deanna11 Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 detachment disorder, insecurity, whatever reason? or would you say everyone is capable; some just have more formidable armor to overcome?duckets' thread (http://bbs.clubplanet.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/025303.html) inspired me to ask------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
translucent Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 Even Hitler loved his dog.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duckets Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 i definitely think that everyone is capable of love. I think many people spend a lot of time training themselves to become immune to it though.I think that the people that seem incapable, are the people who are most capable, but the most afraid.------------------ *...have the ability to let that which does not matter, truly slide.*-Ed Norton-Fight Club Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics- Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 Some people are incapable, but it's generally linked with a medical condition.For instance autistic people cannot relate to emotions and personal situations as the front part of the brain that deals with all that isn't functioning correctly. So some forms of autism won't allow any for of connection.But I think most people are capable of love on some level.------------------I want to go out blazing..not fade away.Trust in the currency of relationships, it's hard to earn but easy to loose - back2basics Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 To put a limitation on emotion is a crime!BlueAngel------------------"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not." — Andre Gide Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 love is blind...god is blind...ray charles is blind...ray charles is god. . .love stinks. . .------------------dream your dreams. . . shadowchaser076@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safitamace319 Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 incapable...maybe sociopaths, etc. you know people with that type of predatory history, however, healthy people, you may doubt your capability, but you have the Capacity, you just have some unforeseen obstacle, or you're limiting yourself as to what you love... there are many forms of love, but i'm assuming you're talking about relationship love, not like parent, sibling, people in general love or some other sort of interest. so i guess, like myself where you begin to question, seroiusly ask yourself what it is that you think may be holding you back. you definitely have the capacity, there's just a "barrier" sorry to be all preachy, just my thoughts rambling again.------------------"And if I Die before i learn to speak...Will money pay for all the days i lived awake but half asleep?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest crystalmethodny Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by translucent:Even Hitler loved his dog.DudeThat is hilarious. LOL------------------"Can you feel it?""We're going to build things up slowly... are you with me? Here we go."CrystalMethodNYC@aol.comwww.extremegroove.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glamgal1100 Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 It took me so long to find love again and even though it only lasted a few short months I would trade in all of my wonderful "single life experiences" to have that feeling back.Never can truly love someone until they truly love you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jewel44317 Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Hmmmmm, incapable of love? I think that all healthy ppl are born with the abilty to love, but are sometimes taught/conditioned not to. Coming from a psychological perspective, a lot has to do with what we learn to associate love with as children. In many instances, children learn that love means pain/betrayal/mistrust, and therefore develop barriers to prevent themselves from feeling these things (or on a lesser scale, wind up in dysfunctional relationships.) Hence, the mass amounts of criminals and sociopaths without remorse for their actions, and with that "cold" look in their eyes. It's not that they can't love, but all of their feelings have become blunted due to the lack of love in their own lives. "Love one another, or perish."------------------"Spontaneity is the key to spice in life" "Music makes the world go 'round...so keep it spinnin!"AIM: Jewel44317 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmb1975 Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Deanna...can't believe you asked this!!! I was just saying this on saturday to the now Ex-boyfriend...I am staring to really believe that maybe i am incapable of being in love...------------------ The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mmr Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 a person's personal history has alot to do with their current emotional state. Everyone can hate and love, that is what being HUMAN is all about...ya gotta love that. :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peache5030 Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by cmb1975:Deanna...can't believe you asked this!!! I was just saying this on saturday to the now Ex-boyfriend...I am staring to really believe that maybe i am incapable of being in love...hahaha..i think this ALL the time..it seems once i get to the point of no return..i call it quits...like the whole beginning phase is what I like but the serious " love" part scares me..maybe i am incapable...------------------Dont ever stop smiling-->you never know who is falling in love with your smile...I dont cry because it ENDED--> I smile because we HAPPENED.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dzadza Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Does love that lasted only a couple of years/months/weeks/days/hours/minutes count as love?------------------A man who has attained complete mastery of an art reveals his presence of mind in every action. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ezdreamer Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 You can foresee the response to "I hate you" 100x easier than "I love you!"It's not just incapable of love... it's just the fear of it...Fear leads to hate... The real problem comes in when you love two or three people at once... ------------------Forget the dreams... what you need is a good nightmare to bring you back to reality... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djustinh Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 everyone is capable of love, in some shape or form. defending yourself against loving someone or something, is just plain dumb------------------a mind stretched by new dimensions can never be the same againYour laughing at me cause I am different? Shit, im laughing at you cause your all the fucking same! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 I do think it's possible for people to never experience love.. Either because they are "incapable" of it or maybe because they don't allow themselves to give their heart to someone else out of fear of being hurt.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noiseboy Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 love means something different to everyone. . .i love mashed potatoesi love my cati love dancingi love a good shagit's tricky. . . but fun, nonetheless. . . ------------------no bullshit, no drama, just pimpin' since 1976. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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