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Off topic but...why do boyfriends have to be assholes sometimes?!!?


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Ughhhhhhhhhh, seriously!!!

Like one day they're all nice to you, say that they love you, they miss you, etc etc.........

and then other days they ignore you or are just jerks!?!?!

AHHHHH!!! Its so annoying lol

So to the girls who have bf's, do they do this sometimes?? and what do u do, cause it gets pretty annoying. (well he doesnt do it all the time i think he's just moody lol)

oh and another thing, then when u go to tell them that they are acting like an asshole, they act surprised or say no im not, hmmmmmm im comming to the conclusion that maybe sometimes they dont even notice it??

i dont know

errrrrrrrrrrrr:mad:

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They do it to get a rise out of you-

Most likely to see how they effect you -

If they say things to make you mad. In

the heads of some guys you being mad

about it proves to them that you give

a shit - other guys say stupid junk to

fill in dead air, which sometimes can be

more uncomfortable than an arguement

in some cases. :idea:

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Originally posted by rachel8c

Guys can be so insecure. I mean they do not trust a woman. Guys need to learn how to separte thier thought process from thier sexual lust. It should be so much easier but you guys do not listen and tell the truth.

huh?

did someone say sex??:confused:

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An intresting tactic. Although utterly useless. unfortunitly.

Its all a chess game...relationships....whos move is it.

Who has the advantage...the upper hand.

Action and reaction...cause and effect.

If I do this shell do that

If I say this hell do that

The only way to succeed is just to keep pushing

and to keep steping on your partners toes.

Mistakes is how you learn from one another.

Just takes a shitload of patience.

and a good helping of unconditional love.

Communiaction works too.

:flame:

"Sorry hun I cant talk about that now...Im watching the game...now be a good dear and get in the kitchen and cook me a pie."

Originally posted by beathippie

They do it to get a rise out of you-

Most likely to see how they effect you -

If they say things to make you mad. In

the heads of some guys you being mad

about it proves to them that you give

a shit

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boyfriends can be assholes sometimes just cuz theyre human i guess.. people get into moods and dont realize how they act... but i dont think i can really relate here... but when he slips up sometimes and snaps at me or gives me an attitude i call him on it and he'll take a minute to think about it and apologize- hes never an asshole but he has his moments of moody-ness i guess.... but i love him :love:

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I get the same complaint from boyfriend. I'm not an affectionate person and this bothers him. Even though he's the only person I've ever been affectionate too. Sometimes that's not enough for him.

He may not mean to be an asshole to you, he probably can't be the lovey dovey bf 24/7. I know I can't and I love my boyfriend.

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