herculesmo Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 I've heard lotsa people saying they banged this girl and that girl and blah blah blah...I'd feel soooo terrible if i did a wham bam thank you ma'am. I need to be in love before I can go having sex, am I the only one?I like sex just as much as the next guy, but I can control myself and wait till I know. That being said, I've only been in love once *sniffle* So you all know how experienced i am Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 mmmm - i must say, there is one other gentleman in the world . . . just had a similar talk with the L.o.m.L. last nite . . . he seems to feel VERY similarly to you . . . could be a change from his past, that i really am not sure about BUT - it made me SOOOOO happy. luv,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."brandie@optonline.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 Originally posted by brandie:mmmm - i must say, there is one other gentleman in the world . . . just had a similar talk with the L.o.m.L. last nite . . . he seems to feel VERY similarly to you . . . could be a change from his past, that i really am not sure about BUT - it made me SOOOOO happy. luv,brandieI DO consider myself a gentlemen and I'm sure at least a few ladies that I know will agree on that ...though I do bang girls sometimes ;-).------------------...Ph0eniX[This message has been edited by Ph0eniX (edited 07-31-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jolie21 Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 My ex is like that. He has to really, really like the girl to even get aroused. He was also the best I've ever had and he had only had sex once before me. The guy I'm seeing now has been with soooo many girls and...well let's just say practice doesn't always make perfect. ------------------"I love the things that we should fear" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 Originally posted by jolie27:My ex is like that. He has to really, really like the girl to even get aroused. He was also the best I've ever had and he had only had sex once before me. The guy I'm seeing now has been with soooo many girls and...well let's just say practice doesn't always make perfect. ouch!! ...I'm sure he'd be happy to hear you say that ...haha------------------...Ph0eniX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
herculesmo Posted July 31 Author Report Share Posted July 31 So all in all.. is it a 'good' thing that I can't just sleep around (do girls like that?) or a bad thing and people think im gay? I don't know if it's a good or bad thing hehe.. all the ladies can let me know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crossymaster Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 Originally posted by hercules:So all in all.. is it a 'good' thing that I can't just sleep around (do girls like that?) or a bad thing and people think im gay? I don't know if it's a good or bad thing hehe.. all the ladies can let me know Oh my god, are you kiddin'? Does anyone beleive mister Hercules? I personally think you're full of crap, no offense meant, just observing.Ok, so you get my meaning without thinking I'm just tryin' to be a prick, let me exemplify...Ladies, do you think it's bad that I have a 8" long and extra fat penis? Is that good or is it too much?Another example...Ladies, is it good that I always make sure my girlfriends cum so that they enjoy sex, or is it just selfish of me to make them enjoy sex because then they'll want to have it again with me?Again...Ladies, is it good that I always bring my girlfreinds flowers to make them feel special?Please, come on, like women are going to say they don't like a man who wants to make love instead of just having sex. And like there is a guy out there that would say no to random sex I'm not sayin' you have to hit it and leave, but if you're not in love, you'd hit it anyway. Then you just keep hittin' it till you fall in love. Any guy that says otherwise is full of shit. Or they're using not being in love as an excuse to cover up their erectile disfunction. Give that guy a viagra and then we'll see if he still needs to be "in love" to get it up.------------------ BAC If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jolie21 Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 Shit crossy, I don't know the guys you know, but they don't seem to be too selective. I know more guys who have turned down sex rather than just fuck for the sake of fucking. Don't get me wrong...I know guys who stick it in ANYTHING too, but not many. Hmmmmm, or maybe they're just lying to me. ------------------"I love the things that we should fear" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 Originally posted by jolie27:Shit crossy, I don't know the guys you know, but they don't seem to be too selective. I know more guys who have turned down sex rather than just fuck for the sake of fucking. Don't get me wrong...I know guys who stick it in ANYTHING too, but not many. Hmmmmm, or maybe they're just lying to me. no, there are guys like that ...plenty of them actually ..most won't admit though------------------...Ph0eniX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
herculesmo Posted July 31 Author Report Share Posted July 31 believe what you want, i'm just asking a question.. If you don't have an answer then why post a reply?*shrugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 brian - there are guys in the world who actually care . . and i only believe this because the majority of my friends are guys . . . and sure, there are PLENTY who will fuck anything, but there actually some that maintain a few morals - and they have no reason to bullshit me cause i am ALL too happy where i am now, besides, i'm out of their league anyway, tee hee, j/k and just one of the 'boys'.so i disagree - i'm happy where i am . . . and there are certainly no problems with penile disfunction, etc.and ok - like there haven't been times when I've said yes to random sex. whatever. i think most people have given into passion or lust before .. . and that doesn't make you a dirtbag.and there were times in my life where i didnt want to make love . . sorry, i'm a wildwoman, but the whole lovey-dovey-smoochie-huggy-kissy face thing just didn't turn me on. I've learned to like affection, but there was DEF. a time in my life when i woulda chosen the hardcore over the sweetness. oh well.luv,brandie ------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."brandie@optonline.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 Originally posted by brandie:brian - there are guys in the world who actually care . . and i only believe this because the majority of my friends are guys . . . and sure, there are PLENTY who will fuck anything, but there actually some that maintain a few morals - and they have no reason to bullshit me cause i am ALL too happy where i am now, besides, i'm out of their league anyway, tee hee, j/k and just one of the 'boys'.so i disagree - i'm happy where i am . . . and there are certainly no problems with penile disfunction, etc.and ok - like there haven't been times when I've said yes to random sex. whatever. i think most people have given into passion or lust before .. . and that doesn't make you a dirtbag.and there were times in my life where i didnt want to make love . . sorry, i'm a wildwoman, but the whole lovey-dovey-smoochie-huggy-kissy face thing just didn't turn me on. I've learned to like affection, but there was DEF. a time in my life when i woulda chosen the hardcore over the sweetness. oh well.luv,brandie On your knees! ...who's your daddy?!?!!------------------...Ph0eniX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crossymaster Posted July 31 Report Share Posted July 31 Hey, I never said there weren't guys that aren't sensitive and caring and all that jazz. In fact, I'm one of them. All I'm sayin' is that even though I'm one of those guys, it doesn't mean I (or the other sensitive guys) won't have random meaningless sex at the drop of a pubic hair as long as I (or probably them too) am single and attracted to the girl. Peace Brian------------------ BAC If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g-money Posted August 1 Report Share Posted August 1 Alot of guys are players and just want... . But give me a break, sex isn't always about love and sharing emotions and... . It's also sometimes a purely physical thing which two or three people consent to. There is nothing wrong with that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
herculesmo Posted August 1 Author Report Share Posted August 1 never said there's anything wrong in it, I just personally don't partake in it sometimes i would like to but I'd feel too damn guilty after 'the act' so i guess I'm just a dork.. waiting for the special 'somebody' always takes a lotta time.. only happend 1 time so far and I think thats what ruined the relationship *sniffle* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted August 1 Report Share Posted August 1 that's terrible. tee hee. luv,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."brandie@optonline.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowball Posted August 1 Report Share Posted August 1 hey crossymaster dude i think hes full of crap to man lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lecy337 Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Crossy... you crack me up.. I couldnt help but laugh.. It was like I act. heard you sayin this in my head... Herc, if you are truly the way you say.. you are a jem, and well it's a turn on.. to a big turn on... but then again.. there are a lot of shady people.. both male and female..If you're not that way.. dont try to be... just let it go and what will be will be. I love good guys.. always have... always will.. @--->---[This message has been edited by lecy337 (edited 08-02-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
herculesmo Posted August 2 Author Report Share Posted August 2 thanks for the advice and i dont let anybody bother me here, until you meet me in real life you can't really pass judgements. which is why i not to do it myself (though sometimes it cant be helped hehe).thanks again lecy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crossymaster Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Originally posted by glowball:hey crossymaster dude i think hes full of crap to man lol Finally, someone else who isn't fallin' for this "sensitive" stick. Thankyou BAC------------------ BAC If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epannozzo Posted August 3 Report Share Posted August 3 I'm a gentleman with all women but it doesnt work for me, and i am asking my self if i should not change my approche to women.But i still believe that it is important to love someone before doing sex (my morals)P, Erik Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playboybunny Posted August 8 Report Share Posted August 8 yes i totally agree. in order to have sex i must be in love.. i couldnt deal with a one night stand, no way!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
herculesmo Posted August 8 Author Report Share Posted August 8 Thanks for backing up my thoughts too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rims Posted August 8 Report Share Posted August 8 I agree with you with the love thing....but as of right now I am sticking with banging....in the future I'll settle down and do the love thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
herculesmo Posted August 9 Author Report Share Posted August 9 All a matter of personal choices.. I dunno why people feel the need to bash me for mine but ..... I guess I'll just never understand that one.Not saying for u guys to stop doin what yer doin, just wondering if anybody else is out there like me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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