trippintrance64 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 So basically this past weekend, my ex invited me to go to tunnel with her. Since she had never been to a NY club, she wanted me to go. I had never been to tunnel, so i said fuck it. Basically the place blew. Imy opinion, no bashing please)...so we went to eat, and my friend dropped us off at my house at about 530 or so...so Long story short at about 9 or so, after my parents bounced for church, we had a steamy 3 hour "session."....we spoke about it after, and agreed that there would be no emotional attatchment. i think that it is really cool.....dunno if it'll last. shit ima enjoy it tho!!------------------A man makes his sunshine, and he makes his rain. Look at what you have, and where you are, before you say, "I've had a horrible day" Appreciate what you have, and realize how much others wish they could have that much. Live Life, and LOVE IT! --Me"The Suspense is TERRIBLE....i hope it'll last!" -Willy WonkaSleep...Ah..Those little slices of death. How i loath them. - Edgar Allan Poe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trance604 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Theres something about sex with an ex that makes it unusually good....------------------THE BEAT IS IN MY HEADAIM:Turbo SC300 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by vj604:Theres something about sex with an ex that makes it unusually good....I gotta agree.. As long as there are no feelings involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 definetly has its perksbut can't beat sex w/ someone you love (hi baby)-Rob------------------"No sane man will dance" - Cicero - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Sex with an ex is the best sex cause you both know, how you love to be done... and theres no awkwardness... except after you sober up...------------------Do you believe in love at first sight?...or do I have to walk past you again?...I want lips that won't lie, eyes that won't cry and a love that won't die...don't be afraid to look into my eyes,I'll catch ya if you fall in love... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolly Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Sex with the ex is good as long as you both are over each other. Keep in mind that girls get emotionally attached a lot easier than men do and take a lot of things to heart. If she it totally cool with it and doesn't expect anything out of it then GO YOU. Must have been a long mass that your parents were at....3 hours. Damn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trance604 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 yeah i forgot that..somehow you subtly have to make sure there are no feelings attached...thats the hard part.------------------THE BEAT IS IN MY HEADAIM:Turbo SC300 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scentedpink Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Ive been down this road before! woohoo! Those "sessions" we better than the sessions we had while we were together.BUT it also made me feel a little guilty. I felt like I shouldnt be jumping on the boat if I didnt want to stay on for the ride.------------------"When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on." -Thomas Jefferson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carsonfever Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 All I gotta say is EX SEX IS BEST.....bring that shit on!!!!!! ------------------AIM: Carson11115 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by Ph0eniX: I don't mean to shit on anyone's parade here but it never works out ...sooner or later one side [or both ]will develop feelings and A. you will end up in a relationship together again.B. one of you will get hurt because the other won't want the relationship....ex's are ex's for a reason ...it's only a matter of time before you realize that yourself. ...for now, HAVE YOUR FUNYep, you're absolutely right... Haven't slept with any of my ex's in a while. But I'm one of the ppl who'd start getting attached again and that'd be a disaster. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phrankadelic Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Yes it would be a disaster. And i totally agree, as i stated before, that feelings would definitely come about. It's inevitable. We're human aren't we?I, for one, have done it a couple of times. But all ties must be cut eventually. It'll come back to bite you in the ass (kinky huh?) and you're then stuck with the same situation that got you both broken up in the first place. Right?------------------Phrankdaphunk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 Originally posted by mysteriousss: Yep, you're absolutely right... Haven't slept with any of my ex's in a while. But I'm one of the ppl who'd start getting attached again and that'd be a disaster.Your 100% aboslutley Damn Right...Preach On Brother...------------------...don't be afraid to look into my eyes,I'll catch ya if you fall in love... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divalicious Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 i thought that's what ex's were for... ------------------ Peace Love Happiness y'all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phrankadelic Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 I must agree that it is great and convenient, but as mentioned before, feelings may arise once again and make the situation that more complex. I guess it's always great the first couple of times, but it's only going to lead to problems down the road.Well that's unless both keep the feelings out it. But then again that would be a perfect world now wouldn't it? ------------------Phrankdaphunk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 Originally posted by phrankadelic:I must agree that it is great and convenient, but as mentioned before, feelings may arise once again and make the situation that more complex. I guess it's always great the first couple of times, but it's only going to lead to problems down the road.Well that's unless both keep the feelings out it. But then again that would be a perfect world now wouldn't it? I don't mean to shit on anyone's parade here but it never works out ...sooner or later one side [or both ]will develop feelings and A. you will end up in a relationship together again.B. one of you will get hurt because the other won't want the relationship....ex's are ex's for a reason ...it's only a matter of time before you realize that yourself. ...for now, HAVE YOUR FUN------------------ [This message has been edited by Ph0eniX (edited 11-08-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobadrinker Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 Yeah!! There's that naughty element in sex with the ex (though I really detest the word. I prefer to say former)that you don't get with a partner. But it can be a tricky situation. Wonder what she's doing lately....hmmm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest chinagirl Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 i wish i could have sex with my ex, he would never go for it though. I would have feelings but i would keep them to myself and just enjoy for what its worth. i will always have feelings for him but its over and we both no that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 Originally posted by dgmodel: Your 100% aboslutley Damn Right...Preach On Brother...LOL, it's Sista to you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divvalicious Posted November 11 Report Share Posted November 11 So basically this past weekend, my ex invited me to go to tunnel with her. Since she had never been to a NY club, she wanted me to go. I had never been to tunnel, so i said fuck it. Basically the place blew. Imy opinion, no bashing please)...so we went to eat, and my friend dropped us off at my house at about 530 or so...so Long story short at about 9 or so, after my parents bounced for church, we had a steamy 3 hour "session."....we spoke about it after, and agreed that there would be no emotional attatchment. i think that it is really cool.....dunno if it'll last. shit ima enjoy it tho!!hey it sounds good to me...------------------~~PaRt TiMe AngEL PaRt tImE DeViL~~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lelu Posted November 22 Report Share Posted November 22 The sex is so goood but afterwards is when everything can go to hell cause feelings can arise and make it an even more awkward situation.------------------Lelu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eltigre01 Posted November 23 Report Share Posted November 23 As much as I may agree with everything that has been said so far about being carefull that there are no feeling being hurt, I thought Id add my $.02 worth. I have had recurring "sessions" with my ex for over 3 years now. Seems every time we break up with whomever we may have been seeing we somehow wind up falling back together for some fun. It has worked out great for so long I dont think it will ever stop unless one of us gets married.Long live the Fuck buddy!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 now that i'm no longer infatuated with my last ex, i can objectively say he was not good. i can't believe we spent so many hours, even consecutive days in bed together. of course, at the time when i was into him, i really enjoyed it. well, i guess that's a good sign for me: i enjoy the guy more than the sex. and now that i know how he is, i couldn't ever enjoy him in any way again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.Schwartz Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 Hey man, whatever tickles your pickle, it sounds exciting to me man,, i'd probably do it. And if u start to feel attached, they hey maybe it would be cool to be back with her.. that's how a lot of relationships get patched up.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
queenblomeup Posted November 30 Report Share Posted November 30 HEY ALBERTICO..IS IT LA VIEJA OTRA VEZ??!?! SUCIO!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU!! CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU!!!! ------------------Can You Feel It...Do You Still Want More...~*~QueenBloMeUp~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted November 30 Report Share Posted November 30 Originally posted by nychunk:Hey man, whatever tickles your pickle, it sounds exciting to me man,, i'd probably do it. And if u start to feel attached, they hey maybe it would be cool to be back with her.. that's how a lot of relationships get patched up.. ...and most of them don't last------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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