deanna11 Posted April 17 Author Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by loch: absolute last comment: the most profound post of the thread yet; and to think they perceive my following it NOT as a challenge/appreciation of wit, but as an act of perversion. no, i don't------------------[img]http://glowballsig.gif|/img] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 better to love..... ------------------ *How many licks does it take?*AIM: XxXccess ( i know, i know...XxX...yadda yadda yadda) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 both. . .loving someone is the greatest feeling 'cause it makes you feel alive. . .being loved by someone is special 'cause yur love is recipocated by your partner unconditionally. . .------------------we all exhale. . . shadowchaser076@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nlichau Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by sillylittlename:Without question, it is better TO love than be loved. Afterall, how could we even recognize love if we haven't felt it for someone else... Thats my girl-I couldn't have said it better myself. ------------------As I dance I create my own language... with every beat of my heart is the music I will dance through life to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted April 17 Author Report Share Posted April 17 i don't believe there's such a thing as unconditional love------------------[img]http://glowballsig.gif|/img] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frodo Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by deanna11:i don't believe there's such a thing as unconditional loveThere is unconditional loveIt is just that it is extremly rare between lovers(unfortunatly).For example love for oneschild is unconditional Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loch Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by alias11: no, i don'tsarcasm?------------------ "Nessie" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loch Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by frodo: There is unconditional loveIt is just that it is extremly rare between lovers(unfortunatly).For example love for oneschild is unconditional disagreed. despite this being the CLOSEST to "unconditional" that can exist, there is an unspoken wish that the object of your so-called-unconditional-love behave a certain way (whether it be a lover/spouse/child/parent/whatever), and thus posing a "condition" after all.------------------ "Nessie" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by deanna11:i don't believe there's such a thing as unconditional lovethere is hun. . .you just have to open your heart to know it. . .it's better than any drug. . .------------------we all exhale. . . shadowchaser076@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navid73 Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by shadowchaser: there is hun. . .you just have to open your heart to know it. . .it's better than any drug. . .That saying a lot..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathyo Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by loch: disagreed. despite this being the CLOSEST to "unconditional" that can exist, there is an unspoken wish that the object of your so-called-unconditional-love behave a certain way (whether it be a lover/spouse/child/parent/whatever), and thus posing a "condition" after all.Double Disagreed You may hope or have an unspoken desire that the object of your love behave a certain way, but that is def. not a *condition* of love. My kids could behave in any manner and I would still love them.I can't imagine anything that would make me stop loving either of them. That doesn't mean I will always agree with or condone what they might do.You couldn't possibly understand unless you have a child of your own. And even then, I don't feel it is something that *all* parents feel. I think it has a lot to do with the way you were raised.I KNOW for a fact that my parents love me unconditionally. ------------------ ~*~*~Don't use time or words carelessly, neither can be retrieved.~*~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woodu Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 I think it is better to be loved than love in some ways. I am falling for a girl right now, but she isn't falling as hard for me. That isn't feeling so good. Loch: Very well said when you said that love is like a tragic greek hero. Right on the money.------------------Living in a constant state of trance...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cubano43 Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 For me it's better to love. I've loved before and never got it in return but I got over it fast. I can't imagine someone loving me and I couldn't return it for some reason. That would hurt me. It's hurting me now and I can't fix it. I would never want to hurt anyone like that. ------------------The Woods Are Lovely, Dark & DeepBut I Have Promises To Keep And Miles to Go Before I Sleep..Robert Frost Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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