weyes Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 falling in "love" too fast is more dangerous than its victims usually realize.tune in tomorrow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sancib Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 But sometimes ya gotta live dangerously, the rush is what lets you know your alive, it's like the saying goes....It is better to have loved and lost, than to never love at all:heart:... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barraquilla Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 i agree w/ sanci, being in love does add a spark to your life and nothing wrong with taking a chance on love. plus, i don't love easily -- other than family, there have probably been only 5-6 people whom I have loved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted March 22 Author Report Share Posted March 22 i agree w/ sanci, being in love does add a spark to your life and nothing wrong with taking a chance on love. plus, i don't love easily -- other than family, there have probably been only 5-6 people whom I have loved.love is extremely important; don't get me wrong! but i'm not talking about the real thing.take this example: a 20-year-old girl with whom i work claims she is "in love" with a guy she had been dating for about a week (it's been a few weeks now both from when she said that and from when all the behavior below began). even though she is going to school full-time, has two jobs, and is trying to find a new place to live, she spends just about all of her time with this guy -- including almost all of the time she should be working one of her jobs, because the guy works next door. she won't get fired, though, because it's a school job and you have to do something pretty bad to get fired. when she is at her school job, she sleeps on the table. she's dropping her responsibilities - including her schoolwork - to spend every waking moment with this guy. she's started overeating like crazy and has gained weight. she has no energy. but because he rescued her from the wake of a bad boyfriend, she is "in love" and he's a wonderful guy and "different" and blahblahblah.o, and she's a huge drama queen and that guy - with no redeeming qualities of which i know - is lucky if he gets anyone .what i mean to say is that it's not genuine. falling "in love" too fast is usually not love, and that is the case here. her work, home, and school lives are all suffering because she wants, more than anything else, an emotional rescue. and when someone wants something like that, "feelings" can be fabricated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 drunk love is good - tripped up love is even better - trashed love, well, no. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sancib Posted March 23 Report Share Posted March 23 This girl is sooo "Flavor of Love" Just like when the girl N.Y. knew after a few days that she was in love with Flavor Flav. Some people just want attention and drama. They are not stable enough to deal with real life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted March 23 Author Report Share Posted March 23 she's sitting right here, talking about what their children's names'll be . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barraquilla Posted March 23 Report Share Posted March 23 she's sitting right here, talking about what their children's names'll be . k, i'm with you on this one. kinda similar to when you have a friend who dates someone for about 6 months (or less) and bam, they're pregnant. leaves me totally bewildered, like how the eff did that happen? one year later, after breaking up, they're asking the very same thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sancib Posted March 23 Report Share Posted March 23 she's sitting right here, talking about what their children's names'll be . OMFG! What is she like 12y/o?!?! she is totally trajic shhheesh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted March 24 Author Report Share Posted March 24 OMFG! What is she like 12y/o?!?! she is totally trajic shhheesh.it's gonna be sad when it falls apart, but even i have little sympathy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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