SPYGIRL3 Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Why are most, not all guys afraid of the truth......Even if it is something very simple and easy? Why do they find it necessary to be a liar or be jerk, instead just fessing up????? I personally would rather know the real deal instead of trying to figure out what the hell they are thinking.....I have never lied or cheated on anybody I am with.Anybody wanna give me some insight here?????? :confused: :confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eviljav666 Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Who's Lieing to you Spygirl!!!let me know if we see him out!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Why are most, not all guys afraid of the truth......Even if it is something very simple and easy? Why do they find it necessary to be a liar or be jerk, instead just fessing up????? I personally would rather know the real deal instead of trying to figure out what the hell they are thinking.....I have never lied or cheated on anybody I am with.Anybody wanna give me some insight here?????? :confused: :confused: Im a lil slow, give me an example... or whats going on over there spy??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketfuel76 Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 lie because its easier for them. If they tell you the truth they fear that you'll get upset and they don't want to deal with those "feelings". Sometimes, its too much work for them. Maybe they think they're telling you what you want to hear. I on the other hand, would like to know what Im in for from the beginning, but some guys are too scared. Plus if they do tell you the "real deal", then maybe you wouldn't stick around and they won't be able to get their cake and eat it too, it you know what I mean. for the most part though it depends on the person you're dealing with. If you find that you're running into alot of liars, then maybe you should take a step back and rethink your choice in men...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Actually I am a pretty honest fella... sometimes t doesn't fly so well but I try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Why are most, not all guys afraid of the truth......Even if it is something very simple and easy? Why do they find it necessary to be a liar or be jerk, instead just fessing up????? I personally would rather know the real deal instead of trying to figure out what the hell they are thinking.....I have never lied or cheated on anybody I am with.Anybody wanna give me some insight here?????? :confused: :confused: most ppl lie to avoid confrontation. IMO, deception causes long term probs, but most ppl prefer to deal only in the short term. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted November 8 Author Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by sirdante most ppl lie to avoid confrontation. IMO, deception causes long term probs, but most ppl prefer to deal only in the short term. I prefer the truth, even if it hurts.....Lies and deception get you no where fast, except in more trouble..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CRACKHEAD Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 we protect you for your own good, you really don't want to know all the shit we're doing behind your backs...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted November 8 Author Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by eviljav666 Who's Lieing to you Spygirl!!!let me know if we see him out!!! Awwww......You are the best.....I'll let ya know, but you get seconds, I get the first round of kicking his ass!!!!!!! Whatever is left is all yours;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted November 8 Author Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by deeznutz we protect you for your own good, you really don't want to know all the shit we're doing behind your backs...... If I were wanted to be protected, I wouldn't go out into the real world.....LIfe is tough and sometimes you hurt........Sometimes it's a piece of cake.....It's all about give and take, and understanding Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 If I were wanted to be protected, I wouldn't go out into the real world.....LIfe is tough and sometimes you hurt........Sometimes it's a piece of cake.....It's all about give and take, and understanding UGHH THIS FUCKIN GIRL IS JUST THE BEST. Her insights and reflections are like no others and make perfect sense when well read and thought of....Spygirl will u marry me and have lots of lil bi-racial quoths running around in a nursery? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 I am right there with you Spy. exactly.but sadly enough most people dont really WANT the truth, they WANT to be lied to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bmw4jay Posted November 11 Report Share Posted November 11 Why would someone lie to you? About what? I think you are one the easiest people in the world to talk to:D And not ALL guys lie. Sometimes it's just the easy way out, like steroids:rolleyes: Lying just causes more problems, one after another. People get caught up in their web of deception and its a snowball effect. No need for it..cowards lie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vodkaredbull Posted November 11 Report Share Posted November 11 Not telling the Truth will only prolong the future outcome. Honesty is the best policy even if it means the worst Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rrazzorr Posted November 11 Report Share Posted November 11 truth hurts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted November 11 Report Share Posted November 11 i said it before and Ill say it again... Men are just Dicks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted November 11 Report Share Posted November 11 Then I hate when they will tell you something but kind of twist it around and leave out a big piece of info. To them they feel their conscience is clear because they told you about it. You know how many times I heard from guys what she dont know wont hurt her!!! Well let me tell you guys it is worse because once we find out about it is fucking 1 million times worse then it just being a thousand times worse!! And it will constantly be brought up throughout the relationship. My advice just dont do anything you arent supposed to be doing!!Girls if your man lies to you about somehing dont try to go and get even!! Let me tell you it doesn't work!! If the lie is that bad get out while you can!!I have been through all of this and Vengeance is strong but hurt is even stronger!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubbincutie Posted November 12 Report Share Posted November 12 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 If I were wanted to be protected, I wouldn't go out into the real world.....LIfe is tough and sometimes you hurt........Sometimes it's a piece of cake.....It's all about give and take, and understanding Exactly..why do guys think we can't handle the truth? i mean i know alot of single girls, who may not necessarily want a relationhip with a guy, but the guy will still lie..i mean do they think girls won't bother if they know all a guy wants is a hookup or anything but a relationship? that's stupid because alot of girls just want to be casual, and all these guys are doing is messing with their heads.. i think guys need to just grow up and get some balls..who is to say these girls arent hooking up with other guys too..i think if everyone is honest, everyone will be on equal footing and there wont be so much drama Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vodkaredbull Posted November 12 Report Share Posted November 12 Girls are at some of the fault also. A guy will be scared to tell the truth if the girl is allways on his case about everything he does. If you don't like how he is then its not going to change him by yelling. Just move on to someone that you are in tune with:eek: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
msoprano Posted November 12 Report Share Posted November 12 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Why are most, not all guys afraid of the truth......Even if it is something very simple and easy? Why do they find it necessary to be a liar or be jerk, instead just fessing up????? I personally would rather know the real deal instead of trying to figure out what the hell they are thinking.....I have never lied or cheated on anybody I am with.Anybody wanna give me some insight here?????? :confused: :confused: i hear what youre saying but thats not true for everyone....like myself for instance i speak whats on my mind and have nothing to hide...its better like that..less drama in the long run Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted November 12 Report Share Posted November 12 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Why are most, not all guys afraid of the truth......Even if it is something very simple and easy? Why do they find it necessary to be a liar or be jerk, instead just fessing up????? I personally would rather know the real deal instead of trying to figure out what the hell they are thinking.....I have never lied or cheated on anybody I am with.Anybody wanna give me some insight here?????? :confused: :confused: cause they are all immature boys..hehe. I think real men will inevitable tell you the truth. I mean those men who are straight up and forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jaxl Posted November 12 Report Share Posted November 12 Originally posted by apotheosis I am right there with you Spy. exactly.but sadly enough most people dont really WANT the truth, they WANT to be lied to. I personally would rather you tell me the truth, no matter how much it hurts. At least give me the opportunity to make an informed decision. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vodkaredbull Posted November 12 Report Share Posted November 12 I would never lie to you girls!! :tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted November 16 Author Report Share Posted November 16 Originally posted by bmw4jay Why would someone lie to you? About what? I think you are one the easiest people in the world to talk to:D And not ALL guys lie. Sometimes it's just the easy way out, like steroids:rolleyes: Lying just causes more problems, one after another. People get caught up in their web of deception and its a snowball effect. No need for it..cowards lie. Thanks doll..... And you are right, not all guys lie, which I did say, but a lot do. I guess my question was more about the principle of things.....Easy isn't always better. Trust me, there are tons of times when love to lie to get outta something, but eventually it will get back to you one way or another. Those snowballs can turn into some pretty dangerous avalanches!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted November 16 Author Report Share Posted November 16 Originally posted by quoth UGHH THIS FUCKIN GIRL IS JUST THE BEST. Her insights and reflections are like no others and make perfect sense when well read and thought of....Spygirl will u marry me We all have our moments......A propsal huh, I don't if you can handle me!?!?!?!?!?!!!Remember, kids is a FOUR letter word!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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