sorry if you asked the girls, but i felt the need to respond: girls want different things... personally, i go for the extroverted ones, the ones that take my bait (and what i means by "bait" i mean the look, the smile, the game...if you dont know it, dont ask); i dont waste my time with girls who dont give you the time or day...youll be wasting valuable time... and then? go up and react to the what you see around you...duh, youre both fucking there in the middle of the dancefloor, so you have SOMETHING in common, right? from then on it's about your social competence, and thats not my territory anymore...thats yours....good luck in the future bro...