i was in one once. it was a girl i was seeing. We both were seeing other people as well, but one night we met up down the shore at a club. she came with friends, one of whom i went to college with. well everybody came back to our beach house, and even thought there were plenty of places to sleep, the college friend sadi i want to stay with you guys. we were all pretty drunk so we figured it didn't matter and then my girl said that her friend wanted to be w/ both of us - and how did i feel about it. i wanted to but tried to play it cool and said watever she wanted. So we all went to bed together and to tell the truth i was soooo overwhelmed that i was like a minute man.......i took care of the ladies though. it was definitely fun and i'm glad i did it, but it was a lot going on