magilicuti Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 talk on the internet to other people and even check out personals sites? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 That's a good question I actually know a girl who is in a relationship, but talks very often to this guy on the internet. She flirts, teases him about coming over and whatnot. Now it's getting to the point where he wants to meet her, and now she's stuck btw. a rock and a hard place It's kinda lowdown, b/c her man doesn't know about it. I personally don't think it's right to go so far if you're involved with someone. Then again, talking and conversing on the internet can be deceiving, and to me, isn't quite the same as a phone convo. But friendly chat on aim and icq should be allright Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted January 20 Author Report Share Posted January 20 the internet is bad news, that's what i think. i wouldn't tell anyone what to do but i don't approve of bullshitting on the internet. from my experiences i've only seen bad things happen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 Originally posted by magilicuti talk on the internet to other people and even check out personals sites? You can't watch someone 24 hours a day..... Besides when you tell someone not to do something, they are going to want to do it more. I see nothing wrong with harmless fun, it's when it turns into something more..... That would be like if I started to date a guy and he said he didn't want me to post on CP, I don't think so...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted January 20 Author Report Share Posted January 20 i'm not saying stop posting or stop chatting on the internet but i've only seen shit happen from it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted January 20 Author Report Share Posted January 20 how about if your bf went on personals sites and signed up on them, would you approve of that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 Originally posted by magilicuti how about if your bf went on personals sites and signed up on them, would you approve of that? helllllllllll noif i had a bf, and he did this i would be absolutely lividtalking to people on the internet is one thing, but if it goes further then this i'd be mad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 Originally posted by magilicuti how about if your bf went on personals sites and signed up on them, would you approve of that? That's different, if that be the case, there is just something wrong. It's one thing to play and bs on the net, but it's another actually search for a "relationship"..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 omg u guys made me worried....so what I did I IMed my B/F EX (not sure) with a different SN and I was all a/s/l u know the typical crap and then i was like do uhave a picture and we trade and he sent one of me and him and said that it's him and his g/fnow i feel all bad...but im sort of relieved now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 Originally posted by totallytrance omg u guys made me worried....so what I did I IMed my B/F EX (not sure) with a different SN and I was all a/s/l u know the typical crap and then i was like do uhave a picture and we trade and he sent one of me and him and said that it's him and his g/fnow i feel all bad...but im sort of relieved now That's knida funny in a not so funny way... You are probably glad you did it, but ashamed at the same time..... DOn't worry about and just do something nice for him.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 That's knida funny in a not so funny way... You are probably glad you did it, but ashamed at the same time..... DOn't worry about and just do something nice for him.... I'm just wondering if he would assume that it could be me or one of my friends u know....oh well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted January 20 Author Report Share Posted January 20 i bet a lot of ppl do that and it ends up differently Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 That's different, if that be the case, there is just something wrong. It's one thing to play and bs on the net, but it's another actually search for a "relationship"..... i agree...if you feel the need to find some internet lovin' while you're already in a relationship then there's no point in having a bf/gf... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 Originally posted by totallytrance I'm just wondering if he would assume that it could be me or one of my friends u know....oh well at least youre not like one of my friends that goes under their bf/ ex-bf sn's and reads the emails and/or talks to girls on there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by solbeam i agree...if you feel the need to find some internet lovin' while you're already in a relationship then there's no point in having a bf/gf... I think that qualifies as "cheating" in a sense... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 I think that qualifies as "cheating" in a sense... I agree. Anything that you do with the opposite sex that you wouldnt want your partner to find out, classifys as cheating in my book Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Originally posted by psychosweetie9 I agree. Anything that you do with the opposite sex that you wouldnt want your partner to find out, classifys as cheating in my book If you have to lie, than there is something wrong.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timetraveler69 Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 It is not cool if someone is in a relationship and he or she goes on and posts on a personals site. My friend found her current boyfriend's ad on a personals site. She has been with him for about 10 months now. She found his ad on a particular singles site. His ad is listed with his age. She found this ad a week or two ago, and his age is listed as 23. She was with him when he was 22, so she was with him for his last birthday when he turned 23. Does the fact that website shows his age as 23 mean that he created his personals ad after she was with him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 no he could have made it before they met. Maybe the site just updated his age. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 Most sites update ages .. tell her to check if there is a date that shows when he became a member or did the page... It might be an old ad he completely forgot to get rid off.. I think before she says anything, if she going to say anything tell her to be 110% sure or else they will be having a big old fight that might end up in a break up! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 oh so thats why you dont post anymoreVitas got a girlfriend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 If you have to lie, than there is something wrong.... cause then you are hiding something. and trust is the most important thing in a relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by incredulous cause then you are hiding something. and trust is the most important thing in a relationship Absolutely!!! Once you lose trust, it's hard to get it back. It's nice to hear a guy actually say that for once.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by incredulous cause then you are hiding something. and trust is the most important thing in a relationship Wow!! what surprise it is to hear a guy say that... Because guys are usually the ones that lie the most.. >jk< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by naughtybabe Wow!! what surprise it is to hear a guy say that... Because guys are usually the ones that lie the most.. >jk< What's sad is that's exactly what I was thinking too....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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