mattrabbit Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 Hey everybody..Just looking for some advice... advice on getting through a broken heart...(not that sex is the right forum.. but hey,,, worth a shot..)My girlfriend (now ex) Lives in Northern CA.. we jsut spent a fantastic extended weekend together....after lots of soul searching.. i decided to propose to her.. ring and all. We have had a bit of a whirl wind romance.. only been together for a short while but have been close friend for years...So she said no... and we broke up... Still knowing that we are in love with each other...I would have moved out there.. originally she was gonna move back to NY with me... She has some previous relationship issue that she needs to deal with, and doesn't want to have to leave her "step" son (kinda even though she was never married to the guy.... well blah blah blah...I'm not going to try to get her back... don't think that's an option. if she comes back to me.. it will be on her own....I just need avice on how to get through it all... to mend the broken heart....any advice....???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
christyne13 Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 here you go sweety... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notallthere444 Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 Hey everybody..Just looking for some advice... advice on getting through a broken heart...(not that sex is the right forum.. but hey,,, worth a shot..)My girlfriend (now ex) Lives in Northern CA.. we jsut spent a fantastic extended weekend together....after lots of soul searching.. i decided to propose to her.. ring and all. We have had a bit of a whirl wind romance.. only been together for a short while but have been close friend for years...So she said no... and we broke up... Still knowing that we are in love with each other...I would have moved out there.. originally she was gonna move back to NY with me... She has some previous relationship issue that she needs to deal with, and doesn't want to have to leave her "step" son (kinda even though she was never married to the guy.... well blah blah blah...I'm not going to try to get her back... don't think that's an option. if she comes back to me.. it will be on her own....I just need avice on how to get through it all... to mend the broken heart....any advice....????No magic fix only timeToday tell yourself tommorow will hurt a little less then today, Tommorow do the same. Only look at what is right infront of you and wait. LIke i said no magic fix just know it will get better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fresinha12 Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 Hope u had a refund policy on the ring.....but on the otherhand, I would'nt give it much thought...personally been thru hell so many times, that I realize, in this life, u get what u deserve, so keep hope, do good deeds, like volutneer your time helping the homeless, the orphans, those deprived of the basic things we take for granted....get involved in your comminity, help feed the hungry etc....and before you know it something great will come along, i gurantee you Hey everybody..Just looking for some advice... advice on getting through a broken heart...(not that sex is the right forum.. but hey,,, worth a shot..)My girlfriend (now ex) Lives in Northern CA.. we jsut spent a fantastic extended weekend together....after lots of soul searching.. i decided to propose to her.. ring and all. We have had a bit of a whirl wind romance.. only been together for a short while but have been close friend for years...So she said no... and we broke up... Still knowing that we are in love with each other...I would have moved out there.. originally she was gonna move back to NY with me... She has some previous relationship issue that she needs to deal with, and doesn't want to have to leave her "step" son (kinda even though she was never married to the guy.... well blah blah blah...I'm not going to try to get her back... don't think that's an option. if she comes back to me.. it will be on her own....I just need avice on how to get through it all... to mend the broken heart....any advice....???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrismakk69 Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 I feel you bro...I went thru something similar, but no proposal from me.....Bottom line is, give it time, and eventually you will get over or meet someone else...If she doesn't come back to you, it's not meant to be and it means its probably time to move on...Everyday it will hurt a little bit less...Good Luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattrabbit Posted June 4 Author Report Share Posted June 4 Thanks for the advice everybdy... I know it will be fine in time.. it just hurts pretty bad right now... and i hate it....trying to be constructive with my time... and get involved with the things i really love...That's why i'm on this board.. looking for more like minded people to help keep me company and fight off the lonliness she left behind..oh and the ring.. it was very special... it is 65 years old.. my grandfather proposed to my grandmother in 1939 with it.. it is special to me and so is she.. i thought she deserved it....one day i'l give it to a girl who will appreciate it..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtiddles Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 turn into a self-sufficient fuck machine. Close off emotions completely. The only thing you love is yourself and money. Sometimes you love money more than you love yourself. Make alot of money and fuck every broad that throws her tits in your face while you sit in your $95,000 car. Or you can just tell yourself there are plenty of fish out there, and just wait and wait and wait....it'll get better. I went through it too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbalou Posted June 5 Report Share Posted June 5 abscence makes the heart grow fonder. She will learn in retrospect. best of luck mate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djdarthzader Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 I too have been through this situation...except it wasn't somebody else it was college...but oh well...believe me keep reassuring yourself it will get better...and over time it will get better...You'll never be completely healed from it but you be able to deal with the trauma that was caused by all that...and one more thing...dont go out looking for someone else right away...the right girl/lady will find you...believe in fatepeace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 Dude, Just hang out here on the sex board for a while...they're are enough CP whores on here to meet that will keep your mind off of her for a while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fresinha12 Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 Dude, Just hang out here on the sex board for a while...they're are enough CP whores on here to meet that will keep your mind off of her for a while.LOL...true dat! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 Dude, Just hang out here on the sex board for a while...they're are enough CP whores on here to meet that will keep your mind off of her for a while.A+ post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 Come on Clubplanet and build yourself up to be someone much cooler than you are. Then go to the next meetup and hookup with like 6 board chicks.Best advice I can offer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattrabbit Posted June 8 Author Report Share Posted June 8 werd.... I need a good woman to help me get past a woman who couldn't see what i had to offer.....<--- cute guy, 2 half sleeve tattoos, cool dresser, funny sense of humor, a blast to hang with... parties like a rock star when the opportunity arises....has music in his soul.. artistic... paints, writes, reads... well spoken, well educated..... GREAT IN BED!!! (LOL).... and looking for a good woman.....(talking myself up to help get rid of the post break up low self esteem thing)but seriousl.. i have pics up on myspace (don't need to be a member you can look at profiles.. mine is at mattnahoum@aol.com) thanks for everybody's advice and kind words... it helps more than you know....m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 Make sure you PM box is empty...offers are gonna start flowing in any second now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 Make sure you PM box is empty...offers are gonna start flowing in any second now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattrabbit Posted June 8 Author Report Share Posted June 8 Make sure you PM box is empty...offers are gonna start flowing in any second nowwell it was worth a try... ever been in love? Or have yor heart broken man? it sucks...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 well it was worth a try... ever been in love? Or have yor heart broken man? it sucks......No never...that's why I only fuck with white trash sluts and prostitutes. PM me, we'll meet up in the city and find some cheap hookers that we can abuse for a few hours. Trust me, by the time your done you won't even remember what's her name. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fresinha12 Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 No never...that's why I only fuck with white trash sluts and prostitutes. PM me, we'll meet up in the city and find some cheap hookers that we can abuse for a few hours. Trust me, by the time your done you won't even remember what's her name.Include me on the list...I can negotiate a better deal from one of those escort services...anyway wht i am trying to say is, I am good at bargaining, so i'll try to get a discount for all of us.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 Include me on the list...I can negotiate a better deal from one of those escort services...anyway wht i am trying to say is, I am good at bargaining, so i'll try to get a discount for all of us.... are you a copper? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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fresinha12 Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 are you a copper? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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