SHIT, I want to buy you a drink, you hit the nail on the head. In all 3 of your posts you are correct. I am friend with an ex, she is dating a girl who she left me for. She said she left cause she was scared of commitment. We still fight once in a while too. I never really got over her. Anyway now, she is saying she wants to come back. But her ex is in the way. I don't care anymore. I have a feeeling when she wants to come back I am going to lose my interests.