I dont know you, so i wont post anything bad...but i do agree w/ everyone else and i know both michelle and carisa personally. If someone tells you to back off, dont be a child...you're never gonna get that candy...no means no. Why keep trying in means of private messaging her friends and so forth, it will get you no where. If you know the girl is not feeling you, the best answer would be to move on. If you are smart like you say u are, than u wouldn't be repeating yourself over and over again trying to prove a non-existing point.