damelo Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 So my girlfriend and I have been having all sorts of stress in our lives, and we decided to take a little bit of "time off" to have some time apart and figure things out. I'm sure we are going to get back together very soon.However, when we took time off, part of the agreement was that we are allowed to see other people. What do you think? Should I have one more thrill, or should I be good? I know I want to be with this girl, she's definitely the one, but while we're taking time off, should I try to hook up one last time? It IS my last chance, although I might feel really guiltyAdvice, please!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 yeah I would just go ahead and start hooking up with other girls for a few reasons. one, theres no garantee you guys will get back together... so why pass up a nice piece of ass for something that might not even be there. also, if you guys get back together and she hooked up with other guys and you didnt get with any other girls it will probably bother you alot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 Just make sure you agree NOT to discuss whatever happens while you two are apart...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 yeah and dont come back a month later and freak the fuck out if they went out to the movies or dinner with their ex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 Just make sure you agree NOT to discuss whatever happens while you two are apart......i want that in writing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 Speaking from experience? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
groovefire Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 Actually spend this whole time off going to movies with your exgfs, then when your current gf asks about it, lie and say that it never happened, BUT then give your exgf's your current gf's email address, and have them email her to say it def did happen, then when she shows you the emails, deny the whole thing and say you don't even know them.It sounds complicated, I know, but it's a wicked good move. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxylady69 Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 Just go out with hookers. That eliminates any possibility of real "feelings". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 Actually spend this whole time off going to movies with your exgfs, then when your current gf asks about it, lie and say that it never happened, BUT then give your exgf's your current gf's email address, and have them email her to say it def did happen, then when she shows you the emails, deny the whole thing and say you don't even know them.It sounds complicated, I know, but it's a wicked good move.your a little off, but yeah something like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
groovefire Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 your a little off, but yeah something like that. This is a true story, however, some of the names and events have been changed to protect the innocent, and the not-so-innocent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damelo Posted August 17 Author Report Share Posted August 17 What the f--- are you talking about??!?Can we get some input from the ladies here??!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxylady69 Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 What the f--- are you talking about??!?Can we get some input from the ladies here??!?ahem...Just go out with hookers. That eliminates any possibility of real "feelings". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pk1 Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 Thats exactly what you should be doing....inputing it in the ladies. What the hell are you doing still thinking about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damelo Posted August 17 Author Report Share Posted August 17 That she might freak out if she finds out about it, and I don't want to screw things up with her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 of course shes gonna fucking freak out. shes a girl. just do it and keep your fucking mouth shut. jesus. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 Speaking from experience? agreed... there is no reason to know... its not their business anymore nor is it yours whatever theyre doing.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 agreed... there is no reason to know... its not their business anymore nor is it yours whatever theyre doing.. Exactly....and when you hear about what they did, its hard to forget...when I wanted to know, I was sick to my stomach and the thoughts would haunt me I wish I had never pushed so hard to find out....I would have been better off not knowing........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 i never asked nor did i want to tell when he asked... made the situation SO unbelievably uncomfortable and the details would have made things even worse... so for people in your position who push and push... i can tell u from the other point of view... u dont wanna know. and also- myst- from ur point of view... i guess u can say the same right? that u really DONT wanna know... and once u do, its already too late... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 why does it have to be too late? why cant u just deal with it and let things go? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 EXACTLY....like I heard a little bit and I wished I didn't ask...but then I would continue to ask and get more details and it was horrible I became obsessed with all the thoughts it drove me crazyIn future situations like that, I won't ask........... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 why does it have to be too late? why cant u just deal with it and let things go?Sometimes its hard to go back once you hear certain things.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kahn Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 who's idea was it to take time off....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pk1 Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 That she might freak out if she finds out about it, and I don't want to screw things up with herDude, you just said in your first post that part of the agreement was to see other people. Hello?! McFly! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjkitten Posted August 17 Report Share Posted August 17 So my girlfriend and I have been having all sorts of stress in our lives, and we decided to take a little bit of "time off" to have some time apart and figure things out. I'm sure we are going to get back together very soon.However, when we took time off, part of the agreement was that we are allowed to see other people. What do you think? Should I have one more thrill, or should I be good? I know I want to be with this girl, she's definitely the one, but while we're taking time off, should I try to hook up one last time? It IS my last chance, although I might feel really guiltyAdvice, please!!!!!!!!My boyfriend of 4 years just said the same thing to me yesterday .. that he wants a break im not sure if he wanted to split up entirely or if he wants to get back together. I guess just try to make everything understood and the terms agreed upon. And like everyone else said if you do go out wit someone else ure girl is not going to want to know no matter what and no matter how much she asks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damelo Posted August 17 Author Report Share Posted August 17 But this girl knows me so well I can't lie to her. She would find out. Plus, I would rather not lie. There's the problem. Otherwise, I wouldn't be asking you jokers for advice... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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