b-side Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 O.K. Peeps>> In an effort to salvage my sorded sex life, I was recently proposed with the delima of having sex with with a married woman. She was obviously in an un-happy marrige or at least open one... who knows....But the question is would YOU have sex with someone who is obviously married? & Why / Why Not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueguy808 Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 Yeah, if it were just a one time thing and i didn't know the man involved. But I would want to know that it was only a one time thing. I wouldn't want to get involved emotionally or have her get involved emotionally. It would just be too hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 i think it depends on where you are with stuff and the situation. me personally, probably not. but....1. if its totally casual - no involvement2. you feel that she's gonna do it with someone else anyway3. you're totally uninvolved with the situation (don't know the guy, etc.)i could see it. i mean the responsibility is really with her. reverse situation, the cheating husband is the responsible party, not the girl he picks up for the one night stand.its even possible that if she has sex outside her marriage this one time, it might help her situation - get her to talk / confront the guy, realize that she made a mistake, etc.those are her problems though, not yours.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lukeyblueyez Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 rain on anyones parade, I mean, I would probably do it. But lets say you do get "involved" are you prepared to be the one to break up this marriage and if they got kids and shit, break up that. Tough choice, good luck:idea: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 Originally posted by lukeyblueyez rain on anyones parade, I mean, I would probably do it. But lets say you do get "involved" are you prepared to be the one to break up this marriage and if they got kids and shit, break up that. Tough choice, good luck:idea: well that should be an absolute no.more i think about it, i wouldn't do it. but, if it was like i posted i wouldn't feel badly about anyone who did. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 Why not..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 While it's true what Barvybe said, that the responsibility really rests on her shoulders... and that perhaps an affair would make her reconsider her situation and maybe do something about it... Chances are that it'll only make things worse. And no, while that wouldn't be your fault... I personally wouldn't want to think that maybe I was the catalyst for splitting up a marriage. And from what you've written in the past, stuff like not being into casual sex, it doesn't sound like you would want that either. And if she's unhappy then the sex could very well turn into an emotional nightmare for her. It's just too sticky a situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 were all adults here, you can type "fuck" in the subject, you dont have to type "fu(k" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reliant Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 NO!!!!!!Think of it this way.... wonder if you were married.... and you were going through some problems and some dude or lady fucked your wife or husband.....well things would really be done for then. either way you look at it you are both guilty party'sIt's just PLAIN WRONG Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cool2223423123 Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by b-side O.K. Peeps>> In an effort to salvage my sorded sex life, I was recently proposed with the delima of having sex with with a married woman. She was obviously in an un-happy marrige or at least open one... who knows....But the question is would YOU have sex with someone who is obviously married? & Why / Why Not? If you're trying to salvage your sorded sex life (get laid) try:http://tranceboy.fws1.com/layguide.htmhttp://www.pickupguide.comor alt.seduction.fast http://groups.google.com/groups?hl=en&group=alt.seduction.fast Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cool2223423123 Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 also there are probably some swingers clubs in your area (haven't looked into those) and there's always hookers ($100-$500 a pop). With those I hear massage parlours are the way to go, otherwise call girls, but never pick them up off the street. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by trancend were all adults here, you can type "fuck" in the subject, you dont have to type "fu(k" ha ha....I would say no......Think about how you feel if someone you are dating cheats on you.....Now throw in the marriage vows, history, and feelings..... If something happened before you knew she was married, that would be a different story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cool2223423123 Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by cool2223423123 If you're trying to salvage your sorded sex life (get laid) try:http://tranceboy.fws1.com/layguide.htmhttp://www.pickupguide.comor alt.seduction.fast http://groups.google.com/groups?hl=en&group=alt.seduction.fast some of this stuff is sort of misogynist.... I don't support that in any way....I think the best way to get laid is to make friends with girls and fuck them after a week or two (assuming you're not looking for a long term relationship). I haven't put too much effort into it though... Sex with strangers (one night stands) isn't too appealling really, so get phone numbers unless some girl really turns you on! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 HELL NO!!! i dont need that kind of Karma fuckin me up down the road... hell no... KARMA IS A BITCH... and HARD TO CLEAN UP... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by dgmodel HELL NO!!! i dont need that kind of Karma fuckin me up down the road... hell no... KARMA IS A BITCH... and HARD TO CLEAN UP... Are you speaking from experience??? Karma can definitely kick your ass sometimes:eek: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 kind of. . when i was younger i was a real scumbag... and it came back to haunt me ten fold now... or maybe im just looking for a scapegoat for my bad luck... who knows... but i know now since im older and wiser, (a lil of both) that shit just aint right... stay away... put yourself in they're shoes how would you feel? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted September 25 Author Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by cool2223423123 also there are probably some swingers clubs in your area (haven't looked into those) and there's always hookers ($100-$500 a pop). With those I hear massage parlours are the way to go, otherwise call girls, but never pick them up off the street. Thanks but NO THANKS.......... I'll have sex my way...... Besides it's hard enough to find a girl that tuns me on, let alone.... FUCK! Besides I'm probably the only guy here that doesn't go for Casual Sex... FYI: I didn't and couldn't do it.See I have a serious problem.....A very serious problem........ I am often unable to cum, it literally takes me hours and hours.... so when I have sex with someone, THEY often get aDICted and.... AND I being a fiend my-self, I love to experiment and don't know when to stop.... SO,I could not have her marrige hanging over my head. I definately believe in KARMA.... and wich to keep mines GOOD.Thank's for all of your comments good & bad.....Although I'm starting to feel like a dinosaur around here :skull:Peace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Good Luck B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by b-side Thanks but NO THANKS.......... I'll have sex my way...... Besides it's hard enough to find a girl that tuns me on, let alone.... FUCK! Besides I'm probably the only guy here that doesn't go for Casual Sex... FYI: I didn't and couldn't do it.See I have a serious problem.....A very serious problem........ I am often unable to cum, it literally takes me hours and hours.... so when I have sex with someone, THEY often get aDICted and.... AND I being a fiend my-self, I love to experiment and don't know when to stop.... SO,I could not have her marrige hanging over my head. I definately believe in KARMA.... and wich to keep mines GOOD.Thank's for all of your comments good & bad.....Although I'm starting to feel like a dinosaur around here :skull:Peace Oh my... hours of experimental sex... what a problem... I'm sure the ladies just find it so aggravating... I knew you were too much of a nice guy to do it- GOOD FOR YOU! :square: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted September 25 Author Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by tastyt Oh my... hours of experimental sex... what a problem... I'm sure the ladies just find it so aggravating... I knew you were too much of a nice guy to do it- GOOD FOR YOU! :square: Nice Guy ????But, Nice guys finish LAST And FYI : All jokes aside, most women CAN'T hang and leave me High & Dry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by b-side Nice Guy ????But, Nice guys finish LAST and FYI : All jokes aside, most women CAN'T hang and leave me High & Dry sometimes they dont even finish...*oops spelling error... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted September 25 Author Report Share Posted September 25 But What I don't overstand is:? What does the status of the Marrige have to with anything If my wife was not happy I'd let her go completely before I would let her FUCK someone else and then try to FUCK ME. I'm sorry but that's my 0.2 cents Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 you wouldnt try to work things out first??? youd just drop her and look for someone else???C'mon supposedly your wife is your soulmate or perfect match and youre going to let her go cause of a fucked temporary situation??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by trancend were all adults here, you can type "fuck" in the subject, you dont have to type "fu(k" I dunno, I still get embaressed when I say titmouse in front of my mother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by b-side But What I don't overstand is:? What does the status of the Marrige have to with anything If my wife was not happy I'd let her go completely before I would let her FUCK someone else and then try to FUCK ME. I'm sorry but that's my 0.2 cents I would have to say because marriage is supposed to sacred you stand in front of all these people and declare your love for this other person...A person with whom you are choosing to spend the rest of your life with, for better or worse........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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