fkornre Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 leave him...who knows what else he has been lying about... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 not for nothing freakster but if this guy has been lying to you about something this important for so long just imagine what else he has been lying to you about...i mean what are you going to do now knowing that you aren't as well off as you thought you were, move back in to that one bedroom apartment? on top of that you are going to be in tons of debt even if he finally does become a vet. if it was up to me i'd take the baby and run. you don't need a jerk like that in your life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakster Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 You guys have a point but it's not that easy. We were set to get married in a month...And overall he's a good guy. It's my fault this happened because I told him to gt a better job or I was going to leave. He did what he thought he had to do to keep me with him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 don't blame yourself that he is a loseryou're a pretty girl (wish i could say with a good head on your shoulders) and can do much better...better to end it before you get married cause it will only get harder once you go through with the wedding Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 if he isnt communicating with you the truth about something as serious as this who's to say that the smaller things arent being lied about also... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlickSlider Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 I doubt that but really I am afraid to dig any deeper into this. He's been yelling at me all day about it.You already said that he controlled you and did not allow you to go out, right? And now he's getting defensive because you're digging into his secrets. What else is he hiding from you, and how much more does he expect to control you? Those are classic signs of an abusive, possessive husband. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfitz73 Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Only on cp.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlickSlider Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 You guys have a point but it's not that easy. We were set to get married in a month...And overall he's a good guy. It's my fault this happened because I told him to gt a better job or I was going to leave. He did what he thought he had to do to keep me with him.That doesn't justify lying to you and controlling you. This doesn't bode well for your marriage freakster. Talk to your parents, your pastor, seek information online, do something to resolve this or end this, before it is too late. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakster Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Well I'm going to give all this some thought.But for now I don't really want to talk about it anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlickSlider Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Well I'm going to give all this some thought.But for now I don't really want to talk about it anymore.Understandable, it's a lot to deal with all of a sudden. Just deal with it ASAP and don't brush it aside. Meanwhile, I'm starving. I would be crazy if I went for sushi a 4th night in a row. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakster Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Sushi? Gross. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Sushi? Gross.agreed... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
howienewport Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 I doubt that but really I am afraid to dig any deeper into this. He's been yelling at me all day about it.I predict he'll be smacking you around within the next year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakster Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 I predict he'll be smacking you around within the next year.you and your predictions... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlickSlider Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Howie is predicting based on his own habits and preferances. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 I predict he'll be smacking you around within the next year.maybe by the end of the night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
howienewport Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Howie is predicting based on his own habits and preferances.My fuse is way shorter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 So freakster, how's your face today? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakster Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 My face is just fine *rolls eyes* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 My face is just fine *rolls eyes*I'm glad, I was concerned. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolahotass Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 what happened with the face? Are you okay freakalicious? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 what happened with the face? Are you okay freakalicious?I figured her dealer husband was going to smack her around a bit. Seems like she's ok though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 he probably tossed her a few hundred dollar bills and told her "buy something nice for you and the baby" and she was happy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakster Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 actually you are both wrong.Not going to be around for a bit. Leaving out of here tonight to my grandfather's house im michigan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 actually you are both wrong.Not going to be around for a bit. Leaving out of here tonight to my grandfather's house im michigan.Hiding out for a bit huh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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