fierydesire Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Would you guys do it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 yeah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belladiva26 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 ive dated a guy with a child -- at first i was skeptical about dealing with the "baggage" , but it honestly wasn't a big deal because i loved them both so much. i could've done without the baby mama drama though.it sucks when you break up though --- you end up losing TWO people would i do it again? dont think so, i want to be #1 in my man's eyes before there are any children brought into the picture that might sound selfish, but i dont care Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 But , it depends on the person & the kid B~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Not right now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nrgy112 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by legend38 Not right now I agree, I'm only 22, and if I'm dating someone, I'd want them to have time to spend with me when I go out partying, and I feel if you have a kid, you probably shouldn't be partying like I do anyways, but if I was 28 or 29, yea I would. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 11 Author Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by belladiva26 would i do it again? dont think so, i want to be #1 in my man's eyes before there are any children brought into the picture Its not selfish at all, I agree with you 100%. I mean I personally wouldn' t date a guy with a child. I mean I want who ever I marry to not have children. Like we can both have a fresh start.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 nope i dont think so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Its different...there is definitly a difference between a woman and a mother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdeep Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 I did it, but like someone earlier said, it's like losing two people once the relationship is over, not to mention what it probably does to the child, being attached to you and all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Originally posted by fierydesire Would you guys do it? depends on the kid... but i prolly would... no biggie... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 its really depends on the girl...if i wanted to get serious with the girl... no bigbut if i just want to fuck her no...thinka bout it...the kid is going to think his moms is a hoe... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 ...such a wierd subject. I think it's different for a guy to say yes or no...cause dealing with a baby's father, is nothing like dealing with a baby's mother....ya know?The one love of my life (so far) has a son that is almost 8. Kids love me, and I have no problem with them at all...but there's just a lot of baggage that floats around...I've known and loved this guy for almost 4 years...and we still can't get it together...well, besides the fact that he lives in Boston...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeonstar Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 The girl I started seeing and just fell in love with (see my other recent post) happens to have a 7 year old boy. Doesn't bother me one bit. I adore her and he is a cutie so I'm fine with it. There is no dad to ever deal with, he died about 7 years ago. I'm my girlfriend's first love since him. I almost feel I'm not worthy of that... but she sure seems to think I am. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entao25 Posted January 13 Report Share Posted January 13 I'm kinda "seeing" a guy with a child, like the cutest kid ever...there's nothing cooler than that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted January 13 Report Share Posted January 13 I WISH I HAD SOMEONE TO SEE... PERIOD... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entao25 Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 hey I know how it is...I want to really be seeing someone too. You think I am? Well how bout, he's married. So I'm not seeing him after all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 Originally posted by entao25 hey I know how it is...I want to really be seeing someone too. You think I am? Well how bout, he's married. So I'm not seeing him after all. we should both get together... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 14 Author Report Share Posted January 14 Well, I praise those of you who can..I mean I never would want to b/c say if thngs do work out right..I want us both to have our first child together. Plus if you marryu a guy with a kid, who takes care of there son say, you an always have baby mama drama. My poor friend goes through it now and he is in hell Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gambitrah Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 i have and would again..met a girl and when we hooked up she was 3-4 months along..was with her the whole pregnacy and was at her daughters birth..then was there 3 months later when her mom died of ovarian cancer (RIP)...ill post a pic sometime of the little cutie...i love them both very much..to bad were not datin anymore..o well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sonicinfusion Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 done and over it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbravo Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 def would. a woman is a woman, that is who ya fall in love with. the kid is an extra but with strings attached. realize that you'll never be the father, but maybe a father figure which i kid def needs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belladiva26 Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 Originally posted by fierydesire Well, I praise those of you who can..I mean I never would want to b/c say if thngs do work out right..I want us both to have our first child together. Plus if you marryu a guy with a kid, who takes care of there son say, you an always have baby mama drama. My poor friend goes through it now and he is in hell i guess we're the only ones that see eye to eyea lot of you guys say "ya, id do it"........... but wait til you hear that kid running around, screaming, being a brat, crying, keeping you up at night, getting you sick etc.. its not its all cracked up to be cute kid or not.......it was hard spending so much of my time with someone else's child and not being able to discipline him the way i wanted when he was getting out of line Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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