lowdrive Posted April 22 Report Share Posted April 22 I am a 26 year old female in a healthy relationship, who has enjoyed sexual activity for as long as I can rememeber, however, in the last year or so, especially in the last couple of months, I have had my sex drive diminish to almost nothing. There has got to be something I can do, or some supplement I can take to get my labido back....isnt there???Help me out people, I know one of you ladies out there has been through this before or knows someone who has..... What can I do????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted April 22 Report Share Posted April 22 ha i was just thinking the opposite. -- "spring is in the air" but it could be your sleeping habits, your choice in diet, stress, lack of exercise, and even your birth control. what you have done differently in the past couple of months? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted April 22 Report Share Posted April 22 If you can get your hands on it, I heard 1/2 or a 1/4 of Cialis can work for women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richiemarvisi Posted April 22 Report Share Posted April 22 Do you use drugs? Have you been to the gina doc & explained this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jovanls400 Posted April 22 Report Share Posted April 22 it might not be a physical problem...since its a long term realationship....maybe sumthin has emotionally happened b/w u two within the last year that might be negatively influencing your sex drive Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted April 22 Report Share Posted April 22 this is scientifically proven that people that are in long term relationship and have only one sex partner will have a decrease of their sex drive over time. it has something to do with hormones. the amount of certain hormones are to a part regulated by the limbic system too though (this where we process feelings, images, etc. and according to our experiences make decisions, put out hormones, etc.). you could say your limbic system gets "used" to a certain thing, your partner. therefor it doesn´t put out as much hormones any more as before. how to increase this? give your limbic system new "activators". try new sex techniques, have sex outside, integrate roleplaying...OR... get an affair ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Hmmmm. I'm a healthy 23 year old male, single... and i have next to NO sex drive.we should discuss this over some coffee [or maybe over Debbie Does Dallas and a bucket of fried chicken]bwahahahahaha....on a serious note, I think you'll be alright. diminished sex drive can be a sign of something lacking in your life, or it can jus be a part of a normal cycle that you're going through. Who's to say in a month or so you won't be ravishing your significant other three or more times a day? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lowdrive Posted April 23 Author Report Share Posted April 23 Thanks for the advice everyone, but some of you seem to be missing the point.Its not that I dont have attraction to my partner, but I myself have a very low sex drive, even alone.....help me (us) please Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richiemarvisi Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 def check with a doc if for nothing else, to make sure everything is o.k. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SFTunnel76 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 I saw a show on Oprah about this. Your testosterone level is probably low. You need to boost it up. They have prescription drugs for this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by SFTunnel76 I saw a show on Oprah about this. Your testosterone level is probably low. You need to boost it up. They have prescription drugs for this. I think u mean ESTROGEN levels are low.Go to the gym and do some excercising to get back into shape. Your energy levels will be higher and you will feel better, which makes you feel sexier, which makes u want to have sex more with your partner... Try using your imagination more when your in bed, sky is the limit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by rdancer I think u mean ESTROGEN levels are low. No... he did mean testosterone.There's no one answer to your problem... pretty much all of the advice here was good; try it out and see if any of it works. If all of the above fails, there are new treatments and drugs on the market. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shroomy Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 True true, testosterone is the only true aphrodisiac for both men and women.Of course women need much less of it than men.BTW a novel approace I have heard is for a testosterone cream to be applied to a womans clit, it enlarges it and makes it easier to come, not to mention improving their sex drive. of course all the standard cautions about women and testosterone apply. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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