nympho69 Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 do u think the fact that sex and sexual acts have become less taboo have taken away from the excitement?since more people talk about it openly even perform in public, it has loss some thrillfor example, more people are into s&m or threesomes, etcso it no longer feels as though ur involved in something that few people actually do or would have the balls to domany things ive done in the past would no longer excite me nowlike sex in crazy placesi dont know if it has to do with the times or with my own feelings ive done it no big deal nowany thoughts on the subject?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 Yeah ..... when are YOU and TasteyT coming down to MIAMI to make a B-SIDE sandwich ?STILL WAITING Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 ~~i definetely have to agree with u.............i think all the things that come alongside sex have changed too such as monogamy and the value of sex itself.....however im not sure if its a good thing or a bad thing:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Not to tap myself on the shoulder... But... My Ex and myself had one thing going for us and that was our sex life. And that was because our relationship was kept between us. I mean certain things we would talk about if advice was needed. But that was when we fought. And even then it was like prying one of us open. And to me. Being it was so secretive and or conservative from everyone outside of us 2. And we never talked about what we did behind closed doors is what kept it so good for so long. I think some things are meant to be spoken about and some things arn't. But if you are in a respectful relationship. No one should know what your love does or does not do. Cause he or she is gonna feel wierd if people know that he or she does something or does not do something someone else does... Leave it up to everyones imagination. This makes your relationship and sex life more appealing to people outside and when people outside feel that way. Well the couple that is so secretive feel it that much more...I hope I made sense... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by elementx Not to tap myself on the shoulder... But... My Ex and myself had one thing going for us and that was our sex life. And that was because our relationship was kept between us. I mean certain things we would talk about if advice was needed. But that was when we fought. And even then it was like prying one of us open. And to me. Being it was so secretive and or conservative from everyone outside of us 2. And we never talked about what we did behind closed doors is what kept it so good for so long. I think some things are meant to be spoken about and some things arn't. But if you are in a respectful relationship. No one should know what your love does or does not do. Cause he or she is gonna feel wierd if people know that he or she does something or does not do something someone else does... Leave it up to everyones imagination. This makes your relationship and sex life more appealing to people outside and when people outside feel that way. Well the couple that is so secretive feel it that much more...I hope I made sense... ~~im not sure thats what she meant...i thuoght she was talking about sex beeing less taboo in society in general...........like that it is OK for 2 people to have sex......and this sexual openness of the 90's now makes regular sex boring for people....before it was so great b/c it was forbidden, b/c girls held out for months even years and spanking was considered kinky....now that all this is normal ppl look for other ways to get themselves excited.......i dunno thats the way i took it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by sexxyh ~~im not sure thats what she meant...i thuoght she was talking about sex beeing less taboo in society in general...........like that it is OK for 2 people to have sex......and this sexual openness of the 90's now makes regular sex boring for people....before it was so great b/c it was forbidden, b/c girls held out for months even years and spanking was considered kinky....now that all this is normal ppl look for other ways to get themselves excited.......i dunno thats the way i took it Oooops! I am tired forgive me. Work is boring me tonight...I will have to think of a different response then for next time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by elementx Oooops! I am tired forgive me. Work is boring me tonight...I will have to think of a different response then for next time. ~~u r definetely forgiven! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by sexxyh ~~u r definetely forgiven! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magellanmax Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by nympho69 do u think the fact that sex and sexual acts have become less taboo have taken away from the excitement?... I dont know about everyone else, but from what I hear, sex back in the day was a doozer!! No bjs, no anal, no tea baggin, no doggy booty, the list is endless. Bottom line, women back then weren't allowed/expected to express their feelings and wants. Can you imagine what some gals went thru? Guys had to go to hookers for variety coz sum acts were deemed unfit for their wives/galfriends. I say..thank God for change in the times... couldnt have asked to be alive at a better time. Boredom is rare if one or both dont 'experiment'. My take, break out the 'Kama Sutra' encyclopedia..._______________Then Again.....just ma opinion....dont make it rite Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Sex just gets more complex as the years move on There are so many books and practices on what positions are the best, how kama sutra and tantric sex can enhance it, etc etc...I think this just confuses the issue...And as far as 3-some's - S& M's go , i still think it can make the sex life healthier by keeping things interesting and entertaining. But why not take it a step further? Instead of dressing in leather and bearing whips,,, dress as a maid with a feather duster, or a construction guy with a drill But for me, I want to wait for the right smurfette to perform the deed with. That way, not only will the sex feel THAT MUCH better (good things "cum" to those who wait, heheh), i believe the bond will be stronger and we'll be in tune with each other's style of flow~~~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liqidtouch Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by magellanmax I dont know about everyone else, but from what I hear, sex back in the day was a doozer!! No bjs, no anal, no tea baggin, no doggy booty, the list is endless. Bottom line, women back then weren't allowed/expected to express their feelings and wants. Can you imagine what some gals went thru? Guys had to go to hookers for variety coz sum acts were deemed unfit for their wives/galfriends. I say..thank God for change in the times... couldnt have asked to .... ur kidding right?ok i want everyone to concider that humans have been around forthousands of years- that has been proven...THOUSANDS OF YEARS OF US HAVING SEX!!!!do u really think that women werent takin it in OTHER holes?not to sound vulgar but "BUTT"what we are doing now is in NO WAY different then what our groundparents did...if urs are still alive go ahead and ask them.. i had the oportunity to do that "ask" a MUCH older woman-we were talkin at a club- METRO LOUNGE njand MY GOD the things shes done-well all i can say about it being less taboo is ..well...thats about it.. its just not so HIDDEN anymore with our generation, but theres really nothing different that were doing here-SnM BEASTY FETIsH-izm 3somes- all been donealmost OVER DONE...nympho? its not that the thrill is now gone from it-but it has now been replaced by WHAT IF WE GET CAUGHT OUT HERE and things like that-also we are all pervs in alittle way-anyone of us would stop for a sec and watch if we saw a coupleoreven if we heard the nieghboors gettin it on--LIKE YOU WOULDNT TURN DOWN THE TV??? i wouldand y?cause now- its that much more exciting- soNYMPH?.... go get ur FREAK ON!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 12 Author Report Share Posted January 12 Originally posted by liqidtouch ur kidding right?ok i want everyone to concider that humans have been around forthousands of years- that has been proven...THOUSANDS OF YEARS OF US HAVING SEX!!!!do u really think that women werent takin it in OTHER holes?not to sound vulgar but "BUTT"what we are doing now is in NO WAY different then what our groundparents did...if urs are still alive go ahead and ask them.. i had the oportunity to do that "ask" a MUCH older woman-we were talkin at a club- METRO LOUNGE njand MY GOD the things shes done-well all i can say about it being less taboo is ..well...thats about it.. its just not so HIDDEN anymore with our generation, but theres really nothing different that were doing here-SnM BEASTY FETIsH-izm 3somes- all been donealmost OVER DONE...nympho? its not that the thrill is now gone from it-but it has now been replaced by WHAT IF WE GET CAUGHT OUT HERE and things like that-also we are all pervs in alittle way-anyone of us would stop for a sec and watch if we saw a coupleoreven if we heard the nieghboors gettin it on--LIKE YOU WOULDNT TURN DOWN THE TV??? i wouldand y?cause now- its that much more exciting- soNYMPH?.... go get ur FREAK ON!! trust me i still get my freak on......u kind of understood what i was saying but not completelysince all of the boundaries have been broken and now acceptedwell there's nothing left out there to do that hasnt been done cause everyone talks about it and more people are acting wilderthere used to exist a thrill from thinking that u were the only couple wild enough to do this, or have the balls to do itex. having sex in public placesbut now everyone does itand when u meet someone ur not experimenting or trying something new cause both of u probably have done the same or similiar acts with someone elsefor example i think my wildest experience was having sex while my man was driving, it was thrillling because it was new to both of us and who the fuck does crazy shit like thatthen about a year later i do it with my new bf and well it wasnt as exciting or enjoyablei simply brought this topic up because i wonder if im not into the old stuff because its old for me or because its popular now and the unpopularity or number of risktakers was smaller making the entire experience a bit more thrilling Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liqidtouch Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Originally posted by nympho69 trust me i still get my freak on..........me or because its popular now and the unpopularity or number of risktakers was smaller making the entire experience a bit more thrilling oh no i definately under stand what your saying - but well- i guess this is where the term "SEX IS OVER RATTED.."comes in? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jroo Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Originally posted by nympho69 do u think the fact that sex and sexual acts have become less taboo have taken away from the excitement?since more people talk about it openly even perform in public, it has loss some thrillfor example, more people are into s&m or threesomes, etcso it no longer feels as though ur involved in something that few people actually do or would have the balls to domany things ive done in the past would no longer excite me nowlike sex in crazy placesi dont know if it has to do with the times or with my own feelings ive done it no big deal nowany thoughts on the subject?? with everything said and done. only PASSION makes sex what it is. you want amazing sex do it with someone you're totally crazy about, and that person totally crazy about you. nothing is better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 12 Author Report Share Posted January 12 Originally posted by jroo with everything said and done. only PASSION makes sex what it is. you want amazing sex do it with someone you're totally crazy about, and that person totally crazy about you. nothing is better. wow u hit it right on targetthats the sad truth ive come to realize recently and well it sucksespecially when things, acts, or senarios once satisfied me do absolutely nothing for me nowive posed my question on this thread to myself many times and i think ive disillusioned myself in trying to believe that it could be something else then lack of passionbut thats what def is missing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 13 Report Share Posted January 13 Originally posted by nympho69 do u think the fact that sex and sexual acts have become less taboo have taken away from the excitement?since more people talk about it openly even perform in public, it has loss some thrillfor example, more people are into s&m or threesomes, etcso it no longer feels as though ur involved in something that few people actually do or would have the balls to domany things ive done in the past would no longer excite me nowlike sex in crazy placesi dont know if it has to do with the times or with my own feelings ive done it no big deal nowany thoughts on the subject?? i agree with you 1000% sex has lost its thrill and excitement, maybe because its every where now, maybe because its sooooo damn mainstream, maybe because advertisements push it down our throats... maybe because we have it so damn much lately... not quite sure what the factors are however i do feel that sex isnt as exciting as it once was... (or maybe its just my partners???) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liqidtouch Posted January 13 Report Share Posted January 13 it seems that we are a generation of children that have not only touched the POT that is boiling,but also that have learned to NOT get burned by it....i think the main part of it is what DG says-all the advertisments that have been throaghted to us-.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 13 Author Report Share Posted January 13 Originally posted by dgmodel i agree with you 1000% sex has lost its thrill and excitement, maybe because its every where now, maybe because its sooooo damn mainstream, maybe because advertisements push it down our throats... maybe because we have it so damn much lately... not quite sure what the factors are however i do feel that sex isnt as exciting as it once was... (or maybe its just my partners???) from everyone's posts i think the bottom line is for sex to be great it needs some sort of thrillat some time the thrill lies in the fact ur doing something new or something risky, etcbut then there comes a point when uve done almost everythingand the only way for sex to be thrilling is with a great partneras we all know we rarely come across these Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 13 Report Share Posted January 13 theres no thrill/fun/excitement in sex... the real pleasure is found in Fucking and making LOVE... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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