fierydesire Posted March 26 Report Share Posted March 26 Do many of you think that you can provide this? Touching is as important a form of communication as speaking or writing, especially between lovers. Men as well as women will benefit from more frequent, intimate, touching. From a small stroke on the arm as you drive down the road, to a night filled with sensual massage and lovemaking, touching will improve your health, your attitude, and your relationship. Humans are spiritual, emotional, and physical beings and touch plays an integral part in our perception of our world and those in it. It is the one form of communication that allows individuals to be to be drawn into a spiritual, emotional, and physical union all at the same time. Sex is important in a relationship, but so are all of the ways we touch each other. Begin your massage with your partners back and shoulders. Rest your hands on his shoulders and fan your palms outward across the back. Use broad, sweeping motions over the shoulder blades. Try a firm, kneading movement along the top of his shoulders. As you will feel him relax, you can press deeper into the muscles. From the nape of his neck, stroke down each side of his spine with gentle pressure. Trace your fingers along his sides or to each side of his spine to bring your hands back to his neck to start the downward strokes again. Do this a few times, gradually adding more pressure with your thumbs. A bit sexual no?.....Position yourself to face down your partners back and use the long, effleurage movements along his back. Pushing your strokes from his shoulders to his butt and pulling your hands back up along his sides. Do this stroke a few times, then change your focus to the lower back. Use pressure and kneading movements low across the back and into the buttocks muscles. Move to the upper thighs and lower butt. Massage each muscle group using friction, kneading, and rolling movements. After a few minutes move down lower, and, while supporting your partners foot, use your thumbs, to apply firm pressure to the calf muscles. Alternate thumbs as you move down the muscle. After you finish both calves, it's time for the feet. Support the foot and use your thumbs to apply firm pressure along the instep. Use circular movements over the ball of the foot, and firm, smooth strokes leading to the toes. Between the firmer strokes, use light touches with your whole hand and feathery strokes with your fingertips along your partner's body. Make eye contact and make sure the two of you are in constant physical contact with each other. Massages are more productive and relaxing when your muscles are warm.Any volunteers? I could use some practice to enhance my skills;)If so don't forget the oils thanx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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