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I can relate %100. We we all do have some emptiness inside, more or less. So we fill it with something. The opening that smoking cigarette filles, we can replace with talking to our b/f's or g/f's aleast some and maybe most part of it. Relationships can also release drug addiction or drug use at all. It worked for me while i had a good relationship, very very effectively. I didnt do any drugz at all, even weed. And i didnt even have an urge to do any. Just social drinking sometimes thats all.

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Yeah I agree: BECAUSE in a relationship you are 'getting' something.......and do not need cigs, drugs, alcohol!! ;)

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Originally posted by tizzah508

Yeah I agree: BECAUSE in a relationship you are 'getting' something.......and do not need cigs, drugs, alcohol!! ;)

Not like you "dont need", its just you occupied all the time with very pleasant stimulations, emotional, spiritual, and ofcourse physical ;) So u dont have time or power left to do stupid shit, no matter how much u like stuff like that. :) :) :)

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Originally posted by crashedfx

I can relate %100. We we all do have some emptiness inside, more or less. So we fill it with something. The opening that smoking cigarette filles, we can replace with talking to our b/f's or g/f's aleast some and maybe most part of it. Relationships can also release drug addiction or drug use at all. It worked for me while i had a good relationship, very very effectively. I didnt do any drugz at all, even weed. And i didnt even have an urge to do any. Just social drinking sometimes thats all.

yeah :sigh: relationships can have this effect..I also stopped doing drugs and etc. But you know as soon as it was over, I dated this other guy for a year a nd he smoked and did various other things and there came back the bad habit. Maybe it is truly hard to quit forever:(

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Originally posted by fierydesire

yeah :sigh: relationships can have this effect..I also stopped doing drugs and etc. But you know as soon as it was over, I dated this other guy for a year a nd he smoked and did various other things and there came back the bad habit. Maybe it is truly hard to quit forever:(

Yeah, but its still good to take breaks like that.... And you should've talked to a guy about keeping that shit away from you.

If he really cared.

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Originally posted by crashedfx

Yeah, but its still good to take breaks like that.... And you should've talked to a guy about keeping that shit away from you.

If he really cared.

but he did care, it was my own free will to continue..I guess it wasnt strong enough...but I know he loved me and I loved him.

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Originally posted by tizzah508

i am really surprised to read how considerate and compassionate guys (some) are on this board :D

I guess it coz nobody here even cares to judge

others for any reason whatsoever. Easier to be more open

when its not face to face. I told many things to many people

here, some things i dont share with my best friends even.

Cause understanding on this board is just amazing.

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