kludgio Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 i like to go to a club or bar just to wander around, or sit in a corner by myself sometimes. (of course these are the times when i'm particularly antisocial.) however, often some well-meaning people come over and try to chat me up. i appreciate their concern -- "are you okay? just chilling? are you sure? are you sure?? because i can sit and talk with you all night if you want? no? are you sure?" -- but really, i often like to just sit back and listen to music and observesometimes, i wear hats or hoodies. the most effective i find is having a friend on the same wavelength as you to sit withany ideas to share? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystalmethod Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 LOLConster, just tell em to fuck off and leave you alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kludgio Posted September 8 Author Report Share Posted September 8 HAHAHA! i don't want to be the one reason why they later told people that the vibe at the party sucked"dude, it was horrible! i tried to be nice to this one girl, and she told me to fuck off!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnnyrevs Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 a nasty look usually does the trick:laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crobra Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Spit foam out of your mouth, gyrate violently, and say random things - people will leave you alone!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Originally posted by crobra Spit foam out of your mouth, gyrate violently, and say random things - people will leave you alone!! do things the gothzane way! (j/k-dont hurt me)if that still doesnt work, smack them around Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Yea I just start picking my nose~ lmao could u imagine!!!!!~misskittie~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heretic909 Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 I think it helps if you're 6'2", 240lbs, have long black hair, a goatee shaved into three stripes, and a perma-scowl on your face. Very few people ever approach me if I go somewhere new by myself which is quite alright by me.Attire can also help, like the one time I wore a Cradle of Filth (UK black metal band) t-shirt to Twilo on a Saturday, and the back of the shirt says 'Dead Girls Don't Say No'. Needless to say that the natives steered completely clear of me that night until around 7am when this one guy comes up and tells me that he's a big fan of Cradle of Filth. So we get to chatting and he gets out his...umm...candy and gives me a huge bump of...umm...trail mix. That's when I knew I had perfected my personal filter of screening out the losers, but allowing the people with free drugs to approach me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loch Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 yea, the mere fact that i exist and am alive Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dialectics Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 hey heretic....you've got good taste in music. cradle rocks! i haven't actively listened to black metal in a while but i still can appreciate mercyful fate/king diamond, diecide, slayer, dark funeral type stuff. (if i ever meet u i'll be sure to give you some free drugs)rob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robinfarley Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Know what you mean, I travel around a lot so quite often end up in bars and clubs on my one and like to wander and savour, dance a little ...I cant suggest how to stop people hassling you, cept maybe change your club, real clubbing used to mean hassle free for girls, no beer heads out to pull, roving around the club bugging people like you.Sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonStephen Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Hope to meet ya at a club one day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heretic909 Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Originally posted by dialectics hey heretic....you've got good taste in music. cradle rocks! i haven't actively listened to black metal in a while but i still can appreciate mercyful fate/king diamond, diecide, slayer, dark funeral type stuff. (if i ever meet u i'll be sure to give you some free drugs)rob Damn, someone on this board that's into gabber and black metal? Maybe all hope is not lost.(if I ever meet you I'll be sure to accept your free drugs) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dw Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 show your can of mace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ichi_gami Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 My acne, and the fact that I am 5'2" 240# with BO and patchy facial hair usually does it for me...ichi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 start scratching and smiling at them at the same time..... that does not work, when they walk up let out a fart..... i just either walk away or ignore them. it works everytime and if they do not like the vibe, who gives a fuck.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Hey Heretic is scarier then I am....its true.Although I may have more of a demonic demenor.*Cackle*Originally posted by bigpoppanils do things the gothzane way! (j/k-dont hurt me)if that still doesnt work, smack them around Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jessicamydek Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Just wave them off.. like you would if a someone wanted to clean your car windshield or give you a advertising flier.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heretic909 Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by gothzane Hey Heretic is scarier then I am....its true. Awww. I'm flattered. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kludgio Posted September 10 Author Report Share Posted September 10 thanks, you guys. great advicethere was one club in particular that i could always go to and feel entirely comfortable. i forget the name of it though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wallflour Posted September 10 Report Share Posted September 10 Originally posted by kludgio there was one club in particular that i could always go to and feel entirely comfortable. i forget the name of it though Is that club still open? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted September 10 Report Share Posted September 10 Usually if you are a female, all you gotta do is give a look that says"I'm not really in the mood for you or your shit at this moment in time". Most people can tell when someone wants to be left alone, I think. Sometimes you just aren't in a social mood... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ichi_gami Posted September 10 Report Share Posted September 10 Interesting... this weekend, "I'm gay" didn't work. I ended up with two women humping me openly on the dance floor, and one "I swear I'm straight" guy saying 'I know' and dancing a little closer...ichi :rainbow: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kramadas Posted September 10 Report Share Posted September 10 Originally posted by wallflour Is that club still open? I don't think so...somewhere on 27th st, in the western part of the city.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ichi_gami Posted September 10 Report Share Posted September 10 Originally posted by wallflour Is that club still open? I'm pretty sure kludgio means Tunnel, and that's closed.Nothing else worth going to in that shady part of town.ichi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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