deepspell Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 so theres this girl that i really like..known her for a few months thru a friend...its his girlfriends good friend. we have hung out a bunch of times...flirt all the time. talk on the phone and IM yada yada. definately wifey material.but i have been debating FOR EVER wether i should break it to this girl that i like her and risk making it all feel awkward or loosing a really cool friend....have no idea how to approach her.... maybe i should just let it go......im kinda intimidated by her. i kinda think shes outa my leauge she either has one hell of a poker face or just doesnt like me that way.....but i NEED to get it off my chest. WHAT DO I DO!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 ask ur friend first to ask is girl, or ask him to ask herso theres this girl that i really like..known her for a few months thru a friend...its his girlfriends good friend. we have hung out a bunch of times...flirt all the time. talk on the phone and IM yada yada. definately wifey material.but i have been debating FOR EVER wether i should break it to this girl that i like her and risk making it all feel awkward or loosing a really cool friend....have no idea how to approach her.... maybe i should just let it go......im kinda intimidated by her. i kinda think shes outa my leauge she either has one hell of a poker face or just doesnt like me that way.....but i NEED to get it off my chest. WHAT DO I DO!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 you shittin me man, im in the SAAAAAAME fuckin situation. I get along with this girl sooo good its sick. Kinda afraid to fuck up a really cool friendship as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 tell her, be straight with ther.....dont say shes wife material just yet.....thats crazy talk!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thats emotion getting in the way of coomon sense....its a common occurance when emotions r involved....well let us know how the chat goes!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kahn Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 hmmmm.......I wouldn't sweat it...........just let her know how you feel...........I had a girl that I hung out with a lot...........I found out she liked me.......I told her I wasn't into her like that.........and yes we still hang out.............In other words........I don't think you'll fuck it up if she's not interested.......just don't let it get awkward..............Good Luck!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 ...let her know straight up what youre feeling...honesty is the best policy and as cool as your relationship might be at this point, it isnt 100% honest if youre diggin her like that...take the risk homie...if youre both adults you can work out the ramifications should it not take the turn you'd like it to... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted June 24 Author Report Share Posted June 24 you shittin me man, im in the SAAAAAAME fuckin situation. I get along with this girl sooo good its sick. Kinda afraid to fuck up a really cool friendship as well.dude i enjoy her company SOOOOO much. i could shoot the shit with her for hours....but i dunno mannnn im fucking confused....she seems the type if i dont kick it to her...that she will think im a herb, but if i DO let her know wussup...she will go and crack on me cuz "he thinks i like him" she should play poker bro.......cannot figure this chic out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 Go out with them again and make sure you both get really drunk, if nothing happens than she doesn't want you and if that's the case you'll probably start talking all stupid to her about how you really feel and probably fuck everything up.Good Luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 dude i enjoy her company SOOOOO much. i could shoot the shit with her for hours....but i dunno mannnn im fucking confused....she seems the type if i dont kick it to her...that she will think im a herb, but if i DO let her know wussup...she will go and crack on me cuz "he thinks i like him" she should play poker bro.......cannot figure this chic out my prob is she's so damn friendly so can't tell if she's just being friendly or diggin me, blah. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 phatman said it best....nomatter what somethings gonna happen ull eiterh drive urself nutty from trying to hold it back, or u will tell her and the worst that could happen is she will say i dont like u like that, and yes it may get weird, but no matter what....if u hold ur emotions in....its gonna get weird anyways.....especially if she gets a love interest, that could or might had been u....but since u didnt take ur chances u shot out of luck!!!!!!!!!!!! so take the leap!!!!!!!!!!! find out what the deal is in her head!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 phatman said it best....nomatter what somethings gonna happen ull eiterh drive urself nutty from trying to hold it back, or u will tell her and the worst that could happen is she will say i dont like u like that, and yes it may get weird, but no matter what....if u hold ur emotions in....its gonna get weird anyways.....especially if she gets a love interest, that could or might had been u....but since u didnt take ur chances u shot out of luck!!!!!!!!!!!! so take the leap!!!!!!!!!!! find out what the deal is in her head!!!!!!!!yup Flip is right, i've taken the leap before. I guess me personally im just waiting for the right time and make sure i'm not making a total ass out of myself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
werc03 Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 if you don't do anything you'll always wonder "what if?" i was in a similar situation where i wanted more from my best friend, but by the time i confessed, he had already fallen in and out of love with me. don't miss your opportunity.my advice (which may not be the best) get a little tipsy at a club/bar and kick the flirting up a notch, see how she responds, or try to lean in for the kiss... if it doesn't work out you can blame it on the alcohol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted June 24 Author Report Share Posted June 24 my prob is she's so damn friendly so can't tell if she's just being friendly or diggin me, blah.exactly the problem.......madd friendly.....flirty........cant tell if shes just bieng a tease Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 this is a good almy advice (which may not be the best) get a little tipsy at a club/bar and kick the flirting up a notch, see how she responds, or try to lean in for the kiss... if it doesn't work out you can blame it on the alcohol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted June 24 Author Report Share Posted June 24 if you don't do anything you'll always wonder "what if?" i was in a similar situation where i wanted more from my best friend, but by the time i confessed, he had already fallen in and out of love with me. don't miss your opportunity.my advice (which may not be the best) get a little tipsy at a club/bar and kick the flirting up a notch, see how she responds, or try to lean in for the kiss... if it doesn't work out you can blame it on the alcoholahh blame it on the alcohol......worth a shot....fuck it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lalate Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 my prob is she's so damn friendly so can't tell if she's just being friendly or diggin me, blah.This is actually an easy one, for me at least, because I experienced this routinely and still to this day. Some chicks are just friggen cool. They are the bomb to hang with. It's very hard to change speed midstream and flip to another gear. It's gonna be awkward. Don't think it's easy. It's very hard. If you aren't sure if she's interested, bring her around your friends and let them read the situation while you see how she kicks it with them. If she is kicking it the same iwth your friends as with you, not much difference, than you sort of dont know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted June 24 Author Report Share Posted June 24 this is a good alwe spoke bout this before hun she just intimidates the shit outa me cuz shes soooo hot and intelligent.. everything i want.......im being such a pansy bout it madd afraid of rejection tho... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 ....what if she had the same thoughts of you all this time...wouldnt you feel silly for not trying?... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 i know y yo te dije to go for it, i dont see why she would reject youalso if shes flirting w/ u i think thats a sign.......when u flirt w/ someone is cuz you obviuosly are somewhat attracted to the person, no?we spoke bout this before hun she just intimidates the shit outa me cuz shes soooo hot and intelligent.. everything i want.......im being such a pansy bout it madd afraid of rejection tho... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 dont be afraid of rejection...its just temporary!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted June 24 Author Report Share Posted June 24 ....what if she had the same thoughts of you all this time...wouldnt you feel silly for not trying?...indeed sir.... fuck it next oppertunity im just gunna tell her after a few drinks help me grow the cojones Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted June 24 Author Report Share Posted June 24 i also thought of writing her a hand written letter and just handing it to her.....then walking off into the sunset Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 indeed sir.... fuck it next oppertunity im just gunna tell her after a few drinks help me grow the cojones fuck it just as an extra measure take a xanax too....let all the anxiety melt away!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 u guys r nuts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted June 24 Author Report Share Posted June 24 fuck it just as an extra measure take a xanax too....let all the anxiety melt away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!siiiiiiiiiickand when i get shot down ill just go home and smoke a L and let my problems drift away Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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