avalondon3 Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 It seems that everywhere I go, I always see two things.......1) Pretty girl with a dorky/ugly/nerdy guy2) Good looking guy with a busted ass girlIts rare to see two good looking people together and rare to see a couple that look good together.....Why do we do this?? I never understood..does anyone know the answer to this?------------------ -----------------------Find Your Spot....Claim It......It's Your's--------------When I Think About You... My Feelings Cant Explain..Why After All This Time..My Feelings... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycetouch Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 its just what you notice..the paradoxes. anyway, why are you wondering about this at 2am...and why am I answering....------------------ Accountz Reeceevin' Ain't For No Candy-Ass Temps[This message has been edited by nycetouch (edited 06-28-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avalondon3 Posted June 28 Author Report Share Posted June 28 Originally posted by nycetouch:. anyway, why are you wondering about this at 2am...and why am I answering....Good question......anyone else have a answer to my above question?------------------ -----------------------Find Your Spot....Claim It......It's Your's--------------When I Think About You... My Feelings Cant Explain..Why After All This Time..My Feelings... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycetouch Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Originally posted by avalondon3: Good question......anyone else have a answer to my above question?what bout my question? did you see recently something to set off this quest for answers.......still kicking at 4am, off to some latenights....PEACE------------------ Accountz Reeceevin' Ain't For No Candy-Ass Temps Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dale77 Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Forces of nature I guess.------------------You're only young once: Na! Na! Na! Gonna have a good time!Hey! Hey! Hey! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diana Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 ...Good Sex?I have pondered that many of times actually and the only thing that I can come up with is that when a great looking guy is with a busted chick he has complete control over her and does not have to worry about being insecure. He knows that she will never do better. Same thing goes with the girl ....I personally think it is a self esteem issue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwyllion Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Originally posted by drama:...Good Sex?I have pondered that many of times actually and the only thing that I can come up with is that when a great looking guy is with a busted chick he has complete control over her and does not have to worry about being insecure. He knows that she will never do better. Same thing goes with the girl ....I personally think it is a self esteem issue.TOTALLY AGREE!!! Couldn't have said it better.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonyv Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 I guess GOD has a sense of humor. ------------------"Smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princess0111 Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 CHECK YOUR PM'S AVALON!!!!!------------------ ------------------------- TAKE ME TO A PLACE WHERE THE FLOWERS GROW.....I'LL BE BACK IN AN HOUR OR SO.......ECSTACY IS gOD! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superflyguy Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Usually you see Hot Chicks with Busted guys because of $$$ Busted chicks w/Hot guys= Insecure guys who take the safe route or have no game. That's from my experience anyways------------------$uPa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 it's really never safe to assume anything about why people choose the mates that they do. human nature is so complicated & beauty is in the eye of the beholder. one time i was totally infatuated with a guy and to me he was beautiful & sexy, but not one of my friends saw him the way i did, they all thought he was gross & ugly. i usually end up liking guys with an off-beat look, something different than the classic all-American look. can't explain it, although I'm about as middle-class, mainstream America as you can get. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prplhz Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 I would have to agree with you Shugabooga. Right now I am currently dating the most beautiful, amazing man in the world, but my friends and people that I meet don't see that. At first glance all they see is his face, which to them is not the best thing in the world, but too me he is sexy and good looking....People usually comment to me about it, in clubs the guys will go "that is your boyfriend?", and I am like yah, they then will have a look of wonder on their face. And my friends say well he's okay...But beauty is in the eye of the beholder, looks aren't everything, there are other things that contribute to being sexually attracted to a person, the way that someone looks at you, or the way that they touch you, the way that they make you feel inside, or the intellectual conversation that you might have. Looks are a plus for without them you probably aren't going to initially approach someone but they are not everything....------------------Music makes the world turn, for without it we are nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smileygirl Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 This is just an guess, but maybe they actually like each other!!!!It shouldn't matter what the person looks like or how much money they have--It goes way beyond that. In my opinion, that is just shallow!Using someone to make yourself look good or feel better is unacceptable! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djsizeup Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 smileygirl you're kind of right, but what avalondon meant not only was a good looking girl/guy with a bad looking boy/girl, but a good looking (and possibly cool) person with a bad looking (and noticably dorky and not cool)person. So yeah you're right, but you have to admit there are a lot of couples out there who just don't look right together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
philo Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 it's easy....you only see the outside, they have the entire picture...since it's a club planet, i'll give you a club example.. say, there is a scary looking, old, dirty entrance to some warehouse with an ugly ass bouncer working the door. the torn sign above the door says "D.MP nght cl.b" ... an outider might say why are all those beautiful people going into that hole? ...they know what's inside------------------elements...TwiloPalace@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris817 Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 b/c two good looking people both have huge ego's and the doorway will not be big enough for them both to fit in Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 LUCK Theres alot of lucky people in the world. All the ugly ones that you see are just plain lucky....Or rich LOL ------------------~~all those who dance may enter my life~~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
resident Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Hello!You're missing the obvious, Watson.$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$------------------In G We Trust Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avalondon3 Posted June 29 Author Report Share Posted June 29 Originally posted by twinange1:it has a lot to do w/ being insecure. most people dont give themselves enough credit, and they dont aim high, so they pretty much take what ever comes along. some people want a not so attractive partner so they can look better, it all has to do w/ how the person truly feels about themselves and their self esteem.Ding Ding! We have a winner, I think thats the reason people do that...I know alot of people,with low self esteem and low self worth, that go out with the first person they meet cause they think they cant do any better.. ------------------ -----------------------Find Your Spot....Claim It......It's Your's--------------When I Think About You... My Feelings Cant Explain..Why After All This Time..My Feelings...[This message has been edited by avalondon3 (edited 06-28-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtotaleclipsex Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 Some of you guys are way off. I have a very pretty girlfriend of mine who could get many guys, but she is with a not so atractive guy. Why? He has the most awesome personality. He is so much fun, has a great attitude, and treats her like gold. Some good looking people get sick of meeting other goodlooking people who have shitty personalities. ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtotaleclipsex Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 Some of you guys are way off. I have a very pretty girlfriend of mine who could get many guys, but she is with a not so atractive guy. Why? He has the most awesome personality. He is so much fun, has a great attitude, and treats her like gold. Some good looking people get sick of meeting other goodlooking people who have shitty personalities. ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinange1 Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 it has a lot to do w/ being insecure. most people dont give themselves enough credit, and they dont aim high, so they pretty much take what ever comes along. some people want a not so attractive partner so they can look better, it all has to do w/ how the person truly feels about themselves and their self esteem.------------------KAIN PROMOTIONS TwinAngelList@aol.com ...we are what we do repeatedly...little things affect little minds...you may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try IN THREE WORDS I CAN SUM UP EVERYTHING I'VE LEARNED ABOUT LIFE: IT GOES ON...ROBERT FROST Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smileygirl Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 Originally posted by avalondon3:It seems that everywhere I go, I always see two things.......1) Pretty girl with a dorky/ugly/nerdy guy2) Good looking guy with a busted ass girlIts rare to see two good looking people together and rare to see a couple that look good together.....Why do we do this?? I never understood..does anyone know the answer to this?I have to quote you on this one! You said that it is RARE that two good looking people are together--why do two good looking people have to be together? I guess the world is fucked up then. There have been so many comments saying that people are just insecure and want to feel better about themselves--I personally think it is bullshit. It is just a shitty was of thinking! If you read PHILO's expanation--he is right on target!! That is the most intelligent explanation that I have heard so far from this topic! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanjay Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 Okay..i definitely agree with everyone who said beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and furthermore i think its very reasonable to say that is an undeniable fact....also, i dont know about you guys..but when i meet someone, or find myself attracted to someone i definitely dont cross check their looks with mine...I'm never ever like 'oh this person is hotter/uglier then me so i should go get with her' wtf do i care? i just want to get with her anyway.hehe...------------------ http://www.rhythm-addiction.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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