Guest gabo Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 We never consider when the person goes out to a romantic dinner with someone other than the sig. other. cheating. It has to be what happens after the date to be considered cheating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gfofaguy69 Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 No, I would consider a date cheating. Thats almost worse-its an emotional connection!!! Their more likely to keep pursuing the other person if they have an emotional connection with them. Sex isn't everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 Originally posted by gfofaguy69 No, I would consider a date cheating. Thats almost worse-its an emotional connection!!! Their more likely to keep pursuing the other person if they have an emotional connection with them. Sex isn't everything. I agree but most people wouldnt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gfofaguy69 Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 hmmmm, i really don't know about that. i'll be curious to see what people have to say about it on here. i'm guessing most girls will think like i do and most guys will prob agree with your view Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 Originally posted by gfofaguy69 hmmmm, i really don't know about that. i'll be curious to see what people have to say about it on here. i'm guessing most girls will think like i do and most guys will prob agree with your view ummm I am saying that I agree with you. I do think that if my gf goes out on a date but doesnt hook up it's still cheating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moses04 Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 Originally posted by gabo We never consider when the person goes out to a romantic dinner with someone other than the sig. other. cheating. It has to be what happens after the date to be considered cheating. i would definetly have to agree , i would be pretty pissed off if something like that ever happened to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 its not cheating if theres nothing of a sexual nature involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 im actually doing my senior thesis on this concept... "emotional infidelity"i posted a while ago about what u would consider it to be... sounds like ur on that same path here.. ill let u know what i find in my research Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muzikchick Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 emotional infidelity.....i like it alot.i agree....when your emotions become tied up with someone else....obviously you are not "with" the person u are with.....that's what helped me determine when "it" was over for me....emotional distancing....first step to, well for me, at the time.......FREEDOM...............and if that's how it felt....then obviously it was wrong to begin with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tired Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 Originally posted by gabo ummm I am saying that I agree with you. I do think that if my gf goes out on a date but doesnt hook up it's still cheating. i agree with you... cheating is much more than a physical thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
druwishprincez Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 Originally posted by gfofaguy69 No, I would consider a date cheating. Thats almost worse-its an emotional connection!!! Their more likely to keep pursuing the other person if they have an emotional connection with them. Sex isn't everything. Yeah I agree...I feel that having an emotional connection is way worse than any physical act. Id definitely rather have my bf go out and just have sex with some chick, and thats ALL it was. Then to actually have feelings for someone else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by linabina im actually doing my senior thesis on this concept... "emotional infidelity"i posted a while ago about what u would consider it to be... sounds like ur on that same path here.. ill let u know what i find in my research I wanna read your thesis!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamme Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 ^^ditto^^ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 Originally posted by gabo We never consider when the person goes out to a romantic dinner with someone other than the sig. other. cheating. It has to be what happens after the date to be considered cheating. not for nuttin, but im not sure y would want to have a romantic dinner with anyone else but ur sig other? i certainly wouldnt take my girl friends to the same romantic restaurants that i would take my gf to. just a thought. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted April 5 Report Share Posted April 5 LOL, huh??? Who wouldn't consider that cheating? Why would anyone be ok with their sig.o. doing anything romantic with another person??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 5 Report Share Posted April 5 Originally posted by tastyt LOL, huh??? Who wouldn't consider that cheating? Why would anyone be ok with their sig.o. doing anything romantic with another person??? TASTYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!! I can't believe some people find it ok, like a friend of mine lets his girl go out on dates but they have a rule... no touching... fucking morons. And no, it's not the porn stars sister. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted April 6 Report Share Posted April 6 Originally posted by gabo TASTYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!! I can't believe some people find it ok, like a friend of mine lets his girl go out on dates but they have a rule... no touching... fucking morons. And no, it's not the porn stars sister. GABOOOOO! Hehe. I think it's safe to say that your friend is the exception to the rule. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 6 Report Share Posted April 6 Originally posted by tastyt GABOOOOO! Hehe. I think it's safe to say that your friend is the exception to the rule. yea I have dumb friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaka610 Posted April 6 Report Share Posted April 6 Its Cheating man, the worst kind as well, "emotional infidelity" hurts so much more than anything else especially when the S/O is very loyal. Put it this way, many relaionships can seriously recover from a "drunken mistake" but when there is emotions attached to those actions or the words "i dont love you anymore" that kills. Which brings nother question, is making new contacts or giving/getting #s with the opposie sex while in a relationship considered or a sign of "emotional infidelity" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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