tastyt Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 A couple of threads here made me wonder- Who usually says it first? Guys or girls? Who feels it first?I would be so scared to be the first one to utter those words! But it's never been an issue because the guy has always said it to me first, before I even felt that way.From stories I've heard it seems like this is usually the way it goes... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 i said it first when i was with my bf... something i read or saw on the news scared me and i guess it made me realize how fragile life is... it made me see how things tomorrow aren't promised and i decided that even if he didn't say it back or feel the same way, at least i'd know that i said it... and i did it and it was probably the scariest thing ever but i'm glad i did it cause he was really scared to tell me and it just worked out... i hate when i recall the sappiness... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 In my mind, who says it is unimportant....The most important thing is feeling it inside..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 I heard...guys usually say it first. If I felt I really loved my partner I'm pretty sure I'd say it, I don't have a problem saying anything else that's on my mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 28 Author Report Share Posted January 28 Originally posted by marcid21 In my mind, who says it is unimportant....The most important thing is feeling it inside..... Yeah that's sweet and all but it really didn't answer my question now did it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 the guy. i try to be indifferent for as long as possible Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 The guy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 who cares love sucks:mad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted January 28 Report Share Posted January 28 Originally posted by tastyt Yeah that's sweet and all but it really didn't answer my question now did it? who cares love sucks And I guess that did???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 who says it first?whoever cums first. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 29 Report Share Posted January 29 i think usually the ladies feel it first, but the guys say it first... IMO... I know i would rather be the first one saying it rather then the first one hearing it. just my feelings... thats like one of the hardest things to do... cause you have to time it so right because you dont want to say it and not mean it, or mean it and not have the person reciprocate... i think thats just crushing... what do you do tasty? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 I always say it first Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wisdom Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 yeah I'd say the guy...but over half the time he means damn your sexy...lets get it on right nowfor me its usually one of the first things I say...right after the hello hug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 30 Author Report Share Posted January 30 Originally posted by dgmodel i think usually the ladies feel it first, but the guys say it first... IMO... I know i would rather be the first one saying it rather then the first one hearing it. just my feelings... thats like one of the hardest things to do... cause you have to time it so right because you dont want to say it and not mean it, or mean it and not have the person reciprocate... i think thats just crushing... what do you do tasty? Ugggh, the first time it happened, I said "I really like you... a lot." Poor guy. Well I was 15, what do you expect? Since then, I just smile, and give the guy a big lingering hug. For one thing, we don't have to look at each other during that awkward moment. But it hasn't been so bad because I did fall in love with them eventually, so when I finally did say it to them it meant more; there was no doubt that maybe I was just saying it just because they already had. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 Originally posted by apotheosis who says it first?whoever cums first. lol That was funny! Nobody thought that was funny??? common Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 30 Author Report Share Posted January 30 Originally posted by apotheosis That was funny! Nobody thought that was funny??? common MIKEY! What have I told you about laughing at your own jokes??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 Originally posted by tastyt MIKEY! What have I told you about laughing at your own jokes??? babe its the guys, sadly. I am too afraid to say it because I fear the rejection I may get from them. However I do know that when they say and we give them a weird look and don't say it back they feel just as rejected. I hope that I can look past feeling insecure about that and be able to say it when I feel it regardless if the guy says it first or not.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 30 Author Report Share Posted January 30 Originally posted by fierydesire However I do know that when they say and we give them a weird look and don't say it back they feel just as rejected. You mean sorta like this?: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 :laugh: Exactly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 Not ME Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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