marcid21 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 ever miss your single life?Just wondering....i guess it's an old-habits-die-hard question....I mean, we all say being single sucks, but.... on the flip side, there are some pretty appealing aspects to being single....thats it, discuss.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 i love being single. why does everyone hate it? why does everyone feel they have to be in a relationship in order to be happy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by gabo i love being single. why does everyone hate it? why does everyone feel they have to be in a relationship in order to be happy? For once i agree with the skinny one! He's right - it's great to be single!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizard23 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 I don't miss being single at all - in fact, I'm quite relieved that I don't have to worry about the dating scene. It seems pretty hard to find someone these days for some reason and I think the dating scene is getting pretty wacked out/scary (or maybe it's just because I'm getting older...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Im actually pretty happy being singleMy first time single for more than a month EVERso im really enjoying just doing whatever I wanna doBut yes in some ways....it does get a bit lonley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Well for me is the other way around.. this is the first time in close to 4 years that Im single.. It has been such a drastic change that at times I find myself missing my old life but I must say being single is fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted July 14 Author Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by naughtybabe Well for me is the other way around.. this is the first time in close to 4 years that Im single.. It has been such a drastic change that at times I find myself missing my old life but I must say being single is fun. when i got out of my 4yr+ relationship, it was practically like culture shock.But...now....I don't know....a majority of my friends are single, and even tho I'm not bound and gagged to the object of my affections, there are some times when I miss something about single life....i can't even explain it.I almost feel as tho it's selfish. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by lizard23 I don't miss being single at all - in fact, I'm quite relieved that I don't have to worry about the dating scene. It seems pretty hard to find someone these days for some reason and I think the dating scene is getting pretty wacked out/scary (or maybe it's just because I'm getting older...) Same here... I was more or less single for six years (college and post-college), I had plenty of time to get out there and do my own thing. I'm older now, and am ready for something solid. I'm sooo happy I don't have to deal with all the bullshit that goes along with dating!!! I wouldn't wish for even one more day of singlehood; I'm exactly where I want to be right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyshady Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by tastyt Same here... I was more or less single for six years (college and post-college), I had plenty of time to get out there and do my own thing. I'm older now, and am ready for something solid. I'm sooo happy I don't have to deal with all the bullshit that goes along with dating!!! I wouldn't wish for even one more day of singlehood; I'm exactly where I want to be right now. thats so nice to hear from someone, good for you:D back on topic...i guess i sort of miss the single life in a way sometimes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted July 14 Author Report Share Posted July 14 Originally posted by ladyshady ...i guess i sort of miss the single life in a way sometimes yea....don't get me wrong. I don't feel this way on a regular basis....not even semi regular. In fact, this is probably the first time in months that i have felt like this.....but....what I think it is, is a craving for freedom. When you're single, things are so much easier....your thinking worrying....etc....for only yourself. And sometimes it may just be the feelings that are so overwhelming and a lil' too much to deal with...But when it comes down to things....single life may be easier....but it's also empty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shroomy Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Being in a good relationship is so much better than being single. Its really all the little things that make is so much better. Someone who gives a shit if you come home after work, someone to wakeup to, someone who cares if your having a shitty day (except when they are the cause)But that said, about 2% of the time it would really be cool to be single again.Fuck putting shit away or putting the lid down. Get fucked up and not have to worry about the reaction.Do it when you feel like it.Go out when you feel like it, not when your allowed And no matter how much you love your girl, or how hot she is, sometimes you would love to just bang that hot blonde until she screams.but bottom line, the trade offs are more than worth it.But.... I have been in plenty of relationships where they were not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freestyler Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Well said shroomy. I think if your with that right person, you communicate, have fun, don't hide anything, you can have just as much fun. My girl loves to go clubbing, we do everything together but if go out with the boys she's cool we that and we totally trust each other. I hate all these people that worry or whatever, it's the best feeling in the world to never doubt and completely trust the person your with.Anyways, you might see a hot girl and go oh ya, but when it comes to why your with the person you are & can appreciate it, you wouldn't want anything else in the world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 i miss being able to go out whenever...without being asked what i'm gonna do...i miss being able to chat with my guy friends freely without him being jealous...i miss being able to party without worrying about someone...i miss flirting... but it always seems to come to me somehow...but, definitely nice to not worry about shmucks bugging you anymore...because you have someone to go home to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by marcid21 When you're single, things are so much easier....your thinking worrying....etc....for only yourself. And sometimes it may just be the feelings that are so overwhelming and a lil' too much to deal with... Ditto to what Shroomy and Freestyler said... when the timing and the situation is right, that's just not the case. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgeacasta2 Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by shroomy Being in a good relationship is so much better than being single. Its really all the little things that make is so much better. Someone who gives a shit if you come home after work, someone to wakeup to, someone who cares if your having a shitty day (except when they are the cause)But that said, about 2% of the time it would really be cool to be single again.Fuck putting shit away or putting the lid down. Get fucked up and not have to worry about the reaction.Do it when you feel like it.Go out when you feel like it, not when your allowed And no matter how much you love your girl, or how hot she is, sometimes you would love to just bang that hot blonde until she screams.but bottom line, the trade offs are more than worth it.But.... I have been in plenty of relationships where they were not. nice post shrooms. totally agree with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 When I am in a relationship I don't miss single life...& if I do, I know the guy won't be around too much longer...When I'm involved..I don't feel the need to go out & party hard & if I do why not enjoy it w/ my guy...idk..I guess this is why it takes me a while to get serious w/ someone..b/c when I do..they aren't just my bf..they are my buddy as wellbut a good girls night out once in a while isn't a bad thing either... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cuban2def Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 well i was in a 2year relationship...when it ended i was like in pure shock and like out of the norm...but as a couple months went by i dont think i can be in a relationship anymore.!!! i say u get use to wha ur doing and when its time to change its hard.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjkitten Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by marcid21 when i got out of my 4yr+ relationship, it was practically like culture shock.But...now....I don't know....a majority of my friends are single, and even tho I'm not bound and gagged to the object of my affections, there are some times when I miss something about single life....i can't even explain it.I almost feel as tho it's selfish. I've been in a relationship for close to 3 years now and there areplenty of times that I miss being single.Going to clubs with your other half isnt the same .. I loved to pick up when I went to clubs there was such a thrill about it. Made you feel alive.I wouldnt trade in my bf for the single life but I miss it at times Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manji318 Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 I hate watching what I say sometimes front of my gf or what not so "F*CK YOU!" I rather be single. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 Originally posted by manji318 I hate watching what I say sometimes front of my gf or what not so "F*CK YOU!" I rather be single. In that case, why don't you do both of you a favor and end it??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jroo Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 Originally posted by Freestyler Well said shroomy. I think if your with that right person, you communicate, have fun, don't hide anything, you can have just as much fun. My girl loves to go clubbing, we do everything together but if go out with the boys she's cool we that and we totally trust each other. I hate all these people that worry or whatever, it's the best feeling in the world to never doubt and completely trust the person your with.Anyways, you might see a hot girl and go oh ya, but when it comes to why your with the person you are & can appreciate it, you wouldn't want anything else in the world. read my sig Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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