JackMeOff Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 ...just because her boyfriend is jealous of me and told her not to be friends with me------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
risa06 Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 if she stoped talking to you just b/c her b/f told her so...she is not your best friend. Just MO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted September 18 Author Report Share Posted September 18 Originally posted by risa06:if she stoped talking to you just b/c her b/f told her so...she is not your best friend. Just MO she knows that she's making a mistake ...she admits that herself------------------ [This message has been edited by Ph0eniX (edited 09-18-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
risa06 Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 oh OK. Let me ask you...if she ever brake up w/ her b/f and come back to you as a friend will you be able to trust her again? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted September 18 Author Report Share Posted September 18 Originally posted by risa06:oh OK. Let me ask you...if she ever brake up w/ her b/f and come back to you as a friend will you be able to trust her again?...maybe ...I don't know ...I'm not looking for advise or judgement here ...it just hurts ...that's all------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
risa06 Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 I am not judging or giving an advise...I'm just talking/writing cause I'm bored and cause i know it could be painful Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted September 18 Author Report Share Posted September 18 Originally posted by risa06:I am not judging or giving an advise...I'm just talking/writing cause I'm bored and cause i know it could be painful you're probably right though ...I deserve better ...especially since this isn't the first time she's doing this ...thanks :-)------------------ [This message has been edited by Ph0eniX (edited 09-18-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
risa06 Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 btw...nice meeting you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest crystalmethodny Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 Jack -Sorry to hear that man. One of my best friends just came back into my life (because he moved to England) ... unfortunately, at the expense of his wife.Trying times, my friend.------------------"We're going to build things up slowly... are you with me? Here we go." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 *hugz*i'll be your best friend. really though, that sucks, I'm sorry to hear that.luv,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."**NEW EMAIL!!**brandie@powerpuff.comorloves2cox@netscape.netAIM: loves2cox Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 Sorry to hear PoXI was in the same situation with one of my best friends. I haven't spoken to her in three months becuase her asshole of a boyfriend. They broke up a few weeks ago, and she's talking with me again and feels crappy about what she did. I think our friendship has suffered because of it too. Sometimes people and friends do weird and unexplainable shit. ------------------ "Do you still dream...do you still dream like me...infectious corruptive dreams."shadowchaser076@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divvalicious Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 Originally posted by Ph0eniX:...just because her boyfriend is jealous of me and told her not to be friends with meyea that's usually what happens in situations like that...it sux..Jealousy is a bitch!!!------------------~DoNt HaTe ThE PLaYa, HaTe ThE GaMe!!!~ [This message has been edited by neptune (edited 09-18-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 i can relate pox. had and actually am still stuck in the same situation. the guy's an asshole and she just follows everything he tells her to do. i hate the fact that she has no friends and no life whatsoever outside of him. i care about her a lot and i just wish she could see what a jerk he is.-Rob------------------"And thus they give the time, that Nature meantFor peaceful sleep and meditative snores,To ceaseless din and mindless merrimentAnd waste of shoes and floors." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 you're cheating on me? you care about some chick and not me? hehehelove you,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."**NEW EMAIL!!**brandie@powerpuff.comorloves2cox@netscape.netAIM: loves2cox Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted September 18 Report Share Posted September 18 I lost my bestfriend over a new girl, cause she didn't like the fact that we were more that just friends. Plus he lied to her about our relationship and she didnt want to be around someone who he slept with before. we are reduced to emails and AIM ....... Sucks I loved that boy!!!!------------------Good time had by all!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ynicholas Posted September 19 Report Share Posted September 19 I think I have been in the process of losing a friend I have known since I was in high school b/c of his girlfriend. She is so jealous of me (I don't know why). They live together in Philly (I'm in NY) and she thinks that I want to get with him. HELLO!! First of all high school was like 6+ years ago. I did like him back then but I got over it. In a convo he had with his girl he told her that we had "feelings" for one another at one point. No shit, but again that was 6+ yrs ago. So know anytime I go to Philly or call she thinks I am trying to take him away from her. I don't want him like that. So I am thinking she is putting him a position to choose either me or her. I don't want to be in the middle of that. So I will just be a good friend for him and let him sort it out himself, unless he asks for my opinion.As for as male friends, I have tons of them. I guess I am one of the few women than can have no "feelings" for my male friends and have no jealousy towards another woman my boyfriend is friends with. If someone is a cheater, they will cheat. I don't like hearing bullshit that they were caught at a weak moment or anything. I guess I think like a guy so STFU!!! (just showing my ever so small aggressive side). ~*Jam*~------------------Non esco con Tizio, Caio e Sempronio. Forse Caio! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted September 19 Author Report Share Posted September 19 Originally posted by jamjimvin:I think I have been in the process of losing a friend I have known since I was in high school b/c of his girlfriend. She is so jealous of me (I don't know why). They live together in Philly (I'm in NY) and she thinks that I want to get with him. HELLO!! First of all high school was like 6+ years ago. I did like him back then but I got over it. In a convo he had with his girl he told her that we had "feelings" for one another at one point. No shit, but again that was 6+ yrs ago. So know anytime I go to Philly or call she thinks I am trying to take him away from her. I don't want him like that. So I am thinking she is putting him a position to choose either me or her. I don't want to be in the middle of that. So I will just be a good friend for him and let him sort it out himself, unless he asks for my opinion.As for as male friends, I have tons of them. I guess I am one of the few women than can have no "feelings" for my male friends and have no jealousy towards another woman my boyfriend is friends with. If someone is a cheater, they will cheat. I don't like hearing bullshit that they were caught at a weak moment or anything. I guess I think like a guy so STFU!!! (just showing my ever so small aggressive side). ~*Jam*~jealousy jealousy jealousy ...it can ruin so much of positive feelings ...it's a shame------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ynicholas Posted September 19 Report Share Posted September 19 I don't get it Phoenix. I mean I am sooo harmless. I would never think of it. My rule of thumb is the golden rule so I totally respect any relationship someone has. I couldn't break someone up just so I get the guy. I wouldn't want it to happen to me... I can turn my feeling off like that very easliy if I know someone is "taken". ~*Jam*~------------------Non esco con Tizio, Caio e Sempronio. Forse Caio! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted September 20 Author Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by jamjimvin:I don't get it Phoenix. I mean I am sooo harmless. I would never think of it. My rule of thumb is the golden rule so I totally respect any relationship someone has. I couldn't break someone up just so I get the guy. I wouldn't want it to happen to me... I can turn my feeling off like that very easliy if I know someone is "taken". ~*Jam*~I know how you feel ...believe me, hun ...best thing to do is to focus on yourself though and not to have any expectations ...life is short so enjoy the ride------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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