fierydesire Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Ok, well I think this certain individual is scrumptous, but he is an inch or 2 shorter. I have this tendency to be attracted to guys who are the same height or a bit taller. I mean I don't want to be shallow, but those guys I have dated who are the same height, well it is weird when I wear shoes and hold their hand. I kind of bounce when I walk with them and its annoying. Well I just wanna know if you guys would think it was weird to date or get ass from someone who is just a tad bit smaller.? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vikkii123 Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Well seeing how I am only 5'1 I don't think I would date/get some ass from a guy who is shorter. I don't find myself attracted to shorter guys.... I'm always going for the guys that are around 6 feet.... kind of funny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belladiva26 Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 id also feel weird going out with a guy shorter than myself (5'6)....the shortest guy ive gone out with was 5'8, so with my kicks it wasnt bad, with my boots i was taller....i just told him to imagine he was out with a supermodel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Originally posted by fierydesire Ok, well I think this certain individual is scrumptous, but he is an inch or 2 shorter. I have this tendency to be attracted to guys who are the same height or a bit taller. I mean I don't want to be shallow, but those guys I have dated who are the same height, well it is weird when I wear shoes and hold their hand. I kind of bounce when I walk with them and its annoying. Well I just wanna know if you guys would think it was weird to date or get ass from someone who is just a tad bit smaller.? Damn I was just thinking about that today! I dont know if I could date a shorter guy, I mean it really depends on how short because when you are in heels you dont want to look like a giant next to him lol!! But then again if you guys really like each other it shouldn't matter. This subject still confuses me!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 I'm 4'11...If I date someone shorter than me I would definetly have issues.All of my X's are pretty much on the taller side....my X was 6'1, 200 lbs (and a bouncer at Stilletto's and Lace).I think the shortest guy I dated was 5'8....or around there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Dating shorter guys is one of my pet peeves. I just cant bring myself to do it. I'm 5'7" and would like anyone I date to be 6' or taller but sometimes that isnt possible. Even 5'9" is pushing it for me but I would deal with it. I just feel like if the guy is shorter people will be staring at us! I know that is probably my imagination but I just cant do it. I like to be able to wear heels and not be taller then the guy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princesslolita Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Well I'm only like 5'1 1/2- 5'2 ..All my ex's seem to be like 5'8. I know it sounds like I'm an snob but I can't date somebody who is way 2 much taller then me. I was talking to his one guy he was like 6'6..I was really feeling him but the thing that mainly blew it off was his height..Come on how could I fuck him you know.. ;( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 the shortest i can go with a guy is a guy who is still at eye level when i'm in my heels. i used to go for only really tall guys, 6' and above, but i've found that average-sized guys, like say 5'8", can rock my world a little more than a really big guy. i guess they're just a little lighter on their feet.....and they have just as much personality, character etc. if not more! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nrgy112 Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 I dated a girl for a while that was 5'11 and probably the hottest girl that I ever touched. I'm 5'11 myself, and when she wore heels, she was taller than me and it was sort of annoying cause I felt short for the first time in my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted December 11 Author Report Share Posted December 11 so it weirded it you out too? did u feel inferior? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nrgy112 Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Umm, yeah, if you were a guy and you had to look up into a girls eyes, it would feel sorta strange. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 I just think it's so funny how a guy who's like 5'7" will lie and say he's about 2 inches taller. It never fails. So whenever either my friends or I meet a guy and they say they are 5'9" we think they are lying. I guess it would suck to be a short guy. I'm 5'7" but always wanted to be an inch taller! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 I've had in the past and at first I say to myself stop being so shallow. But after awhile I feel awkarwd walking in the streets with him. I'm 5'9 barefoot so any type of shoes I'm automatically taller.I think the shortest I dated was 5'7 and walking around in flats was too much for me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 im 5"1 and I dated this pourtugese guy once who was my height and I felt weird wearing heals around him because I would be taller than him. I mean the kid was so hot but he was short, and it was kind of unattractive sometimes when he wasnt wearing shoes cause I was taller than him. I dunno I like tall guys:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Originally posted by xxlea I've had in the past and at first I say to myself stop being so shallow. But after awhile I feel awkward walking in the streets with him. I'm 5'9 barefoot so any type of shoes I'm automatically taller.I think the shortest I dated was 5'7 and walking around in flats was too much for me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeygk Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 I'm 5'10 (5'11 in my big boy shoes) and I have such a complex about girls being taller. I think we're socialized to believe the boys should be taller. My ex- was 5'9, and always partied in heels, and I would be so embarressed and excited. I was embarressed b/c I felt like a smurf......and excited b/c her legs looked so damn hot in those high heels........ ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Originally posted by joeygk I think we're socialized to believe the boys should be taller. I definitely believe that is true but I hate feeling bigger then the guy I'm dating. Doesnt feel right at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 BUMP Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inyourdreams Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 I think short men are such a waste of a man LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted December 11 Author Report Share Posted December 11 Originally posted by nrgy112 Umm, yeah, if you were a guy and you had to look up into a girls eyes, it would feel sorta strange. yeah I hear ya..but it is such a social thing that society has created. These are the standards today..which is kind of fucked up:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guccigrlnyc Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 hey i am used to dating guys like 6'1 and over but my BF now is my height i'm 5'10 so when i wear heels i hate being taller then him yet he loves it and thinks it sexy go figure! we went to his xmas party for work this past sat in the city and i tried to convince him to put lifts in his shoes lol BUT he refused! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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