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Hey, I got a few questions.

First, can you tell if a girl has orgasmed? And any tips on how? I want my baby to feel GOOD. I heard some girls need oral?

I would just ask her, but she isn't that experienced, only slept with one guy before me. Thanks,

JB

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Originally posted by JoelB:

Well thats definitely happened before...

She's just not especially vocal so I can't really tell. Thanks though! =)

"vocal"....hehe....thats cute smile.gif

just talk to her....make her feel comfy...ask her to let you know when she is about to cum cause that turns you on or cause you just want to know....communication is the answer........ask her how she likes it.....

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Vocal =) She moans and cooh's sometimes, but not like the porno chicks. I mean we're not afraid to communicate during sex, she will tell me what feels good. I mean its kinda a given that the guy will cum, but I want her to climax too. Sometimes I think I can tell she has, but I'm not sure. Does the girl even know when she's relatively new at it? Thanks Risa!!

Joel

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Originally posted by JoelB:

Vocal =) She moans and cooh's sometimes, but not like the porno chicks. I mean we're not afraid to communicate during sex, she will tell me what feels good. I mean its kinda a given that the guy will cum, but I want her to climax too. Sometimes I think I can tell she has, but I'm not sure. Does the girl even know when she's relatively new at it? Thanks Risa!!

Joel

"...not like porno chicks..." every girl is different....I'm not that loud...

so let me ask you...you think that she never had an orgasm? ...sorry...I'm a lil confused...

trust me....girl KNOWS when she is about to cum or if she had an orgasm....it really doesn't matter if she is new to it or not...I had my first orgasm long time b4 I had sex...hehe..........may be she never had an orgasm??? has nothing to do w/ you...I'm sure you do everything to make her feel great....but sometimes girls just don't know how to cum....

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Originally posted by JoelB:

No, I thiiink she has, I know she cums. But not every time thats all, I want to get better at it. I'm not insecure, she says I'm amazing and we go at it twice a day... yum =)

JB

"twice a day".....damn!!!!!!!....someone is lucky smile.gif hehe...good luck sweetie.....it looks like you really love you lil girlie....and she loves you.....I'm sure you 2 are great for eachother smile.gif

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I agree with everything that's been said here and as an addendum to divalicious's list, a girl will sometimes get red and blotchy on her chest when she's about to orgasm....this happens to me. From a personal standpoint I lost my virginity at 17 and didn't have an orgasm until 21, and it wasn't a guy that gave me my first one, but rather a battery operated device, ha ha, but once I knew what it was that I needed I was able to communicate that to my guy and it was all uphill from there!! As for being vocal, sometimes I'm loud and sometimes I'm not but at the point of climax you def. know it's happening with me!! OH, god, i need to go get some, see ya......

Oh, and PS: oral sex is a must. Don't even fucking waste my time, ha ha!!

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I get the blotchyness too! But it doesn't always mean that I had an orgasm, sometimes I get it before or after or during. This only happens to some girls, usually ones with fairer skin. Remember the key to giving her an orgasm is clitoral stimulation, it is pretty much the only way she will have one. -SIN

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Originally posted by sinergygrl:

Remember the key to giving her an orgasm is clitoral stimulation, it is pretty much the only way she will have one. -SIN

oh sweetie, if you believe that, you're missing out on one of the best kinds of orgasms - the g-spot orgasm! requires no clitoral stimulation! however, if it is accompanied by clitoral stimulation, watch out! wooohooo!! or should i say, mmmmmmmm ooooooooooo mmmmmmmmmm!

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Originally posted by divalicious:

oh sweetie, if you believe that, you're missing out on one of the best kinds of orgasms - the g-spot orgasm! requires no clitoral stimulation! however, if it is accompanied by clitoral stimulation, watch out! wooohooo!! or should i say, mmmmmmmm ooooooooooo mmmmmmmmmm!

I like that answer diva.. biggrin.gif

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Originally posted by divalicious:

oh sweetie, if you believe that, you're missing out on one of the best kinds of orgasms - the g-spot orgasm! requires no clitoral stimulation! however, if it is accompanied by clitoral stimulation, watch out! wooohooo!! or should i say, mmmmmmmm ooooooooooo mmmmmmmmmm!

hmmmmmmmm....you tell 'em Diva....... smile.gif

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IM NO EXPERT. Here is what Ive learned, first the best way to tell is to communicate with your girl you have to talk. But I know sometime girls are shy or inexperiened you know the type, they want you to keep the lights off, are very insecure about how they look even those you ready to bust a nut just from seeing her panty line. Now the best way Ive found to tell when she having and orgasm is when your preforming oral on her just because your not all caught up on your body .This is when you can concentrate 100% on her you have to see,feel,and hear every little action,like small tremble or quivers that radiate thru her body.Sometime there is extra vaginal fluid or she may moan or sream or stay quiet all girls are differnt.Sometimes her orgasm maybe so intense or even NEW to her, that she will try to pull away from you or grab your head and pull it away or worst crush your head like a nut with her thigh. HeHeHe... dont worry you'll live, and keep going at it she in her own sweet little agony your doing a good job.On rare occasions you may even see a tear or two in her eyes or she may scream thank you god or even promise you the world for your her new messiah. But don't forget its time for your orgasm. OH one more thing sometime when your making love to a girl try and get your breathing to match hers then breath slower and deeper, slower and deeper keeping at the same pace it will drive you both crazy if you can get a momentum going you have to try I can't explain it. cwm7.gif

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Diva... I alway forget about the G spot thank you for reminding me! My G spot is so sensitive it actually doesn't feel good to me because it almost burns. Sometimes it is awsome, but most of the time I could scream and not in a good way.

And... not all girls have a G spot, but it is definantly worth looking for. -SIN

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Hmm.. You can definitely tell if a girl has an orgasm.. If she's not that experienced yet, that's even better for you. More things to show her and more things for her to discover smile.gif Just keep on doing something new and ask her whether she likes it this way or that way. Or she can just tell you what she wants to try..

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Originally posted by mysteriousss:

Hmm.. You can definitely tell if a girl has an orgasm.. If she's not that experienced yet, that's even better for you. More things to show her and more things for her to discover smile.gif Just keep on doing something new and ask her whether she likes it this way or that way. Or she can just tell you what she wants to try..

hmmmmmmmmmm....how can a guy tell FOR SURE that girl had an orgasm?????? tell me???? cause I disagree............

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You can always tell if a girl is having an orgasm by... her vaginal muscles tighten up very tight. This always happens during an orgasm, you will feel it to. If you don't feel it, she didn't orgasm. Also, about 95% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. I think it might even be 98%. So use sexual positions that focus on the clit or play with it while you are having sex or even have her touch herself while you are having sex. -SIN

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