firegirl, i was very impressed with your articulate response. it's good to know people actually paid attention in their english-grammar classes. (my pet peeve is bad grammar, & misspelled words, aghh it drives me crazy, i don't know why) as for the topic... i can't really add any suggestions, there is no way to control someone else's behavior. just keep a watchful eye on everyone when you're out. -kathy ------------------ things to see, people to do... hehe lavkrap@aol.com