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bkissa

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I used to go to clubs with the intension of hooking up. When I had this mentality, it just wasn't really a lot of fun since I would end up spending the night continually hunting for women with my buddies and not enjoying the music. However, when I changed my whole mentality and actually went to clubs to enjoy the music, I started to have a much better time everytime I went out. Now, if I end up hooking up with someone, I see it as an added bonus for the night rather than an expectation.

The weird thing is that I actually hook up more now by just going to enjoy the music. I can't quite figure that out!!

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Originally posted by bkissa

i was talking to sum guy in the sf chat and he was like completely :eek: when i told him i never hook up w/ guys in clubs. he was telling me that if you are not there to hook up you should not even be there because there's no other reason to go and that the sole purpose behind clubs is to meet girls/guys.

i was like....:confused: . that's not why i go. what about music...dancing...chilling.

what do u think?

What a suprise... you heard that from a guy in the Sound Factory chat.

I hate clubs that are more about getting laid than listening to good music, and SF is DEFINITELY one of those....

Maybe I only feel this way cuz I've had a girlfriend forever!:spin:

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Originally posted by ctwarrior

The weird thing is that I actually hook up more now by just going to enjoy the music. I can't quite figure that out!!

Simple explanation- it's because you no longer have an air of desperation about you. Girls can smell that shit from a mile away! It's the same reason why people tend to be more attracted to you when you're already involved with someone- it's because you're a lot more comfortable with yourself and not just out looking to get a piece.

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