rayclubp Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Which one do you believe in? Are our lives mapped out from the get go or do we make our own destiny? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dlish Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 I'm gonna have to go with free willy...if you hook up with a fat chick, your friends will give you shit, hence, you create your own destiny. (my play on words) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted July 26 Report Share Posted July 26 it's all about fate in my eyes . . . i feel that everything happens for a reason . . we have no real control over what we do . . . like what could it be other than fate that you end up talking to someone because you need a favor from them and then you're supposed to meet up . . . and then you don't . . and you finally do, and everything seems great . . . then you lose contact . .. and then you start talking again . . . and then you end up talking about getting engaged??? what else besides fate brings two people together into happiness like that??? luv,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."brandie@optonline.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted July 26 Report Share Posted July 26 I always thought that I was the man, the creator of my own destiny up until about three years ago when life proved me wrong ;-)------------------...Ph0eniX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rayclubp Posted July 27 Author Report Share Posted July 27 I know exactly what you mean phoenix, you get that illusion of control and then the universe puts you back in place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 Originally posted by meta4z:I know exactly what you mean phoenix, you get that illusion of control and then the universe puts you back in place....yup, now I just go with the flow ...if something isn't meant to be then it never will, no matter how much effort you put into it------------------...Ph0eniX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowball Posted July 28 Report Share Posted July 28 NO way , if you work for what you want , you will get it no matter what ,See me im a owner of a club called the wave , well former i wanted to do it and igot it.....Uyou have to take control and go for it , work and work till you got it, man if i seen a pretty girl to me its hard to go over there and talk to her becaues she might think im a ugly ass of a fagget or what ever the case may bee , you got to go for it you know see ya Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted July 28 Report Share Posted July 28 I believe that everyhing does happen for a reason, wether it be good or bad. And its true that no matter how hard you fight for something, if its not meant to be, then let it go. Cause maybe it was never meant for u in the first place.------------------DANCE LIKE NOBODY'S WATCHING......._________________________clubchick20@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted July 28 Report Share Posted July 28 ...did you guys notice something ?? ...most women seem to think that everything happens for a reason while men seem to want to be the creators of their destiny ...just an observation ------------------...Ph0eniX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randy Posted July 28 Report Share Posted July 28 Men choose their destiny because we are correct.Sitting back and letting whatever happen is lazy. Nobody becomes successful by sitting on their ass.If it was a soulamte you were after, you aren't gonna find her being a hermit. You gotta get otut there and do your own thing, not constantly be on the prowl, but jsut lvie life. Women can prob sense when you have it going on foryourld and are attracted to it. Pheromes or something.Anyhow, life ain't a movie. Takiong responosibility for your decisions, positive and neagative resultscreates your identity.we aren't jsut shells of living creatures. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jolie21 Posted July 29 Report Share Posted July 29 I believe it's a little of both. Fate throws something at you and you have to decide which way to go with it. ------------------"I love the things that we should fear" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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