sinergygrl Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 extremely shy in the bedroom (or where ever) I am always up for trying new things and I luv being kinky, but I just can't do it without blushing or some persuasion. I don't wanna be shy anymore. I hate it! ------------------ "No further evidence is needed to show that "mental illness" is not the name of a biologicalcondition whose nature awaits to be elucidated, but is the name of a concept whose purpose isto obscure the obvious." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmb1975 Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 Do you mind if I ask how old you are?The only reason I ask is I used to be the same way, before I became more comfortably with myself as I got older.Also, I found it easier to be less shy in the bedroom when I am with someone I am comfortably with, i.e. a guy that I have been with for a while...------------------The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinergygrl Posted May 15 Author Report Share Posted May 15 I will be 21 mid July. I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now, so you would think I should be pretty comfortable with things. I hope I grow out of this, but it isn't looking too promising.------------------ "No further evidence is needed to show that "mental illness" is not the name of a biologicalcondition whose nature awaits to be elucidated, but is the name of a concept whose purpose isto obscure the obvious." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 Well I'm almost 26 and have been w/ my boy 2 1/2 yrs and I'm shy about some things. Well I can be painfully shy in general so of course that translates into the bedroom sometimes. Part of it has to do with the fact that before me he dated... ahem.. shall we say, a different "class" of woman. He's just used to more assertive women.It also has to do with the mood I'm in. I mean, if I get into my head to start dancing around the room in my tiny little shorts it's one thing, but if he just asks me to start dancing for him- it's like suddenly there's a spotlight on me and I get stage fright!------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 i'm shy when it comes to the bedroom cuz this is new to me, but when i'm out i'm loud as hell.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dale77 Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 OMG, I'm so shy!! It gets easier the older you get though. But I know how you feel. I have issues with being compared to other chicks, even though I'll totally compare one guy w/ another. lol. I've found that even though I'm rather shy in the bedroom, being with somone who is aggressive or a talker, helps alot b/c they encourage you be more open and expressive about what you want and what pleases you. ------------------You're only young once Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinergygrl Posted May 15 Author Report Share Posted May 15 I always worry about him comparing me to his other girlfriends. He is the only guy I have ever been with and so I have had 3 years experience with him, but I mean he has been with several other girls and I just worry that they were better than me. Sounds stupid, but I can't help but wonder. In general I am not shy once I get to know a person or if you are nice to me, and after that watch out, I'm outta control, but the bedroom is a whole nother story. Thank God he isn't shy. ------------------ "No further evidence is needed to show that "mental illness" is not the name of a biologicalcondition whose nature awaits to be elucidated, but is the name of a concept whose purpose isto obscure the obvious." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 I wish I were shy in the bedroom....this way I wouldnt get those looks when I want it over and over and over again ------------------ *How many licks does it take?* *Shake it baby, Shake it!* AiM: XxXccess(*SHAGFEST 2001* Cumming soon!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 well...to get over being shy in the bedroom, talk about what you want to do. like, go on a web BB, a so-called "sex board" where theres ppl you dont really know.just be sure to give *very* graphic descriptions. we want to hear everyth... umm... i mean you should really open up and talk about your fantasies. of course, you never have to do what you talk about, but the talking about it might help unleash your wild side.------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 Originally posted by sinergygrl:I always worry about him comparing me to his other girlfriends. He is the only guy I have ever been with and so I have had 3 years experience with him, but I mean he has been with several other girls and I just worry that they were better than me. Sounds stupid, but I can't help but wonder. In general I am not shy once I get to know a person or if you are nice to me, and after that watch out, I'm outta control, but the bedroom is a whole nother story. Thank God he isn't shy. seriously now-- unless he has some kind of problem, dont worry about him comparing you to his other girls. hes with you now. those other girls are history! youre his woman and i am sure you rock his world.------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinergygrl Posted May 15 Author Report Share Posted May 15 Thanks sirdante. You have made me feel a little bit better about everything. Hopefully I can get over this shyness, I am a total nypho and this really holds me back. Odd how I can talk to complete strangers about this and not my own boyfriend.------------------ "No further evidence is needed to show that "mental illness" is not the name of a biologicalcondition whose nature awaits to be elucidated, but is the name of a concept whose purpose isto obscure the obvious." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djstripe Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 <~~~~~~~~~~~Extremely shyyeah right....thats the ticket....lol...any one around here seen my handcuffs????------------------ (respect the sig) OBE is a thing of beauty"You're to old fat man......and your tits are too big. Get the fuck off my porch." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 Originally posted by sinergygrl:Thanks sirdante. You have made me feel a little bit better about everything. Hopefully I can get over this shyness, I am a total nypho and this really holds me back.np. i love giving unsolicited advice. Originally posted by sinergygrl:Odd how I can talk to complete strangers about this and not my own boyfriend.it does seem odd doesnt it? but its not. i kno i felt a bit let down coming back to these boards after i started meeting ppl. it was like i was not as free to be uninhibited anymore. once ppl from here met me and my lady it would be rude of me to continue to talk about her and our sex life. ------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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