addicted2drums Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Twenty Something Drama- This puts it all into words perfectly. They call itthe "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along with the crowdandstart realizing that there are a lot of things about yourself that youdidn'tknow and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you willbe in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where youare now. You start realizing that people are selfish and those people thatyou thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you haveever met and the people you have lost touch with are some of the mostimportant ones. What you do not realize is that they are realizing that tooand are not really cold or catty or mean or insincere, but that they are asconfused as you. You look at your job. It is not even close to what youthought you would be doing or maybe you are looking for one and realizingthat you are going to have to start at the bottom and are scared. You missthe comforts of college, of groups, of socializing with the same that maybethey weren't so great after all. You are beginning to understand yourselfandwhat you want and do not want. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You seewhat others are doing and find yourself judging a bit more than usualbecausesuddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and addthings to your list of what is acceptable and what is not. You are insecureand then secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. Youfeel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly change is the enemy and you tryand cling on to the past with dear life but soon realize that the past isdrifting further and further away and there is nothing to do but stay whereyou are or move forward. You get your heart broken and wonder how someoneyouloved could do such damage to you or you lay in bed and wonder why you can'tmeet anyone decent enough to get to know better. You love someone but maybelove someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this becauseyou are not a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start to lookcheap and getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.You go through the same emotions and questions over and over and talk withyour friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make adecision. You worry about loans and money and the future and making a lifefor yourself and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd justlike to be a contender! What you may not realize is that everyone readingthis relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times,trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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CrAcKa A55 CeCe Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 yup that sums it all up to exactly what my 20s have been..........and i am only 22 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnie818 Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 omg....it's so truenow im depressed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 The Joys Of Life... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrAcKa A55 CeCe Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by hunnie818 omg....it's so truenow im depressed dont be depressed...........its a good thinggrowing up and learning to live Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnie818 Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by crackaa55cece dont be depressed...........its a good thinggrowing up and learning to live i know...your righti just relate to almost all of it & seeing all the negative aspects along w/ the postive aspects actually written in front of me...Just made me realize how fucked up i am...lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrAcKa A55 CeCe Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by hunnie818 i know...your righti just relate to almost all of it & seeing all the negative aspects along w/ the postive aspects actually written in front of me...Just made me realize how fucked up i am...lol oh trust me, you arent as fucked up as you thinkits real easy to think of all the negative in your life and think you have it soo bad or you fucked up sooo much or why cant you be more responsible and so on like that all said above, but in reality you arent, you are doing just fine and in the future will have many many things to pass along to your grandchildren..........some of it of course you will reword and no mention...........but as i see it if you arent in jail, you dont owe money to the mob, and you aren't dead then just keep on living life as it makes you happy cause we only live for today and tomorrow might never come Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnie818 Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by crackaa55cece oh trust me, you arent as fucked up as you thinkits real easy to think of all the negative in your life and think you have it soo bad or you fucked up sooo much or why cant you be more responsible and so on like that all said above, but in reality you arent, you are doing just fine and in the future will have many many things to pass along to your grandchildren..........some of it of course you will reword and no mention...........but as i see it if you arent in jail, you dont owe money to the mob, and you aren't dead then just keep on living life as it makes you happy cause we only live for today and tomorrow might never come you are a wise one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrAcKa A55 CeCe Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by hunnie818 you are a wise one sticky would argue that one with you............he says i am wacked in the head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
addicted2drums Posted January 9 Author Report Share Posted January 9 Tommyjersey and clubplamatt are morons ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubplamatt Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 changing 500 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 if your 20s seems depressing wait until the 30s. well you get too caught up in shit to be depressed. Try having a mortgage. Now you cant have that " i can fuck around in work im young" attitude. Life pressure plus job pressure. Try spending weekends with your friends and THEIR KIDS. You cant as easily pull the screw the family thing im going to the shore. Try starting to realize youll soon be supporting a family and then comes in the thought of retirement shit. Fuck it enjoy the 20s it ony comes once. Was the best times of my life when i got into being 30s the last couple years life changed quick. Went from party all the time in clubs to someones kids birthday at friggin chuck e cheese. Ill still enjoy my 30s too because im sure in the next decade weekends would be worriing about your kids and all that shit. plan for the future but dont worry about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubplamatt Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 stop being depressed!!! VEGAS BABY!!! VEGAS!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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