ertdukepj Posted September 10 Report Share Posted September 10 this girl i was speaking to has become attached to me, the problem is she isn't what i call good looking. but we're really alike. i'm only 17 so looks really matter but i do care about her. she won't just let me be friends with her, she wants a relationship with me, what should i do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 u have two choices:1) accept that u r a shallow individual (at least for now) and go with it. enjoy chasing hotties and focus only on appearances.2) stop being shallow and keep the girl. looks are not important to long term success in a relationship.i am not suggesting one or the other. its up to u.------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by sirdante:u have two choices:1) accept that u r a shallow individual (at least for now) and go with it. enjoy chasing hotties and focus only on appearances.2) stop being shallow and keep the girl. looks are not important to long term success in a relationship.i am not suggesting one or the other. its up to u.babes w/big tits! ...since he's an amateur ...he's got time for long-term relationships ...j/k ....get married bro as soon as you can ...to the UGLIEST chick in the neighborhood------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divvalicious Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 the worst thing u could do is go out with her just b/c u feel sorry for her. if ur not sexually attracted to her in that way it would NEVER work...just tell her u can only think of her as a friend..but just make sure u dont lead her on in any way to give her any ideas that u might be interested..cause then she'll always keep hoping...------------------~Music Is The Answer~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artful Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 What?She's not cute at all?You wouldn't call her cute.. so what would you call her?------------------ <I'm a Fire-starter> --- When the Artful speaksHAPPY HALLOWEEN!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rally Posted September 11 Report Share Posted September 11 Originally posted by neptune:the worst thing u could do is go out with her just b/c u feel sorry for her. if ur not sexually attracted to her in that way it would NEVER work...just tell her u can only think of her as a friend..but just make sure u dont lead her on in any way to give her any ideas that u might be interested..cause then she'll always keep hoping...I agree - honesty is the best way to go ... tell her again ... make it clear to her what the deal is ... straight forward! ------------------Rallythere is an after-life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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