romy20 Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Does anyone here think that they truly love themselves, and why do you think that?I was reading an article before about this, and it got me thinking, I don't know if I do or not, how do you find out???Plus they always say that you can't love someone else until you love yourself first.To be honest I don't think I love myself, actually no let me change that I KNOW I don't love myself, so will I ever?So any thoughts on this?I'm confused:confused: romy20 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chula22 Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by romy20 Does anyone here think that they truly love themselves, and why do you think that?I was reading an article before about this, and it got me thinking, I don't know if I do or not, how do you find out???Plus they always say that you can't love someone else until you love yourself first.To be honest I don't think I love myself, actually no let me change that I KNOW I don't love myself, so will I ever?So any thoughts on this?I'm confused:confused: romy20 OK well dont confuse loving yourself with being happy with yourself. Why do think you dont love yourself. I am so head over heals in love with myself because of who i am. Am i happy with myself NOPE. Because I know that I can push myself harder when it comes to certain things. But I know that is me and I love it. It makes my character. I wouldnt change that. Well, i would like to improve that. But either way I still love myself. Loving yourself is having respect for yourself. Knowing that you are a good person inside. Knowing that you are worth more than platinum and diamonds. Knowing that you deserve the world. And striving for that. You can't let feelings you have about yourself confuse you sweety. That usually gets people into trouble. Just know that you are a wonderful person that does wonderful things and I'm sure that you are loved by many. Especially here on CP. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hroark Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by romy20 Does anyone here think that they truly love themselves, and why do you think that?I was reading an article before about this, and it got me thinking, I don't know if I do or not, how do you find out???Plus they always say that you can't love someone else until you love yourself first.To be honest I don't think I love myself, actually no let me change that I KNOW I don't love myself, so will I ever?So any thoughts on this?I'm confused:confused: romy20 maybe we should get together - i feel the same way about myself. maybe thats why i always sabatoge my relationships...cheers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 would certainly explain a lot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 I would definately say I love myself.... It may sound arrogant, but I wake up every morning, and thank MYSELF.... for not being anyone else.... I've tryed to make most of the choices in life on my own, with nothing to regret, and I think thats the way i'm most comfortable living... only being able to blame myself for mistakes and be proud of myself for the good choices....I'm definately not perfect, but I try to Identify my flaws, and eventually work towards fixing them, and I definately see my strong points and am proud of them.I can truely say i've never wished I was anyone other than myself, and that some days it scares me to think of the people I could have been. Not that I don't admire/respect other people, I definately see qualities in others i'd like to posess, but at the same time see others I don't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by joeg I can truely say i've never wished I was anyone other than myself, and that some days it scares me to think of the people I could have been. you KNOW you wish you were me.....wow that could be the most arrogant thing i ever said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 Originally posted by trancend you KNOW you wish you were me.....wow that could be the most arrogant thing i ever said LOLYeah... I know.(was the sarcasm evident?) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 They say that when people love themselves to much it's a sign of insecurity.....I believe that.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 Sometimes you are just your worst critic.I was dating someone for a year who had abusive tendencies.....it didn't start to show toward the end.....obviously the reason why I broke it off. But there I was feeling tattered and torn after getting out of that mess. I woke up one morning and realized all of the special things that made me, ME...and I felt back to my old self!It's not fun getting in that old self incriminating kind of rut. And it's even worse when you're way too hard on yourself. No one is perfect, and only a moron would expect you to be.PS...is it just me or is the situation around us (war, sickness, sluggish economy, etc) just getting everyone down? I totally have been like a walking zombie, and I can't really figure out why. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 Sometimes you are just your worst critic.I was dating someone for a year who had abusive tendencies.....it didn't start to show toward the end.....obviously the reason why I broke it off. But there I was feeling tattered and torn after getting out of that mess. I woke up one morning and realized all of the special things that made me, ME...and I felt back to my old self!It's not fun getting in that old self incriminating kind of rut. And it's even worse when you're way too hard on yourself. No one is perfect, and only a moron would expect you to be.PS...is it just me or is the situation around us (war, sickness, sluggish economy, etc) just getting everyone down? I totally have been like a walking zombie, and I can't really figure out why. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 i see you love to repeat yourself.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 ha ha.....i was having technical difficulties!!!!!I tried to delete it but it wouldn't let me :rolleyes: :rolleyes: PS....no really guys, I was just really trying to get my point across!!!! :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cool2223423123 Posted November 1 Report Share Posted November 1 Originally posted by romy20 Does anyone here think that they truly love themselves, and why do you think that?I was reading an article before about this, and it got me thinking, I don't know if I do or not, how do you find out???Plus they always say that you can't love someone else until you love yourself first.To be honest I don't think I love myself, actually no let me change that I KNOW I don't love myself, so will I ever?So any thoughts on this?I'm confused:confused: romy20 To know yourself is to love yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtcgirlie Posted November 1 Report Share Posted November 1 AWWW*This board always has some good threads goin..I have no real big answer but I don't think I love myself. But i like what Chula said so I probably love myself but am not happy with myself because I know I can be better in many ways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted November 19 Report Share Posted November 19 lets just say this, when apples or one of my lady friends drags me to a strip club, lets just say i look in the mirror more than anywhere else... Quoting Devils Advocate:One of my all time fav quotes..."Vanity, is definatley my favorite sin, so basic... self love the all natural opiate..." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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