ynicholas Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 I'm sorry Kitty if I said it the wrong way, what I meant is that I have a lot of friends that I would at one point want to be involved with but in one way or another, but for some reason I would rather stay friends that take it to the next level (call me a punk, I guess). I don't feel I have to find someone (a b/f) at all. Oh noooooo, I am not that old and even so, it doesn't phase me. I haven't had too many b/f in my life thus far and I doubt that is going to change. I was talking about me wanting to be friends more so than lovers in most cases. Thats all ~*Jam*~ ------------------...I can't see you, you can't see me! ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XTC1001 Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Bottem line MEN WILL NEVA UNDERSTAND WOMEN DONT TRY DONT ASK WHY AND MOST OF ALL DONT CARE------------------Howz Ya BOX?Like a Biskit.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Originally posted by jamjimvin:I'm sorry Kitty if I said it the wrong way, what I meant is that I have a lot of friends that I would at one point want to be involved with but in one way or another, but for some reason I would rather stay friends that take it to the next level (call me a punk, I guess). I don't feel I have to find someone (a b/f) at all. Oh noooooo, I am not that old and even so, it doesn't phase me. I haven't had too many b/f in my life thus far and I doubt that is going to change. I was talking about me wanting to be friends more so than lovers in most cases. Thats all ~*Jam*~ Whoops on me now. I didnt mean it towards to you sweetie! I just meant I have noticed many people in general seem to be taking this perspective on. ------------------ There's an old Irish saying -- 'there are no strangers, just friends who haven't met' -- so, until we meet, may peace and plenty rain down upon your head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Originally posted by rally2000:Shadow - forget it - you'll NEVER figure them out!they are the most fucked up creatures on this earth ... i gave up trying ... i suggest you do the same.just read some of the pathetic female responses in this thread and you'll see that there is NO fuckin way to comprehend their thought process!Pathetic females? You don't know any of us personally and I don't think making mistakes is pathetic.. Of course maybe you're perfect and never did anything that you regreted later.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abstrakt Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Hey bro, sorry to hear about your situation, that definetely sucks. The only advice I can give (as a fellow "nice guy" LOL) is to keep doing what you're doing, and don't ever let your emotions get into until it the relationship gets serious. Flat out, just dont give a rat's ass And like most of the other guys said, don't try to understand women. It's not gonna happen kid. Maybe one day science will develop some type of technology for that...but till then, don't try it, you might hurt your brain! hehe Ali------------------"The enchantment is over...but the spell remains" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vampienyc10 Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Originally posted by shadowchaser:I've seen this shit that women do all the damn time. WHY do women go back to ex-boyfriends after they treat them shit, dumped their ass? Why? Do women get off on that? Why doesn't a woman see a guy that she knows truly likes and cares for them deeply. They're on the same wavelength, have everything in common, makes them laugh...basically know each other inside out, what makes each other tick.....but yet they go back to a guy who's an asshole in every sense and treats like them crap. Could someone explain this to me if they know why. Maybe I'm just blind to see it or I should give up caring all together? Oh sweetie !!!! You seem like a guy who is too good for any of that garbage... stay aways from girls like that.. They, I mean we, all go through that stage.------------------------------------------@vampienyc10vampie@aol.com"One is not born a woman, one becomes one."- Simone de Beauvoir Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rally Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Originally posted by mysteriousss: Pathetic females? You don't know any of us personally and I don't think making mistakes is pathetic.. Of course maybe you're perfect and never did anything that you regreted later..NO - not that the females here are pathetic - the responses to the question posed by Shadow were pathetic!!!! go back and read what i said ... come on - you females are fuckin nutty birds - you don't know what you want ... hahaharead all of the other replies too - i'm partially kidding around to juice this up! lolJam - i know you're a woman - i do read this stuff once in a while.No i never met any of you but i will at the next meetup ok - how's that??? ------------------Rallythere is an after-life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathyo Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Originally posted by rally2000: OMG!!! this is exactly what i'm talking about - a typical female response ... outraged at my comment which was made to Shadow - partially in jestof course can't label every female (or maybe you can as evidenced by this thread)either way how is that insulting these women ... i just tell it like i see it ... most women make absolutely no sense when they get involved with "bad" guys ...go back and read some of those replies Cathyo - maybe you'll see what i mean ...oh wait - no you won't - you're a female - forget it!males and females are just too differentRelax Rally, I was not in any way "outraged". There was no fast and furious typing going on here. I just said you insulted the girls who posted here by calling their responses pathetic. As far as the comment being made in jest, it didn't seem that way, let's be real, that sounded like a generalization from someone who's been hurt. I'm not disagreeing that sometimes women make mistakes in staying with the wrong guys, that's not what I was conveying to you. I was just saying it wasn't polite to insult the previous posters without knowing their situations. As far as the "oh wait - no you won't - you're a female - forget it!" Come on Rally, lets not be childish.Whatever, I'm not trying to start any drama. This is silly.------------------ A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to it's old dimensions.~*~*~Don't use time or words carelessly, neither can be retrieved.~*~*~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rally Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Originally posted by cathyo: Relax Rally, I was not in any way "outraged". There was no fast and furious typing going on here. I just said you insulted the girls who posted here by calling their responses pathetic. As far as the comment being made in jest, it didn't seem that way, let's be real, that sounded like a generalization from someone who's been hurt. I'm not disagreeing that sometimes women make mistakes in staying with the wrong guys, that's not what I was conveying to you. I was just saying it wasn't polite to insult the previous posters without knowing their situations. As far as the "oh wait - no you won't - you're a female - forget it!" Come on Rally, lets not be childish.Whatever, I'm not trying to start any drama. This is silly.hey Cathy stop taking yourself and this board so seriously ... OMG! chill girlif you think my reply was insulting then how do you read this board - cause almost every thread has some insult in it.yeah i've been hurt but i'm not that upset - i was throwing some digs in to get the thread going and to read some replies ...and this ain't drama girl - this is tamepeace------------------Rallythere is an after-life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morpheus_ Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 i think the main thing is that the common sense part of the brain is different on men and women.. with men, it's a natural thing, with women, it's a rare bird.. generally (not necessarily always) until a woman's biological clock steps in the picture, they will fuck over so many "good" men and get screwed over by so many assholes that a logical mind cannot comprehend this paradox.. the nicer the guy, the "extra-crispier" the treatment..the sad part is, as soon as a woman feels the need of permanence she'll go looking for the safe and "decent" types.. and these fellas will be very cautious because they've been burned before and many a times will a woman end up in the company of an asshole because of her bad history with good guys.. so what happens to the decent guys? i don't have the answer to that yet.. either i stay decent and figure it out, or i'll turn asshole and never find out..damn.. i needed to vent a little.. and yeah, been burned (badly), done that.. have VERY little trust in our modern day woman.. probably because i haven't met one that can change my mind..morph_ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rally Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Morpheus - you and I need to hang ... i can totally relate and no woman on this board will change my mind with some nifty sweet talk about the way I'm insulting the females ... thank you------------------Rallythere is an after-life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nestor Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 This problem happens to both men and women. However, in my own life experience, women tend to gravitate towards "assholes" more than the guys but it does happen both ways. This condition is called "Co-dependency", I think. It's when something went wrong in your own life and you see the need to fix it via trying to fix your partner. This make you feel whole (in a sub-consciences sort of way) but absent the partner, your life in incomplete. What would trigger this are things like bad relationships with members of your family or a difficult childhood. But there can be more reasons as well. How to solve this problem is to realize why you act the way you do and what is really hurting you in your past. Once you make yourself whole again, then you can identify your destructive and dysfunctional relationships. There is more to this then what I just wrote, but I applaud some of the suggestions made here. You can't know why, till you know why... ------------------Nestor"That's House!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abstrakt Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Morph,You are the fucking man. Hands down. You hit the nail on the head bro!Ali------------------"The enchantment is over...but the spell remains" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 I got an idea! Why don't you all turn GAY and stop whining about how pathetic women are!!! Daaaamn.. There are sooo many fucked up guys in the world, too. People in general are wierd creatures and do the stupidest shit throughout their lives. Understanding people is a part of maturing. If you don't understand women yet, give it some time and some thought and you will.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted October 3 Author Report Share Posted October 3 All of us guys who got burned by women should meet up for drinks and swap stories. Boy, do I have some. ------------------"I feel a great disturbance in the force...every single day." shadowchaser076@aol.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted October 3 Author Report Share Posted October 3 Originally posted by mysteriousss:I got an idea! Why don't you all turn GAY and stop whining about how pathetic women are!!! A woman's answer to everything...j/k ------------------"I feel a great disturbance in the force...every single day." shadowchaser076@aol.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Originally posted by shadowchaser:All of us guys who got burned by women should meet up for drinks and swap stories. Boy, do I have some. In the same regard my love, we too have been burned many a times. Noone is perfect. Its both males and females. We dont understand you guys and you dont understand us. Difference in the chemical balance!------------------ There's an old Irish saying -- 'there are no strangers, just friends who haven't met' -- so, until we meet, may peace and plenty rain down upon your head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 I understand guys totally and completely.. Nothing to understand really LOL. Just kidding guys Shadowchaser - oh you know I'm joking Do NOT turn gay on us. The female population would not survive that loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dzadza Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 One thing I've learned for sure: if you see the girl is screwing you over, don't waste your time on her. And I've seen a lot of guys do that (including me at one point). Everyone complains how a girl won't let go of an asshole. A guy who hangs on to her hoping she would change is displaying the SAME EXACT trait he complains about. And it actually makes sense if you think about it... It's just hard to let go of someone you care about. And no advice can really help - you gotta be able to put your emotions aside and realize it yourself.------------------Don't forget to fly... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted October 4 Author Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by mysteriousss:Shadowchaser - oh you know I'm joking Do NOT turn gay on us. The female population would not survive that loss.Don't worry, I won't...just for you. ------------------"I feel a great disturbance in the force...every single day." shadowchaser076@aol.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morpheus_ Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by rally2000:Morpheus - you and I need to hang ... i can totally relate and no woman on this board will change my mind with some nifty sweet talk about the way I'm insulting the females ... thank youi think there'd be a lot of guys everywhere who can relate.. and mysteriousss, i never said women are pathetic they're just very very confusing - even mind-boggling - for the no-bullshit-no-games guy..here's another one can anyone explain me how a guy's chances with a girl increases, the less he seems to be looking for a girl??? it's the female psychology that CAUSES a males behavior.. dzadza: consider the fact that men usually hang on for romantic reasons while women hang on because of any of the following reasons: the reduced commitment, the potential for being abused, the hopes for an ego boost by taking on an impossible mission to change an asshole, to be the one to dump the other one last, etc. etc. ..but what can i say, men are suckers for women.. it's our nature.. Abstrakt: you, me, rally and shadow oughtta organize a guys night-out and.. nah.. fuck that ladies our invited too hehe (shameless pick-up plug)chill peoplemorph_ ------------------This is my churchThis is where i heal my hurtsIt's in natural grace Or watching young lives shape It's in minor keys Solutions and remedies Enemies becoming friends When bitterness ends This is my church Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rally Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 hahaha - you fuckin guys are killin me! lolyeah i got some stories to trade too - OMG! I've really been burned 2x - loli still love dem women ... never turning gay!still don't understand a lot of the female replies or explanations - whateva ... peace------------------Rallythere is an after-life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smashlips Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 boys are stoopid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted October 4 Author Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by smashlips:boys are stoopid Women aren't rocket scientists either. ------------------"I feel a great disturbance in the force...every single day." shadowchaser076@aol.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morpheus_ Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by smashlips:boys are stoopid here's the short reply:and girls are smart.AHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA AHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAright.. ok.. hehe.. damn.. i'm cracking up..fuck it, don't wanna waste my time with the long reply.. it's just too fucking long..morph_ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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