it can be used in the bf/ gf context, but not the way it was used. A guy has a girl, but he wants to see another one at the same time, yet he wants to do no work, or MINIMAL work in order to achieve and maintain his goal. Or a guy has a girl who is amazing to him, and also loves to have threesomes with him as well. He has the best of both worlds, or is having his cake and eating it too (if this particular guy loved threesomes). [This message has been edited by Pershoot (edited 10-30-2000).]