pixiedreamz Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 how much weight has she gained?? if it's not that much just get over it.. and don't say anything. If it's alot in a short time, then i guess use the gym idea... but i hope your not w/ this girl just for her looks, or the relationship isn't going to work anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trippinkittyk Posted January 21 Report Share Posted January 21 my ex sed 2 me, "babe, why don't u join a gym...." yea, that was almost 2yrs ago--- i'm 40lbs lighter, i was never obese or chunky or n-e thing, i just needed 2 lose a bit of weight--- but umm, YEA, that DEF KILLED my self esteem at the time don't say n-e thing 2 her, she knows she's gained weight, she'll lose it when she's ready 2- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ninadd Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by magilicuti i posted this question on 3 boards and this by far the smartest answer i've gotten. saying that skinny girls are fat, brilliant Yeah that works too but seriously nobody likes going to the gym, its the feeling you get after the gym that keeps you motivated. I think if you help train her she might go - say that you want to show her off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ninadd Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by dani672 honestly there is no easy way!! the gym thing is the best one.. not that i was obese but i deff weighed more a few years ago.. my bf is into training (like i know you are magilicuti) so it was easy for him to tell me to go to the gym.. cause he just included me in his workout.. he never told me not to eat stuff.. but he showed me how he ate.. and introduced me to different eating habits.. he is really good about that stuff b/c he knows the health benefits of different foods.. so instead of being like "hey fatty don't eat fruity pebbles everyday" (heehee) he would be like.. "you know its not really healthy to start your day out everyday with sugar cereals.. you would be a lot less tired if you weren't coming down from a sugar high by 10am...."nina knows what i looked like a few years ago compared to now.. so whatever he did it worked!i promise if you could get her in the gym for a few weeks and she could see the difference it makes.. she would get into it.. if not slip trim spa in her drinks! J/k:D You def. look different now than a couple years ago. Now I have gotten lazy I need some pointers dani give me some advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
voodoolounge Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 ask her just like this"Have you been on a seafood diet fatty, I mean baby"If you SEE FOOD you eat it!Voodoo this Wednesday, our Martini's make you lose weight!(FDA tested, ABBPD approved)www.VoodooMartiniLounge.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deeelite1 Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 For starters, Don't let her watch TV cuz the McDonalds buy one Big Mac get the second for 35 cents Commercial is alll over the place.Two All beef patties, special sauce, lettuce, cheese, pickles, onions on a sesame seed bun. mm mm mmmmm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trewguy Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 IF U LOVE HER U WILL LET HER KNOW BEFORE ITS 2 LATE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thehype Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Give her a copy of the ATKINS diet. i am on that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by thehype Give her a copy of the ATKINS diet. i am on that dont go on it for too long Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted January 22 Author Report Share Posted January 22 recently she has been on a mcdonalds binge actually, and its fuckign scaring me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrAcKa A55 CeCe Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by piro8 You Mags,You take her out to dinner, tell her that you will order for the both of you (very romantic).You order a large steak/ penne ala vodka, etc. for yourself then you order her a large lettuce with carrot sticks on the side and a diet coke. Better make that a water with a lemon wedge.I think she'll get the hint. j/k bro. I wouldn't say shit. very cool! dont say anything cause it really shouldnt matter unless the only reason you are with her is for superficial reasonsright??????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by crackaa55cece very cool! dont say anything cause it really shouldnt matter unless the only reason you are with her is for superficial reasonsright??????? right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvle02 Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by magilicuti recently she has been on a mcdonalds binge actually, and its fuckign scaring me :laugh: How much weight has your girl gained? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrAcKa A55 CeCe Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 come to think about it though, if i didnt have a high metabolism, i'd be huge and i wouldnt care cause i am lazy as shiti would love for someone to kick me in the ass and drag me to the gym, regardless if i need to or not...............i say maybe suggest working out as a "togetherness" activity. you never know she might be waiting for some helpbut only if you are looking out for HER best interests, and not YOURS. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted January 22 Author Report Share Posted January 22 i don't think i'm being totally superficial. this girl to me is hot and when she was a little lighter she was untouchable. i'd just like to see that girl again if possible Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hotshit Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 ask her if shes pregnant j/k:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
voodoolounge Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 LIPOSUCTION Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrAcKa A55 CeCe Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 you guys are soooo mean, and you wonder why us girls have such issuesUGH!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imnakedritenow Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by magilicuti she's gaining weight Start leaving pictures where she can see them..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
voodoolounge Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 All men are scum, pick your scum carefully ladies!( If guys say their not scum, then they are lyin scum, which is worse than scum)www.LyinScum.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xrapturex Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 I agree with the others, she probably knows she is gaining weight. Personally, she would be hurt if you said something to her, but If someone really cared about me I would want them to be honest. I wouldnt want to start gaining weight and have someone tell me "no baby you look fine", because thats a straight out lie, and then she is just gonna continue eating, because she trusted that you said she looked fine.Stay on her about the gym. Maybe you can say, Hun, you have been eating so much Mickie D's lately, and it isnt healthy for you. Please come work out with me. I dont want in our old age for you to be sick and then Im left all alone. (then you lie), You look OK, but i think we could both be healthier (even if you dont need to be).I dunno, my 2 cents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdntheshortbus Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 "Babe, you need to lay off the twinkies and dong-dong's..."that usually works, gets you slapped too.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dieselkid76 Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 While she is sleeping take a marker and put circles around the areas of fat....like a plastic surgeon does. When she wakes up deny itDIESEL!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdncarguy19 Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 i have a shop vac with twin turbo suction...let me at her! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
badassmafuka Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Tell her the truth ........DAM BABY YOU ARE FAT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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