gandoron Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 Only recently have I come to the decision that good sex with one person is much better than random sex with different people of unconsistent quality and quantity. Then there's the whole lack of cuddling with random sex as well... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ablane Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 ok glow....i'll be waiting for my pm with more detailed information of how i'll be treated....see my pic thread if you want to know what i look like....lol:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 Originally posted by deeprock Ditto. I've been single for 5 years and have no qualms about it whatsoever. I choose it to be that way; it's not cause I can't get women. I have many close female friends that fill any void of loneliness I ever may feel. When you're single, you're almost entirely responsible for your own happiness. When you're in a relationship, you're happiness is often measured by how healthy your relationship is. I just don't like that idea of relying on someone for my happiness. I like the fact that socially independent. And I don't like how relationships are emotional rollercoasters--too much of a headache. Plus I get bored easily--the novelty factor wears off quickly on me most times. But hey, if a relationship comes my way, I'll adapt, but I'm certainly not actively pursuing anything---it's not something i NEED, it's something I expect I'll stumble upon in the future. Back to work. :book: Oh my god, that is exactly how I feel. I have been single for almost 2 years and I am so content with my life now, that honestly, I dont even know if I really want a relationship. If someone I liked really came along, then of course I would give it a shot but most of the time, I cant be bothered. I see my friends who are in relationships and honestly, sometimes it seems like more of a hassle then anything. I guess once that special person comes along, I will forget all the things I have just said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted December 26 Author Report Share Posted December 26 Originally posted by lollib Oh my god, that is exactly how I feel. I have been single for almost 2 years and I am so content with my life now, that honestly, I dont even know if I really want a relationship. If someone I liked really came along, then of course I would give it a shot but most of the time, I cant be bothered. I see my friends who are in relationships and honestly, sometimes it seems like more of a hassle then anything. I guess once that special person comes along, I will forget all the things I have just said. u couldnt have said it betterhowever sometimes my friends say i dont give men a chancevixen, i have been the same way this whole year no longer than 3 weeksup until recently ive been talking to the same person since thanksgivingi cant believe it, haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wisdom Posted December 26 Report Share Posted December 26 I'm alway singleI just have never had a relationship where I had to be faithful to one person cause I know I never could do it. So instead I'm in love with a bunch of people. Thats just me you see I be so free:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted December 26 Report Share Posted December 26 I love the single life because of the freedom. No stings, no worries, no conflicts, no possible heartaches in the future. But I notice myself beginning to miss having someone to hug and kiss and snuggle with. Someone to confide in when I need a listener.Im a mushy person when I really care but its hard for me to let my walls down to the point that I can get involved. I guess its a no win situation for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted December 26 Report Share Posted December 26 Relationships are WAAAAAAAYYY overrated! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdaddy Posted December 26 Report Share Posted December 26 single is good like kittie said....need to line up some good booty calls though and remember to keep your friends tight (no pun intended) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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