Romy , I Have gone through the same thing. I have caught my self and said to myself "dont get too confortable". I like my girlfriend really caring and attentive to me. but if that stops for some reason, The guys defence mechanisim kicks in -RED ALERT- Something is wrong!!!! It takes that sometimes to get the guys priorities strait!!! yup sometimes i just need a small kick in the ass to kind of say "hey i really have it good dont take it for granted" Give it a shot, Start to not be as attentive for a little while see what happens A. He will notice and change B. He will not change.... Maybe he is not the right one C. If that doesnt work tell him how you really feel. Hope this helps