hmmm... the physical i like flyguys...for those who don't know: a flyguy is a cutie who is in good shape, with some muscle definition (but not a meat heat!), and knows how to dance! the mental he has a good sense of humor, knows how to be a gentleman, can carry on a conversation, is an outgoing, progessive thinking free-spirit, is emotionally stable, mature when he has to be, has ambition, and can keep up with me! am i asking for a lot?? ------------------