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Twenty Something Drama- This puts it all into words perfectly. They

call it

the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along with the

crowd

and

start realizing that there are a lot of things about yourself that you

didn't

know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you

will

be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where

you

are now. You start realizing that people are selfish and those people

that

you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people

you have

ever met and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most

important ones. What you do not realize is that they are realizing

that too

and are not really cold or catty or mean or insincere, but that they

are as

confused as you. You look at your job. It is not even close to what

you

thought you would be doing or maybe you are looking for one and

realizing

that you are going to have to start at the bottom and are scared. You

miss

the comforts of college, of groups, of socializing with the same that

maybe

they weren't so great after all. You are beginning to understand

yourself

and

what you want and do not want. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You

see

what others are doing and find yourself judging a bit more than usual

because

suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and

add

things to your list of what is acceptable and what is not. You are

insecure

and then secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your

life. You

feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly change is the enemy and

you try

and cling on to the past with dear life but soon realize that the past

is

drifting further and further away and there is nothing to do but stay

where

you are or move forward. You get your heart broken and wonder how

someone

you

loved could do such damage to you or you lay in bed and wonder why you

can't

meet anyone decent enough to get to know better. You love someone but

maybe

love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this

because

you are not a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start

to look

cheap and getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look

pathetic.

You go through the same emotions and questions over and over and talk

with

your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a

decision. You worry about loans and money and the future and making a

life

for yourself and while winning the race would be great, right now

you'd just

like to be a contender! What you may not realize is that everyone

reading

this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of

times,

trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

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Originally posted by crackaa55cece

dont be depressed...........its a good thing

growing up and learning to live

i know...your right

i just relate to almost all of it & seeing all the negative aspects along w/ the postive aspects actually written in front of me...

Just made me realize how fucked up i am...lol :tongue:

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Originally posted by hunnie818

i know...your right

i just relate to almost all of it & seeing all the negative aspects along w/ the postive aspects actually written in front of me...

Just made me realize how fucked up i am...lol :tongue:

oh trust me, you arent as fucked up as you think

its real easy to think of all the negative in your life and think you have it soo bad or you fucked up sooo much or why cant you be more responsible and so on like that all said above, but in reality you arent, you are doing just fine and in the future will have many many things to pass along to your grandchildren..........some of it of course you will reword and no mention...........but as i see it if you arent in jail, you dont owe money to the mob, and you aren't dead then just keep on living life as it makes you happy cause we only live for today and tomorrow might never come

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Originally posted by crackaa55cece

oh trust me, you arent as fucked up as you think

its real easy to think of all the negative in your life and think you have it soo bad or you fucked up sooo much or why cant you be more responsible and so on like that all said above, but in reality you arent, you are doing just fine and in the future will have many many things to pass along to your grandchildren..........some of it of course you will reword and no mention...........but as i see it if you arent in jail, you dont owe money to the mob, and you aren't dead then just keep on living life as it makes you happy cause we only live for today and tomorrow might never come

you are a wise one :aright:

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if your 20s seems depressing wait until the 30s. well you get too caught up in shit to be depressed. Try having a mortgage. Now you cant have that " i can fuck around in work im young" attitude.

Life pressure plus job pressure. Try spending weekends with your friends and THEIR KIDS. You cant as easily pull the screw the family thing im going to the shore. Try starting to realize youll soon be supporting a family and then comes in the thought of retirement shit. Fuck it enjoy the 20s it ony comes once. Was the best times of my life when i got into being 30s the last couple years life changed quick. Went from party all the time in clubs to someones kids birthday at friggin chuck e cheese. Ill still enjoy my 30s too because im sure in the next decade weekends would be worriing about your kids and all that shit. plan for the future but dont worry about it

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