pmunks Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 I know I don't like to be chased by woman. And I know woman i chase don't want me.I think you need to find a balance. Don't be a stalker... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahb53 Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 Let them come to you! Chasing a guys is not worth it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics- Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 Benny hill did ------------------I want to go out blazing..not fade away.I can STILL resist ANYTHING but temptation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twilogoddess Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 Men like a challenge. They always want what they can't have! Call me ol fashioned..I don't chase, I barely even call them. If u chase u come off as being desperate, easy, & too available. Let them do all the work & chase U! ------------------Trancessed!- Me[This message has been edited by twilogoddess (edited 01-19-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 it's a fine art, one that i have not mastered. but maybe try this: always leave them wanting more! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mik-e_smilez Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 we men love being chased especailly if you have a gun and are in a car. Men love car chases with guns.......oh wait this is probably what you meant is it.......oh well. But uhhhh like car chases are like um cool and stuff especailly with like um chicks uh huhuhuhuuhuhuuhuhyeah chicks in car chases rule! They Rule! ------------------'i wish U Heaven'"People who talk in metaphors should shampoo my crotch""and remember Kids, You Can't spell cracKed out with K"aol IM=MikE420DKE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mik-e_smilez Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 Honestly tho, i would say fuck all the games. Be yourself. Be how you want to be. If it works out then great, if it doesn't then tell him to fuck off and move on. Games are for kids. Just be real.------------------'i wish U Heaven'"People who talk in metaphors should shampoo my crotch""and remember Kids, You Can't spell cracKed out with K"aol IM=MikE420DKE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggfella4 Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 i think it depends. im sure some guys like gettin chased and some dont. personally, i could care less. i always think its best to be honest with the person whether its a guy or girl doing the chasing. and too bad for me i can never grow the balls to tell the girl i like her. oh well!! maybe next time.peace out,gianni------------------AIM: GGFELLA4EMAIL: iannuzzi4@yahoo.com HOMER DANCING TO JOINTS!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nlichau Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 Originally posted by mik-e_smilez:Honestly tho, i would say fuck all the games. Be yourself. Be how you want to be. If it works out then great, if it doesn't then tell him to fuck off and move on. Games are for kids. Just be real.I agree with you 100%Be yourself and you will find what you are looking for-or it will find you!------------------The music makes the people come together... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungoddess Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 Originally posted by sarahb53:Let them come to you! Chasing a guys is not worth it!I couldn't have said it any better! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 Originally posted by nikkisticks: I agree with you 100%Be yourself and you will find what you are looking for-or it will find you!My thoughts EXACTLY!!!!! ------------------Hi! How ya doing? where ya been, I had thoughts of you all night long. Can't describe what you did, but you got me so!Aolimer: Glowgirl42000Email: Sugar4@earthlink.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rad_Z Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 Umm i kinda agree with "ggfella".Not literarly being chased but i love a girl that makes the first move or initiates a conversation or something like that. If a girl makes the first move, that just shows that she's self confident, relaxed and not too worried about childish things, such as what others think.Not that i, or others, dont like shy girls, actually i'm attracted to them just as much. But it makes it easier, at least from my experience, to start a fun relationship (romantic or not).It totally depends on a person, some guys like being chased and others like being the aggressors. Rad_ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnb Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 I actually have been thinking about this a lot lately, because I am dating a girl who initiated everything, which is the first time that ever happened to me. I didn't even think I liked her when I first met her, but now I realise I do. I think generally you will get better guys, in the sense of guys who will not be such assholes if you initiate it. If you force guys to chase you, you will get guys who chase girls all the time. I personally like it when a girl initiates things. It shows real self-confidence and comfort. But I would say the majority of guys would not like it. They would feel threatened. But getting back to the original paragraph, do you want a guy who feels threatened by you? If I was a woman I wouldn't. But that's me. But really I agree that you should just be yourself and do what you feel.JohnB Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
risa06 Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 Originally posted by mik-e_smilez:Honestly tho, i would say fuck all the games. Be yourself. Be how you want to be. If it works out then great, if it doesn't then tell him to fuck off and move on. Games are for kids. Just be real.THANK YOU!!!------------------"I don't want you to love me........" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolcemimi Posted January 20 Report Share Posted January 20 All my life it seems- I chase after guys and I get dissed left and right. but I've been running after boys ever since I was in jr. high. I don't like men that come after me because they are not what I want. If I go after what I want, I get flat out rejected. Do men like to be the aggressor ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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