marcid21 Posted March 29 Report Share Posted March 29 has anyone ever been in this situation? Positive love is present, just not ideal, only resulting in the parting of ways? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 29 Report Share Posted March 29 yes... it is the worst feeling in the world... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted March 29 Report Share Posted March 29 Guys suck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 only gay ones... straight ones lick... har har har derf derf... in all seriousness i was involved in a similar situation and it really truly was the right thing, however at the wrong time... if ihe and i were 25yrs old+ and in that relationship i can almost guarantee it wouldve worked out for the better and more importantly we'd be married... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shroomy Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 Yep!You must have love if a relationship to work, but it certainly isn't enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 ::sigh:: goin through it right now...well for the past month Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 Originally posted by sexxybabyd ::sigh:: goin through it right now...well for the past month Join the club... Im going through the same dilema... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 mmmmmm more for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 Originally posted by gabo mmmmmm more for me What's more for you?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 Let me join the club too.And it's the worst when there is really no explanation. Sometimes love just fades, other times people's expectations, needs or wants undergo some metamorphosis.in the end, love shouldn't hurt. It shouldn't be work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkissa Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 that's how every one of my relationships ended. . i have never parted ways with a guy and hated him. love is tough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkissa Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 i dont even understand how if you really love someone, you can be capable of doing something to cause them to hate you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 Originally posted by marcid21 has anyone ever been in this situation? Positive love is present, just not ideal, only resulting in the parting of ways? I will be on Tuesday Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 Two years down the drain for me... (as of today) I don't think I have ever felt so much pain in my life.I hope those who haven't experienced it, never do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 Originally posted by bkissa i dont even understand how if you really love someone, you can be capable of doing something to cause them to hate you. "if everyone's looking for love, why do we hurt the ones who help us find it???" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 ive given up on love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 you people are all fucking pathetic.[ducks to avoid rocks and sticks]seriously tho... I've been in the situation too. Actually, my last relationship ended exactly this way...so now my current policy dictates anyone who looks like they're giong to give me shit like this gets a hearty "FUCK YOU" instead of a tear-eyed "i'll always love you"better to end on a sour note and gain closure than leave the wound open. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 31 Report Share Posted March 31 Originally posted by cintron better to end on a sour note and gain closure than leave the wound open. good point however its not in my nature... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted March 31 Author Report Share Posted March 31 Originally posted by cintron you people are all fucking pathetic. that's waaay to general.i didn't create this post to whine, or to sulk....I created it because literally this is one of the toughest decisions I've had to make...and of course, I put it up for discussion because things do end this way sometimes.The rants of the bitter, jaded, and cynical aren't going to help matters any, just contribute constructively. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted March 31 Report Share Posted March 31 Originally posted by marcid21 that's waaay to general.i didn't create this post to whine, or to sulk....I created it because literally this is one of the toughest decisions I've had to make...and of course, I put it up for discussion because things do end this way sometimes.The rants of the bitter, jaded, and cynical aren't going to help matters any, just contribute constructively. calm yourself the first statement was in jest. [i forgot to type the ";)" after it]as for your decision... *HUG* that's all i can do, babe. Hope it works out for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted March 31 Report Share Posted March 31 I've been in that position before.I was with one guy for 4 years, we broke up on good terms. I love him very much and vice versa however it just wont work. Theres a reason for everything and a reason that we're not together... it just wasn't meant to be. (I heard that alot after we split, and felt like hitting everyone who said it to me...now i realize that its true) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted March 31 Report Share Posted March 31 yes honestly i truly believe that sometimes all the pieces of puzzles will fit but TIMING is so key/critical element too. lol i always joke around that bad timing is the story of my life. i love that lenny video "again" bc it paints this picture perfectly.cintron is actually right though -- that its these sort of situations that tend to drag on and its harder to find closure. you are always sitting there wondering "what if" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted March 31 Author Report Share Posted March 31 Originally posted by nycchic24 cintron is actually right though -- that its these sort of situations that tend to drag on and its harder to find closure. you are always sitting there wondering "what if" he absolutely is right, because altho you may come to your conclusion after some time of contemplating...then comes the task of actually RELAYING your feelings.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted March 31 Report Share Posted March 31 Originally posted by marcid21 he absolutely is right, because altho you may come to your conclusion after some time of contemplating...then comes the task of actually RELAYING your feelings.... again, a big, wet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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