is to leave it alone!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 IMO when it comes to a relationship stay out of it. if you say something it gets you involved and then you can lose a friend if you stay out of it you dont get involved at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neena1979 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 yeah i would have agree with what mostly everyone else is saying...stay out of it...it's his life...his relationship....just be happy for him that he found happiness with someone.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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